Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me
He can tell dis line to mishti because he knows whenever he will go with one sorry n shayri. This girl will forgive him with in a few seconds
He always has her. He say anything n push her away but still dat girl will always be der for him. She ran away from her own wedding to be with him( it's not something to be proud of because you r putting ur family to face humiliation. No parents deserve dat).
Even when he said to her because of nanko he left her dat girl didn't ask a single question to him . Just forgive him in a second.
Abir also knowns he is d centre of her world. Her whole world revolves around him . I huv Said it before also I don't know whether dis much love is healthy or not??
She was stopping herself to speak d truth in front of every one during Varun's track as she promised him d moment she saw abir begging In front of varun because of her. She said d truth.
She huv always put abir before herself, her family n even her self respect
I totally agree Mishti has always sacrificed herself, her self-respect, her everything for Abir.
But I don't think Abir has ever taken that for granted. Never.
Whether this kind of sacrificial love is truly healthy and practical for life...I don't know. It's complicated. Not easy to pick sides.
We've all been in awe of how much trust mishbir have on each other - whether it be Abir not believeing BB about Mishti's secret jasoosi during Baba track, and then Mishti's undying faith that Abir broke the rishta off because of some majboori.
No sane, normal person like us would ever think that someone could have that much trust on another person, especially given the circumstances they were put in. So there are moments like that, where the makers have made mishbir look so so idealistic and out of this world, that we end up expecting them to be like that all the time. Which is frankly not possible. Two individual people can never be in so sync that they never have conflicts. Mishti and Abir are two individuals who do wonders when working as a team, but that doesn't mean they can't have differences of opinions. There is nothing interesting, and no mystery left in a relationship where they are always in support of each other no matter what, always knowing what the other thinks or wants without communication etc. Realistically it doesn't work that way haina?
That's why I'm liking these clashes they are having, it maintains some substance and grit to their characters because they are flawed individuals, and so there will be some obstacles as a couple.
The main issue people are having is the fact that Abir n Mishti are unnecessarily sqaubbling over a topic such as Kuhu, or previously...kuhu & kunal's relationship. I understand that frustration, it bothers me too that the writers cannot think more outside of the box, but at the same time - I was saying this a couple days in the LU - mishti and abir are just so understanding and know each other so well that in many other aspects of life (work, social etc) they just wouldn't have serious problems or conflicts, because they would immediately understand what the other is feeling or thinking. The only times we have seen them 'fight' or have differences is when it involves, family - which directly relates to BB, Kunal and Kuhu inevitably. You cannot deny that these two are so family-orientated people, that ultimately they will end up having clashes in regards to their family members.
Sorry, I did ramble on a bit too much. I completely understand what you're saying. But I'm just trying to grab a bigger picture view.
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