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Posted: 4 years ago
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I am writing this after I read few comments about eijaz faking.. But Today i was watching Eijaz cry and I truly felt he hs some real issues.. Befor u judge me to be his fan let me say I am not supporting Eijaz this season.. even supported rubi in all prev incidents.. but today i felt that eijaz needs help..


i have someone known who is going through depression.. and its the same kinda reactions.. at one moment they will be all nice and normal and then next minute they will hv a breakdown..Self harming he did another part of depression.. he is channeling al the inner anxieties to himself with that self harm..and calling them words like “pagal” is very very triggering..

My personal experience I was having a normal fun banter with that person having “depression”.. In between our talks I normally told “are u mad..”.. Man..! She created an issue that I called her mad.. when all i said was in a fun way.. like u generally ask someone irritating you for fun..

So point here is that Jasmin, Rubi etc would b telling him “task me pagal” in a normal sense how we speak generally.. But for a person going /gone through depression its a big deal!! I wont be blaming others for this general talks, but I wish all you give him a benefit of doubt atleast.. 💝

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Posted: 4 years ago
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If he really needs help, BB should be ashamed for letting a vulnerable person participate in the show, to begin with. There are things triggering him and I think he needs to be pulled out of the show immediately. His behaviour in the precap is sub-human and I think he certainly has destroyed his own image.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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If he gets a good loving caring partner / wife...he can be happy....

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I think he’s financially helpless and only in show for it

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Jasmine didn’t mean harm, at least seems like she is just joking. But rubina is mean and kept calling him mentally unstable, anybody who is going through a difficult time would hate hearing the words rubina uses for him. I don’t even like ejaz but I feel sorry for him anytime I see rubina talking about him or mocking him. I have not seen recent episode yet

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: stunninstar

I am writing this after I read few comments about eijaz faking.. But Today i was watching Eijaz cry and I truly felt he hs some real issues.. Befor u judge me to be his fan let me say I am not supporting Eijaz this season.. even supported rubi in all prev incidents.. but today i felt that eijaz needs help..


i have someone known who is going through depression.. and its the same kinda reactions.. at one moment they will be all nice and normal and then next minute they will hv a breakdown..Self harming he did another part of depression.. he is channeling al the inner anxieties to himself with that self harm..and calling them words like “pagal” is very very triggering..

My personal experience I was having a normal fun banter with that person having “depression”.. In between our talks I normally told “are u mad..”.. Man..! She created an issue that I called her mad.. when all i said was in a fun way.. like u generally ask someone irritating you for fun..

So point here is that Jasmin, Rubi etc would b telling him “task me pagal” in a normal sense how we speak generally.. But for a person going /gone through depression its a big deal!! I wont be blaming others for this general talks, but I wish all you give him a benefit of doubt atleast.. 💝

Thanks Stunninstar for your thread. Once does not need to be fan of anybody to be human.

It is really sad affair that people suggesting that Ejaz should not be in BB. First, he did not do anything wrong or harm anybody. He did not even abuse anybody. Other behave worse than him physically, mentally and emotionally. Everyone has right to be in BB house if follows BB rules. But some of us has no heart.

Before writing anything against people with depression or mental condition think twice. There may be Ejaz's sister, brother or father reading our comment. Let me tell you, their family members suffer more than the person who is sick. His parents and siblings suffer more than him. Thanks god, Ejaz is in very good condition, there are couple of words which makes him weak, apart from that he is behaving better than most of house mates.

One person who really came out as person with golden heart is Shardul, I hope he stays. Actually, None of these 3 (Shardul, Naina and Rahul) deserves to go.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: akniti

If he gets a good loving caring partner / wife...he can be happy....

I dont think its that easy.. You should read about this.. Its not like they purposely behave indifferently at times but sometimes they do.. and it would be difficult for partners/spouses.. Even parents find it hard to take that.. You should have a very understanding personality to keep up with such person.. I hope Eijaz siblings and parents stand with him tall amd strong and help him out

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Originally posted by: mz.gigglez

I think he’s financially helpless and only in show for it

Was just checking his Wiki page.. I dont think he should be having so much monetary issues.. He has been doing shows continuously.. He had very less breaks.. Yeah he wouldn’t be the superstar he once was.. but he never had any less of shows.. infact i guess it was nishant who actually struggled out of lot
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: stunninstar

Was just checking his Wiki page.. I dont think he should be having so much monetary issues.. He has been doing shows continuously.. He had very less breaks.. Yeah he wouldn’t be the superstar he once was.. but he never had any less of shows.. infact i guess it was nishant who actually struggled out of lot

He said in the last episode he has 4000 rps in account he took 1.5 lakh loan from friend to come on bigg boss and prepare im assuming for the clothes etc. He slept without food during lockdown. Man is unstable emotionally and i can see why he’s acting crazy cuz he thinks thats the only way he can remain in the show by giving content

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: akniti

If he gets a good loving caring partner / wife...he can be happy....


Say what...?! Haven’t you read of his past? Gimme a break!

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