*Long post alert*
Last night I was really angry on bon specially after precap and I'm still upset with her.. but after calming down I realized few things and here's my take on it
1. Since day1 she never wanted to leave her ma.. in fact she's not ready to get married until she got confirmation from her would be husband that her mom will stay with her. Ik I only repeated many times that she's obsessed with her mom but now suddenly(ya I'm tubelight) I feel I can sense where is this coming from. Let me tell you my own experience, my mom being first child and a girl was very very close to my grandpa. I never ever saw her that attached to my grandma while grandpa was alive but after sudden demise of my grandpa my mom became so emotional, more attached/concerned towards my nani.. even she tells that now she's(my nani) my ma and papa both. My mom being a matured woman got so affected.. so I can relate with bon rather her doing ma jaap. She's only her mom as her own. I agree she tells things like sasural is her home and she cares for them.. but still it's been few days into her marriage.. this new family and even Ani has not yet achieved that place in her life. It'll happen eventually. There will be time when she'd choose Ani happily over everyone else in life. But right now it's unfair to expect this from her.
2. Now what she's saying in precap.. see even sampoo was not ready to leave her sasural and husband and was willing her husband to support her but the moment her husband said things against her parents she got offended even when she's fully aware that what he's saying was absolutely correct. Still she couldn't take her husband rather someone insulting her parents. Similarly bon is seeing Ani shouting on her ma,telling her that she's no right on her..only he's. Though these 2 girls are married now but still they're new to their new family. They still feel more attached to their mayka. With time they'll get more attached to their sasural. And this is again relatable as this happens in real life too. I'm not trying to defend them but ppl do behave like that.
3. No one is perfect. In fact perfect characters never atttact me. No one is completely white(positive) or black(negative) like we usually see on ITV. mistakes happen..people learn from them. And eventually become better person. So somewhere I am fine with the fact that they're not showing bon's character too perfect to be true. Bon and Ani both are strong personalities. When one partner is dominating and other one is submissive,life is thanda. But when 2 ppl like Ani and bon come together then their journey is worth watching!
P.S.
1. I believe sumati is biggest disappointment here. She's just brainless🤬 Period
2. Ani definitely doesn't deserve this and I strongly want bon to regret and apologize to him.
3. Sorry for long post.. kuch jyada hi long ho gya.
I understand all of this, but some stuff she is doing is completely, I mean *completely* out of her character.
Sumati is dumb.
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