Relationships - Page 2

Thanks what an awesome post....
👏 Now if we give this to AR and knock some sense into their heads??!! 😆

👏 👏 👏 u n notty r amazing writers!! not everyone can convert the thoughts n feeling into words!! u cud do that 👏 n unfortunately our AR r not able to..

from the past 2weeks there is a lot of friction goin on in my mind whenever i think of dmg..was unable to decide if its just to drag the show or is there a serious thought behind all this..there was trust in some corner of my heart that creatives who gave such wonderful moments cant do such commerical gimmicks.. but the violence was pissing me off n was compelling me to doubt that trust..but after reading ur post my random thoughts got a direction..now, if i try to relate it to real life, i find its actually a very intelligent n brave decision that the writers have made..leaving the matter that who's right who's wrong, the emotions n turmoil both of them r going thru is real n makes sense if u consider them as two individuals with wide differences in personality n upbringing..n when i turn into my life, i remember a friend who had a troubled childhood n he cudnt let his lover go when they had differences n i see arman in that position now.. relationships r really not easy to understand..n love/marriage is a really complex one..one which needs lot of understanding.. understanding each other n ur own feelings..which AR will take some time to get to that point... but they shudnt have shown so much violence either verbal or physical, though its real, i somehow cant digest it..so,lets trust the creatives n hope they will give some really nice food for thought n sweet epis..

i am really happy to see such mature ideas very well written in this forum..kudos to all of u!! 👏

gr8 post 😳 !
agreed w/ everyting u sed, they both need to step back 😳

One of the hardest lessons in a relationship is learning that you cannot change your partner. The only person you can work on and change is your self.

When things are not going well in a relationship its easy to think that if only he/she were not like this or if only he/she changed this or that,things would be great.

Love for your partner can be a great motivating factor to change but love alone cannot change the person. Both A & R have to be willing to look at themselves, their impact on each other, acknowledge their shortcomings and then work on them.

Armaan wants her to match his passionate love for her, she wants some of her sensibility to rub off on him. And maybe it will hapen one day but only if they both work on it as individuals and as a couple.

This post is a masterpiece...Relationships can indeed be complex.

Armaan's passion, pushiness and demonstrativeness can easily scare off any girl who wants to take things slow.

And Ridz's ideology of Mr. Perfect needs some refinement. When you fall in love with a guy, you are fully aware of their vices and virtues. Expecting them to change immediately thereafter to suit your requirements is totally unfair.

So I agree with you. It is a classic case of - falling in love is easier than staying in love. Love is not a one time deal where confessions are the end of the road. There is the "what-next" factor called - reality.

You need to be committed, develop trust in the other person and most important of all - communicate your feelings openly. You need to let yourself go and soak yourself into a relationship. It takes time, effort and patience. There will be roadblocks along the way - you need to overcome them together - sensibly. If you let misunderstandings seep through the cracks of your relationship, it can never be mended. But if you constantly work together to cement the cracks, your relationship will grow stronger with time.