Anirudh-Saudamini : Betrayal never comes from enemies - Page 3

Originally posted by: WarriorB

This is a great review of a great episode!!🤗My outlook towards Anirudh's oblivious nature to Saudamini was always that more than attachment to her, it arises from a really strong subconscious attack on his guilt system. Also, I felt like once Bondita really comes into his picture, everything else kind of becomes relative to Bondita. How is Kaka behaving in relation to Bondita, how is Baba behaving in relation to Bondita? What is the motive behind what Baba is saying in relation to Bondita? So the same thing he applied to Mini too. So, upto this point he saw Mini being Pari didi to Bondita. Now, when Bondita says differently, he is instantly on his guard. I like that line he says towards the end of the episode that Tumne Bondita ke pyaar ka, mere vishwas ka faida uthaya hai, HUMARE bhole pan ka faida uthaya hai. Which is what these 2 bholu bachas have been with regards to Mini. Also I have missed Anirudh's self righteous anger so much, what can I say! 😆

Originally posted by: Ayu_12

Saudamini tum andhi ho gayi hoo 🤣

Originally posted by: Arpita_De

Absolutely right, his world revolves around Bondita, he never considers Bondita different from him, he always associates her with himself... When he was upset with Bondita it was about them and now when he is disappointed with Mini it's still about them, he n Bondita 😆 Did you guys notice after bed wetting track when he told Saudamini "There is no husband-wife relationship between me n bondita" he didn't say "She is not my wife" 🤣 People criticized him so much for that line but I felt he was frustrated more due to not having husband-wife relationship with Bondita (Husband-wife type understanding) don't take me wrong I mean if Bondita 18-19 Ki hoti tho he would've been on cloud 9 happily living a proper marital life with her 😆 Even I loved that 'Humare bhole pan'

Don't worry that phase will come too . But right now bondita needs to educate first. Phir dekho ani bon ka pyaar in future.

Originally posted by: Arpita_De

Absolutely right, his world revolves around Bondita, he never considers Bondita different from him, he always associates her with himself... When he was upset with Bondita it was about them and now when he is disappointed with Mini it's still about them, he n Bondita 😆 Did you guys notice after bed wetting track when he told Saudamini "There is no husband-wife relationship between me n bondita" he didn't say "She is not my wife" 🤣 People criticized him so much for that line but I felt he was frustrated more due to not having husband-wife relationship with Bondita (Husband-wife type understanding) don't take me wrong I mean if Bondita 18-19 Ki hoti tho he would've been on cloud 9 happily living a proper marital life with her 😆 Even I loved that 'Humare bhole pan'

Yes. Yes. Yes. Even when he says there is no husband wife relationship between them, it felt more like a keep Bondita away from all the unnecessary drama of biwi, bahu, riti riwaj thing. She is too young for all this. Also, I feel like ARC does this thing where he says something in a public setting about their relationship n in the confines of it, he is different. I do NOT mean this as a diss. Like he just keeps some things limited to between them. In the HM track when Bondita tells him to say Shotti he will take her out in the last box in front of all the other girls, he does say it. But, later when he comes to get her into the last box, the way he says shotti is so different!!

Yesterday there was a part where Ani felt the pain of bon he said "pata ni kaisi rahi hogi bon un gidhado ke saath ".

Brothel track was the reality and somewhat bon experience the worst part of her life . She saw the killing of her Rasiya di , she experience the helplessness being as a girl the pain etc when Aniruddh and Saurab they saw the same thing but Ani being her husband saw that helpness which he can't erase from their life.

He was speechless with bondita bravery and bold. Also his whole body shakes with the thought what if he didn't came in her rescue what they would have done to bon ?

That is why he is now hating each person who made bondita goes through that hell. Right now bondita can't explain what she might be going through but once she will grown up she will be in extreme guilt that I wish I could save her.

What bondita is experiencing is the reality and with each step she is growing and becoming bold. With each bondita worst phase ani is coming closer to her.

Originally posted by: WarriorB

Yes. Yes. Yes. Even when he says there is no husband wife relationship between them, it felt more like a keep Bondita away from all the unnecessary drama of biwi, bahu, riti riwaj thing. She is too young for all this. Also, I feel like ARC does this thing where he says something in a public setting about their relationship n in the confines of it, he is different. I do NOT mean this as a diss. Like he just keeps some things limited to between them. In the HM track when Bondita tells him to say Shotti he will take her out in the last box in front of all the other girls, he does say it. But, later when he comes to get her into the last box, the way he says shotti is so different!!

Originally posted by: Arpita_De

You are right, Ani was and in fact he is still oblivious about many things around him and that's natural because his journey started after returning from London where Bondita's journey started only at the age of 8. We get matured through our experiences.... I loved the fact that he has already learned many things from his Hira Mandi experience, I have said it many times Bondita learns from her day to day experience so it's easy for her to complete the syllabus but for Ani it's different... He has a lot of things in his plate and he needs time but slowly he will reach where he is supposed to stand.

Exactly.... I remember when Rasiya blamed him and called him hypocrite, I felt like it was partially justified because even if Ani has the best intentions, he is yet to learn many things about the society he wants to change. Two reasons why he is in dark about them is

1. He is a man and hasn't experienced the discrimination the women faced.

2. He belongs to an influential family that is respected by the people. Also he spent so many years in London where he never saw such things around him.

So Bon is actually his spectrum that will walk him through all this. I have a feeling that Bon has a lot more to face as she grows up so that they can both challenge these beliefs.

Originally posted by: Ayu_12

Yesterday there was a part where Ani felt the pain of bon he said "pata ni kaisi rahi hogi bon un gidhado ke saath ".

Brothel track was the reality and somewhat bon experience the worst part of her life . She saw the killing of her Rasiya di , she experience the helplessness being as a girl the pain etc when Aniruddh and Saurab they saw the same thing but Ani being her husband saw that helpness which he can't erase from their life.

He was speechless with bondita bravery and bold. Also his whole body shakes with the thought what if he didn't came in her rescue what they would have done to bon ?

That is why he is now hating each person who made bondita goes through that hell. Right now bondita can't explain what she might be going through but once she will grown up she will be in extreme guilt that I wish I could save her.

What bondita is experiencing is the reality and with each step she is growing and becoming bold. With each bondita worst phase ani is coming closer to her.

On the other hand Anirudh knows the reality of Hira Mandi, he knows what happens there, he used the term gidhado that itself says his awareness about the danger. Body kya his soul, rooh kaanp jati hai whenever he associates that place with Bondita. That must be a terrible feeling for him, Hira Mandi was a much more horrible experience for Anirudh than Bondita because Bondita's struggle was limited to how to escape that PLACE where Anirudh wanted to bring her out of that LIFE.

Originally posted by: AK_2010

Exactly.... I remember when Rasiya blamed him and called him hypocrite, I felt like it was partially justified because even if Ani has the best intentions, he is yet to learn many things about the society he wants to change. Two reasons why he is in dark about them is

1. He is a man and hasn't experienced the discrimination the women faced.

2. He belongs to an influential family that is respected by the people. Also he spent so many years in London where he never saw such things around him.

So Bon is actually his spectrum that will walk him through all this. I have a feeling that Bon has a lot more to face as she grows up so that they can both challenge these beliefs.

Originally posted by: Arpita_De

Anirudh Roy Chowdhury, the MAN who not only has immense respect for the opposite gender but also in a way worships WOMEN is witnessing another side of that gender, the poisonous side. Every coin has two sides afterall.

Absolutely agree with you arpi....👍🏼when ani had seen the Durga side of a woman in women like sumati , rasiya and even bon, he had to see the darker side of woman in tara bai and even worse side in his so called childhood friend🤪afterall one will value light only after facing the dark

Anirudh specifically after the Hira Mandi track believes that Goddess Durga resides in every woman, he demands for equality but actually keeps the females on a much higher level. He has mostly seen the good, vulnerable strong & defensible side of women in the form of Sumati, Sampoorna, Rasiya, Bondita etc yes he has experienced evil outsiders like Mami n Tara Bai but Tara Bai was a stranger and Mami hardly matters to him. But Saudamini is no stranger..... Since his childhood he was under the impression that 'She understands him'. He wasn't even close to his own family as much as he was close to Saudamini. He used to share his views, his plans with her be it about himself or even Bondita. Saudamini was that person in front of whom he used to pour himself as Saudamini's age made it easy for him to do so. Saudamini has always been self oriented but this harmful side of hers is a devastating reality for Anirudh. He never ever thought Saudamini can 'Harm' anyone to such extent.

Exactly what i said above arpi👍🏼his goodness within him made him that every woman are good within like durga maa .Its not his fault because he might have seen his sweet mother in his childhood and after he lost her may be mini was the only woman in his life....but she always pretended infront of him hence he never even thought of woman can have a darker side too....but now he saw evil side of woman like tara bai and hence he had to realise his mini was even worse🤬...cant agree more with you arpi.....he values women on a higher level above woman❤️

However subconsciously he had realised Saudamini's understanding level on his marriage day itself when he was crying like a kid and literally begging In front of her to listen to him just once but she was too engrossed in her own lose. From that very day Anirudh started going away from her, not because of Bondita but because of her own self centred nature. Saudamini was like a beautiful 'Painting' where Bondita turned out to be an amazing 'Reality' and eventually made it easy for Anirudh to focus on present n future instead of crying over the past. However Anirudh being the GEM of a person continued to stand behind Saudamini like a true friend. He was never 'In love' with Saudamini but he 'Loved' her plus he had failed to fulfill those unsaid/implied promises between them thus her health, her state of mind, her condition was a 'Priority' to him. Even after his marriage with Bondita, Saudamini's chapter was incomplete, she was a complicated part of his life But NOW finally that chapter is coming to its conclusion in Anirudh's life. @ul: 👏beautifully written❤️.yes mini chapter is finally coming to a proper closure in his life that too teaching him an important lesson to never trust what you meet your eyes

Finally Saudamini's EVIL side is coming in front of Anirudh, he is watching the REAL face of hers. But it's not easy for Anirudh..... hope he handles him well....but he is lucky he has got kaka and bon to handle him well❤️

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"Per Pari Didi ne mere sath bura kyun kia?" Her innocent mind asked HIM and he got alarmed, "Kya bura kia Mini ne tumhare saath BONDITAAAA?"

Listening her answer, her intuition HE got numb, because he not only believed those words but he literally lived that moment which Bondita was explaining to him. He could see HIS Bondita running, shouting for help behind HIS Mini and Mini, nooooo Saudamini ignoring her, leaving the little girl in a place like Hira Mandi. This part of his line showed how much he is selfless😭he wasn't bothered about mini hurting him much but bothered for kaka and a little girl who was crying for help in such a dangerous condition....he is truly a gentleman and as rasiya said this is how every man should be ....one who respects woman and every human being ❤️

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Anirudh is famous for his short temper n impulsive actions but he has learned from his Hira Mandi experience that dealing with a matter in calm and composed manner can give success. Hence he is trying hard to control his emotions...... afterall it's his duty to give justice to Bondita completely, it's his responsibility to re-establish the dignity of Kaka in society. Agree👍🏼

Just like coconut phone is a means of communication between Anirudh-Bondita, BINOCULAR was something through which Saudamini used to infringe the privacy of Anirudh, it was her means to enter into the personal life of Anirudh, Anirudh is using that same means to enter into her secret : symbolising how Anirudh planning to use Saudamini's own tactics against Saudamini. Wonderful analogy arpi👏mini's ani had a relationship with binocular and bon's ani is close to coconut phone but here the difference is binocular was one that could intrude into someone's privacy or just show things that could meet our eyes...but on other hand coconut phone took heart to heart voice that cannot reach everyone but only the destined one, only between those who can understand each other, that may not reach one's eyes but straight away reaches one's heart❤️...glad ani used mini's favourite prope to see her reality🤪

Anirudh is someone who always puts others before himself. His own heart is bleeding due to the betrayal of his childhood companion but he is more into the pain and torture Kaka and Bondita went through. If it was only about Anirudh he would have charged her directly but since it involves Kaka & Bondita as well HE is more FOCUSED and determined.

"Khatarnak the, per woh gair the Baba, unke irade janta tha"

"Mini niche gir gai"

"Main apni Mini ko bohat aache se janta hnu"

"MERE SAR ki kasam khake bolo"

"Satyameva jayate"

"Tum saach mein andhi ho gai ho Mini"

"Kya khoob abhinay kia"

"Ek choti si bachchi k pairo k niche se woh seedhi kheech li?" All these lines showed everything that he was going through at that moment...hatsoff to makers and pravi for this scene👏

HIS disappointment, his frustration, his agony he is keeping all that inside him only for his family (Kaka, Bondita). Not at all easy for him, every time he moved close to the window, he felt like jumping out of it and charge Saudamini but he controlled for Bondita, for Kaka, for 'Satyameva jayate'.

ANIRUDH ROY CHOWDHURY is that unfortunate person who seeks solace in the beauty of innocence which his little bride carries with herself, as there is basically no one who can read him. I think he is the most fortunate to get such an innocent soul in his life because kids never judge unlik adults.....but yes I is unfortunate not a single adult is there to understand him...atleast someone of his age💔

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Today's episode was wonderful, specially the part where Saudamini was dancing engrossed in her own delusion and Anirudh was bashing her in his mind. That's exactly how these two character stands in life, Saudamini in her delusional world lost in herself and Anirudh looking at the bigger picture, trying to figure things out. I loved the cinematography there, very thoughtful and obviously wonderful performance by Pravisht.

Special mention to pranali too....I think she was brilliant in yesterday's episode👏

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My parts in ul arpi😳

Beautiful edit...but painful fact too ...caption 🥺