head v/s heart (Riddhima)

Guys i am totaly anti Riddhima , but after yesterdays episode i was forced to think her side of conflict she is going through
When you are expected to take major decisions of your life all by yourself and you are in two minds I think it becomes very agonising especially when it concerns your heart.
I feel Riddhima is passing the most painful and lonely phase of her life.
She is at conflict with herself and trust me fighting with your own self is an uphill task. her heart is with Armaan but head tells her that he is not her kinds and this battle between her heart and mind is taking its toll on her. ( i presume her language and behaviour)
She wants to be near him ,feel his presence but at the same time reminding herself that everything is over now
Infact she is not hurting Armaan she is hurting herself a lot more than Armaan
Armaan has one battle ,i.e to win his love back but she has two first aginst her own heart and second to hurt Armaan which also injures her brutally .
Her mind is happy that she returned the payal,her heart weeping that Armaan broke it
when kada fell on the ground it felt like a part of her has also fallen down the pain was so visible there
when dupatta got tangled on the counter top, head told her to be abusive towards Armaan but her heart bleed on seeing that he is not the one holding it and her eyes asked him why not this time Armaan
In audotorium head forced her to be rude to Armaan but her heart was longing to share the honour with him, her eyes were sad and she was feeling incomplete
It is not Angis or Armaans or anyones fault infact it is her upbringing which is very bookish and not worldly. she is still raw ( not seedhi sadhi) to understand that reality is dramatically different from fiction.
Actually at this age all young ppl have fantasies and their own funda of life but with passing age and experiences all our theories and concept change and we learn what life is actually about.

In the end i just want to add that in the battle of head and heart,
though head has more reasoning power and strong the heart needs just
one weak moment and eventually heart rules the relation.
their relaton is not exception ,they both are longing to be with each other,they also knows each others worth just a weak moment thats all they need now and hopefully they are already on their way to that journey, next turn they are meeting and from there will be together for the rest of their lives

Please do share your view on this

Very well written 👏

I totally agree with you, girls are very senti...their head & hearts want to rule at the same time....

i luv ridz 2 bits but l8ly shes bin makin me soooo mad dat iv wnted 2 throttle her n even more so since yesterdays epi. but after reading ur post u hav made me thoda shant 😆 evry bit of wat u sed deservs 👏 evrything u sed makes alot of sense but i wish dez 2 wud just get ova it, apologise n get bak 2getha, but clearing d misunderstandings 1st. ur ryt dey just need a weak moment n dat will b d end of it all. ridz needs 2 use her heart n 4get her brains wen it concerns arman, cuz her brain always tells her d wrong thing 2 do.

Very nice explanation.................I agree with you 100%.

I am very hopeful that besides some petty
nauk - jhaunk they wont go any down furthur, and lets tighten our seat belts for take off.

👏 very nice 👏 👏 👏 . i'm really truly happy dat u hv tried 2 c things frm riddhima's side 😛 . aftr yesterday's episode i actually expected dat atleast some of d anti-riddhimas will understand her and sympathise with her now. thank u sooooooooooooo much 4 dis post. u hv truly&deeply understood riddhima and i'm sure dat dose who 'll read dis post will b able 2 think in favour of riddhima too. thank u sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo very much 😛 .

I wif Armu all the way! But this post is making me think as well! 😳

no i naver agree with u , or jab se aaj ka episod dekha he i really hate ridz , ; well dekha jaye to ur all point is to good ,BUT ARMAAN KA KOI 1 BAD POINT TO DIKHAO ? ARMAAN KITNA CHANGE HO GAYA HE FIR BHI RIDZ USKI KADAR HI NAHI KARTI . KUCH RIDZ KO BHI CHANGE HONA CHAIYE HAR BAR YEHI SOCH KI ARMAAN CHANGE HO JAYE GALAT HE. OR WESE BHI DUNIYA ME HAR INSAN AIK DUSRE SE CHANGE HI HE. TUMHARI JESI SOCH HE WESI SOCH KISI OR KI HO HI NAHI SAKTI. HA SOCH SIRF MIL SAKTI HE .R MAIN POIN p.y.a.a.r. ME INSAN KO THODA BAHOT LET GO KARNA HI CHAIYE . but at this time i m with ARMAAN and gonneeeeeeeeeeeeeee HATE ridz

Originally posted by: mosum

no i naver agree with u , or jab se aaj ka episod dekha he i really hate ridz , ; well dekha jaye to ur all point is to goot ,BUT ARMAAN KA KOI 1 BAD POINT TO DIKHAO ? ARMAAN KITNA CHANGE HO GAYA HE FIR BHI RIDZ USKI KADAR HI NAHI KARTI . KUCH RIDZ KO BHI CHANGE HONA CHAIYE HAR BAR YEHI SOCH KI ARMAAN CHANGE HO JAYE GALAT HE. OR WESE BHI DUNIYA ME HAR INSAN AIK DUSRE SE CHANGE HI HE. TUMHARI JESI SOCH HE WESI SOCH KISI OR KI HO HI NAHI SAKTI. HA SOCH SIRF MIL SAKTI HE .R MAIN POIN p.y.a.a.r. ME INSAN KO THODA BAHOT LET GO KARNA HI CHAIYE . but at this time i m with ARMAAN and gonneeeeeeeeeeeeeee HATE ridz

you didnt realise i am not defending any of the two
and myself is with Armaan
just trying to show the turmoil Riddhima is going through.
when something bad happens in a relation both the partners get affected
and we can see on screen the hell Armaan is going through but read between
the lines and try to see it is far more tough and heartwrecking for Riddhima though onscreen it is not highlighted or u can say the spotlight is not on her yet

I am disagree with u.R is not a kid o.k every girl want security, love, passion.Every time ARMAAN gave all whatever was required at that moment.He can:t tolrate a single sigh of a person(KASAULI FIGHT) although he was annoyed with her so much. He can ruin her life .Still she is not sure. QUES.is she is dr. or alien can:t feel luv still not sure.One solution let ARMAAN die and than next plz. THAT KIND OF GIRL CAN:T LIVE WITH ANYONE.There is always gud /bad qualities in every one but she need perfect.I think GOD.