Disappointed with this show

Hello everybody.i was a silent reader on this forum but today i have to say whats is my mind...i liked this show because of its innocence and different story from saas bahu shows. But now the story has diverted the original.bonditas education her independence and bringing change in the society that era.its saas bahu in a way now which too much drama.honestly i feel im the only one who actually liked mini initially but they butchered her character by making her character stoop so low.i loved her chemistry with annirudh but dislike the fact she is forcing herself on him.

In a way its annirudh fault he should have been blunt with mini and tell her he has moved on and now he only cares for bondita well being now.he should have told her i do not love you and never will.maybe mini would give up and be a well wisher for anirudh.im sad because i really liked mini and annirudhs pairing and she could be a support for him for his struggle for bonditas education.deep down i still wish mini to realise that she is wrong and regret what is she doing by helping anirudh and bondita.because i like pranali as an actress she is good with her acting and i love pravisht and pranali offscreen pairing.they look so cute together offscreen too.

Bondita is a child and for me to accept hers and anirudhs pairing as husband and wife is rather weird for me.but maybe because its that era so its normal but i dont know why im finding it difficult still.maybe i was focusing on the freindship on her relationship with anirudh.i dont know.i wish things and writers write a script that focus more on her education and anirudh support of her becoming a barrister

The episodes make me feel depressed.i feel so bad for bondita.expectations for a small child is too much.as bondita says kya kya karegi yeh nanhi bondita..uff i feel so terrible for her.aurra is fantastic as an actress.she definitely does justice as bondita.

Im so sorry for a long rant post but i had too.its too much buliding up for so long.sorry if anyone felt bad on my opinion.and sorry if i have offended anyone by my words.i truly loved this show the characters,i know a lot of you guys love bondita and anirudh together and i respect that throughly.

See I agree with your point on Mini

But then this in ITV and let me be honest but ITV always takes an easy route...

It would have been a complex story if Mini was positive

ITV takes the easiest route which is to make one person negative...

Though I dont agree with the Anirudh's point of yours

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

See I agree with your point on Mini

But then this in ITV and let me be honest but ITV always takes an easy route...

It would have been a complex story if Mini was positive

ITV takes the easiest route which is to make one person negative...

Though I dont agree with the Anirudh's point of yours

Thats the problem with itv.the constant need to show negativity in everything.

No problem dear.i feel everyone has a point and has different opinions.i just shared my views and frustration because i was hoping for a good context in a show and this show is produced by shashi sumeet who created good shows in the past.eventhough the concept of the show is good.storyline has been haywire and diverted unnecessary whether its minis track or brothel track.

I agree that people are feeling frustrated with what boni is going through.. even I was really pissed off the moment bondita started crying for d whole episodes since last few epis n had to even leave for her mother's village.

But to be honest, ladies used to have this kind of life during that era.. even worst. Makers r showing us some glimpses of that. Child marriage, sati pratha, women not given their due rights in society, n many more difficulties were there.. in fact husband remarriages, ladies n kids getting sold off to brothels also was very common.

We have gotten so close to our sweet darling boni that we can't just even imagine her going thru all that.. 😭 Infact we can't even see any lady or a kid thru all this as we do not belong to that era n our thought process is above all these now.. infact my mom used to tell me that there was this incident of that era where a very beautiful married lady was kidnapped in broad daylight in front of everyone in their town by dacoits, n nobody even resisted to save her..

females have gone thru a lot in the past. 😔 We are very lucky to not having spend our life during those times..

Even today there is a lot that needs to be improved but those days were in fact horrible, take d very recent Hatras n Balrampur cases.. so still there is lots that needs to b improved..

So coming back.. just chill n enjoy d show.😊

I don't think they will ever show boni going thru all those extreme situations..

Coming back to ani minni.. ani did have feelings for her n it took him time to accept his marriage with boni n dump his feelings for her, also, I agree a lot of viewers wanted ani minni marriage as their age gap is perfect n cannot accept boni as she is just a kid. Infact show makers have never shown any kind of lovers angle between ani boni anytime. Infact they will never even show it before the leap. But boni came to ani's home as his wife so everyone will obviously treat her as the daughter in law of that house.. infact sadly to say but child marriages still happens in some parts of our country.

Leaving this point aside, ani being married now cannot continue with minni the way minni wants, but yes he is immensely supportive to anyone who is part of his life, therefore he keeps supporting her as well. Take d instance of ani wanting to make boni's mother a part of his family but obviously he cant force sumati to do so.. infact it won't be surprising if she spends d end years of her life as a part of ani's family in his mansion with all d respect an elder deserves, which can b common these day but not during those times. That's how ani thinks.. he wants to bring revolutions but fails many a time as it is not easy to fight all alone(who supports him for those changes.. no one). Moreover he belongs to a powerful family n loved by all in his family, therefore d resistance I feel is not that bad.. had he been a nobody common villager then obviously he could help boni d same way but bringing d revolutions wud have been even more difficult for him.

So concluding with ani's character, he is also in a learning phase n this track shud teach him a lot.😊

We all are here to see an altogether different story via ani boni's journey, which was unimaginable in those days..👍🏼 so let's enjoy till then with whatever makers present to us n wait for our vivacious boni to b back at her home❤️

N I hope I have not hurt anyone's sentiments with all this.. m really sorry if I have😊 kabhi kabhi mai shayad jyada hi senti ho jati hun😉

N i completely agree that the makers have gone too far with minni's plotting this time🤢 it was completely unnecessary

Originally posted by: mannu_123

I agree that people are feeling frustrated with what boni is going through.. even I was really pissed off the moment bondita started crying for d whole episodes since last few epis n had to even leave for her mother's village.

But to be honest, ladies used to have this kind of life during that era.. even worst. Makers r showing us some glimpses of that. Child marriage, sati pratha, women not given their due rights in society, n many more difficulties were there.. in fact husband remarriages, ladies n kids getting sold off to brothels also was very common.

We have gotten so close to our sweet darling boni that we can't just even imagine her going thru all that.. 😭 Infact we can't even see any lady or a kid thru all this as we do not belong to that era n our thought process is above all these now.. infact my mom used to tell me that there was this incident of that era where a very beautiful married lady was kidnapped in broad daylight in front of everyone in their town by dacoits, n nobody even resisted to save her..

females have gone thru a lot in the past. 😔 We are very lucky to not having spend our life during those times..

Even today there is a lot that needs to be improved but those days were in fact horrible, take d very recent Hatras n Balrampur cases.. so still there is lots that needs to b improved..

So coming back.. just chill n enjoy d show.😊

I don't think they will ever show boni going thru all those extreme situations..

Coming back to ani minni.. ani did have feelings for her n it took him time to accept his marriage with boni n dump his feelings for her, also, I agree a lot of viewers wanted ani minni marriage as their age gap is perfect n cannot accept boni as she is just a kid. Infact show makers have never shown any kind of lovers angle between ani boni anytime. Infact they will never even show it before the leap. But boni came to ani's home as his wife so everyone will obviously treat her as the daughter in law of that house.. infact sadly to say but child marriages still happens in some parts of our country.

Leaving this point aside, ani being married now cannot continue with minni the way minni wants, but yes he is immensely supportive to anyone who is part of his life, therefore he keeps supporting her as well. Take d instance of ani wanting to make boni's mother a part of his family but obviously he cant force sumati to do so.. infact it won't be surprising if she spends d end years of her life as a part of ani's family in his mansion with all d respect an elder deserves, which can b common these day but not during those times. That's how ani thinks.. he wants to bring revolutions but fails many a time as it is not easy to fight all alone(who supports him for those changes.. no one). Moreover he belongs to a powerful family n loved by all in his family, therefore d resistance I feel is not that bad.. had he been a nobody common villager then obviously he could help boni d same way but bringing d revolutions wud have been even more difficult for him.

So concluding with ani's character, he is also in a learning phase n this track shud teach him a lot.😊

We all are here to see an altogether different story via ani boni's journey, which was unimaginable in those days..👍🏼 so let's enjoy till then with whatever makers present to us n wait for our vivacious boni to b back at her home❤️

N I hope I have not hurt anyone's sentiments with all this.. m really sorry if I have😊 kabhi kabhi mai shayad jyada hi senti ho jati hun😉

N i completely agree that the makers have gone too far with minni's plotting this time🤢 it was completely unnecessary

Beautifully said.yes its terrible to see bondita suffering so much.she becomes the scapegoat to save everybody whether is sampoorna or anyone else and yet she suffers😔im sorry if i wrote too much too but i couldnt take the nonsense anymore.its really sad thinking what women in those era had to go through.it creeps me out and thanking my stars of not going through what women went through.

Originally posted by: jacinta_91

Beautifully said.yes its terrible to see bondita suffering so much.she becomes the scapegoat to save everybody whether is sampoorna or anyone else and yet she suffers😔im sorry if i wrote too much too but i couldnt take the nonsense anymore.its really sad thinking what women in those era had to go through.it creeps me out and thanking my stars of not going through what women went through.

U dont need to feel bad for whatever emotions we go thru while watching our dearest boni in pain. We should now infact b ready for such incidents as they are going to b a part of this show.. we will continue to keep getting disappointed n hurt whenever such tracks will be shown to us..

I wud suggest u to watch those happy moments of ani boni which made us fall in love with d show.. to revive our ever sinking moods of this week😉

Take this one for instance 😆❤️, it's so funny to listen to a kid saying about his life being destroyed n over🤣. I just cant stop laughing when i hear her say that:

https://youtu.be/oHr18z0b4Ns

Or this one😆

https://youtu.be/595u-treBs0

I agree with most of ur points but about Mini - right from the beginning makers have shown her to be a shallow girl. Anirudh never spent a lot of time with her and they were just kids when he got infatuated with her. Mini cared less about Ani’s dreams and aspirations. She might have loved him, not denying it. But she loved Anirudh Roy Choudhury - a man who could give a her luxurious life in London and the boy who was enamoured by her beauty. Even after Ani got married all she cared about was if the girl was prettier than her. She wanted to marry Ani so that she could goto London and make him forget about his ambitions so that he could worship her and her beauty all the time. She gave two hoots about his goal in life whereas Bondita would grow into a woman who would understand his dreams and walk in his footsteps to carry forward a legacy he wanted to build. Mini would never do that. So I never saw her as a positive character even in the beginning. Yes I do like Pranali and Pravisth pairing but AniMini? Other than being a good looking pair I saw no compatibility between them in terms of their characters in the show.

About the show kinda disappointed with the way they are trying to show Bondita all mature. Like trying to save her sister’s marriage when it should have been the other way round. Sampoorna should have been her support system and guide. Bondita didn’t understand the meaning of marriage and now she understands the implications of dowry for which she put her marriage and her family reputation at stake? And she thinks of Ani as her God? It was cute when she thought of Ani as her rakshas babu. It was natural for a kid to perceive adults the way she sees them. Even when Ani was injured, she wasn’t fussing like other typical bahu who would pray non stop for her husband’s recovery. She did pray but because her concern was more towards getting scolded from her kaka sasur. She did want Ani to be cured, not because he was her husband but she couldn’t see him in pain just like she wouldn’t want to see anybody else in that state. I really miss those small things which made this show different from others but I wonder if I should have got attached to it. At the end of the day it’s an ITV show and can’t expect much else coz no matter how well they start off, they will take saas bahu route for the sake of TRPs.
As for Ani, his character took a U turn when he asked her to leave the home for one mistake. Bondita was a child. Just like how he understood that wetting a bed is a problem a child is facing he should have realised she is a child who can’t tell right from wrong. Even if she wasn’t being blackmailed for Sampoorna’s sake she could be brainwashed by a God man. After all she is a kid who doesn’t understand the truth about such people. If his own uncle was fooled by him then how will Bondita stand a chance against that brijwasi? As for his feelings for Mini, won’t say they are right. It’s kinda complicated. He still doesn’t know how shallow she is. Had he spent a lot of time with her after his return from London he would have eventually drifted away from her realising she can’t be his life partner. He was still crazy about her when he married Bondita. And he is also dealing with guilt coz he had promised to marry her and couldn’t. No matter how selfish Mini is, she is a human and her heart was broken and he feels responsible for that. He doesn’t think of Bondita as a wife. He only wanted to save her life and be her guardian. He took the step of marrying her to stop her own selfish family from taking her life. He never felt he was her husband for one moment. So how will he be bound to her by love and fidelity? But where Mini is concerned he should realise that being associated with him will only put her down before the society and he should let go of Mini, not for Bondita’s sake but for her own sake.