'Memoir by Sushant's Brother-in-law ' - Page 3

He was such a baby for his family, so pampered and protected.One can't even imagine how big their loss is.

heart touching ....

but why wasn't you there to console him .... ?

talk to him about his problems ... ?

why ???

Originally posted by: TakingAStand2

Such a beautiful post! This is his oldest sister’s husband, correct. He was quite close to them.

His family is just so classy and dignified. They understood his desire to be a risk taker and achieve his wildest dreams, but they never controlled him. Just let him do his thing. I loved the last bit about being a warrior prince. Indeed, the barriers he broke, he stereotypes he shattered, with sheer talent, and perseverance, whilst still maintaining his individuality, that’s the stuff to inspire generations of hopeful aspirants.

And, to fans of , and those who know sushant, the wide grin, mischievous twinkle, We know exactly what he is talking about. And, those who watched sushant Over the years, or just got to know him, there was a sense of apnapan. Haq se bol bhi sakte ho.., there is just something so warm and friendly about Sush and even his family.

Gonna miss you, bud.

What a warm heartfelt note. ❤️

I knew where he was coming from. This poor 16 yr old boy who had to lit his mother into flames was never the same again. I can imagine the silent terror which was gripped by his heart, not killing it, not letting it live. The only ray of hope left probably was that bill-board and his aspirations of doing big in life , i dont know- for himself or his mother-.

No matter what someone say , i am forever going to believe bollywood ruined him. Dont come attacking me with saying bollywood made him what he was because its not the truth. He was who he was because of himself. Whether or not he killed himself , but bollywood did shatter his already fragile mind and his confidence. If anyone who disagree can go and check the exponential degradation of his self confidence. From being eternally happy and having good set of friends, he was down to saying ' people call me few times and then they stop. I think they find me boring'.

Not once or twice, he had repeatedly stated he thought he was boring because people would not listen to him.

I agree he was not naive or Godly but he was innocent!! Not made for this facade world. He was an introvert in the world of glamour and pretence. Poor guy thought only talent was required to make big here. What did he know. 💔

Yes he couldn't fit-in. He wasn't multi-faced.

He was multi-talented.

I read a blind that stated producers refused to release drive on theatres because sonchiraiya flopped and they didnt think people would want to watch a film with the same 'leading man'. Can someone make me count the number of hits Sonam kapoor or Ranbir kapoor have given to deserve all that they have? Not saying Ranbir is not a good actor but i didnt come across any blind stating anything even remotely close despite having train of flops.

Doesnt matter if anyone else read those blinds or not because sushant for sure read them. He even googled himself a few hours before his death as per reports of his phone! Apparently they definitely bothered him!!

The background that he was coming from, does anyone have any idea what false metoo accusation could have done to him? Forget professionally, how horrifying it must be for him and for his family and the extent of embarrassment he must have endured in case he had to justify himself to his family?

I dont know if his dream was gone, but his shine was definately gone. He always looked tired. Tired of everything.. Even kedarnath's success didnt do any good to him. And ofcourse, he wasnt even acknowledged by people who he wanted validation from.

Anyway, if he indeed killed himself, bollywood should have atleast some shame and so do people trying to reason why bollywood was not responsible for what sushant did to himself.

He was a dreamer. And so driven that it must have taken a lot to end it all and its a shame.

Yes depression sometimes dont have a reaon, but his, had one.

Bollywood is not the same for me ..

No matter how it sounds, but it will be better if i find out he was murdered because it will give a sense of relief that they didnt break a very strong headed man , bit by bit, piece by piece every single day for years.

It was beautiful ❤️❤️. And finally , we've got an insight into his personality which was more than books, astronomy , srk and spirituality. He knew him inside out. Sadly , those who claim eternal love for him couldn't understand him completely. And that goes for everyone. Have read so many eulogies for him, but this is the best description written for him. Well put and written . Am amazed how articulate he and his family members are. Btter than those who think using big words like 'conjectures' here and there makes them sound intelligent, articulate and British. Just imagined him as I read this beautiful piece.👌👌

Originally posted by: Scarlet.ferro

What a warm heartfelt note. ❤️

I knew where he was coming from. This poor 16 yr old boy who had to lit his mother into flames was never the same again. I can imagine the silent terror which was gripped by his heart, not killing it, not letting it live. The only ray of hope left probably was that bill-board and his aspirations of doing big in life , i dont know- for himself or his mother-.

No matter what someone say , i am forever going to believe bollywood ruined him. Dont come attacking me with saying bollywood made him what he was because its not the truth. He was who he was because of himself. Whether or not he killed himself , but bollywood did shatter his already fragile mind and his confidence. If anyone who disagree can go and check the exponential degradation of his self confidence. From being eternally happy and having good set of friends, he was down to saying ' people call me few times and then they stop. I think they find me boring'.

Not once or twice, he had repeatedly stated he thought he was boring because people would not listen to him.

I agree he was not naive or Godly but he was innocent!! Not made for this facade world. He was an introvert in the world of glamour and pretence. Poor guy thought only talent was required to make big here. What did he know. 💔

Yes he couldn't fit-in. He wasn't multi-faced.

He was multi-talented.

I read a blind that stated producers refused to release drive on theatres because sonchiraiya flopped and they didnt think people would want to watch a film with the same 'leading man'. Can someone make me count the number of hits Sonam kapoor or Ranbir kapoor have given to deserve all that they have? Not saying Ranbir is not a good actor but i didnt come across any blind stating anything even remotely close despite having train of flops.

Doesnt matter if anyone else read those blinds or not because sushant for sure read them. He even googled himself a few hours before his death as per reports of his phone! Apparently they definitely bothered him!!

The background that he was coming from, does anyone have any idea what false metoo accusation could have done to him? Forget professionally, how horrifying it must be for him and for his family and the extent of embarrassment he must have endured in case he had to justify himself to his family?

I dont know if his dream was gone, but his shine was definately gone. He always looked tired. Tired of everything.. Even kedarnath's success didnt do any good to him. And ofcourse, he wasnt even acknowledged by people who he wanted validation from.

Anyway, if he indeed killed himself, bollywood should have atleast some shame and so do people trying to reason why bollywood was not responsible for what sushant did to himself.

He was a dreamer. And so driven that it must have taken a lot to end it all and its a shame.

Yes depression sometimes dont have a reaon, but his, had one.

Bollywood is not the same for me ..

No matter how it sounds, but it will be better if i find out he was murdered because it will give a sense of relief that they didnt break a very strong headed man , bit by bit, piece by piece every single day for years.

Blinds are a prblm. But not everyone reads them. Especially ppl like me who ain't interested in bollywood gossip. I've come to know about them only after his death. Still he was always in news and headlines of reputed newspapers like TOI which made me believe that he was arrogant ,pervert and success had gone to his head. Not that it mattered when watching his films. Obviously , in movies it was his character which was appreciated. Ppl who don't read blinds still someone were fed those gossip stories through verified and reputed newspaper. And his downfall started in 2016 after dhoni's success.

I visited that blinds site osop few days back and searched his name. From 2016 to 2020 ,there were a total of 31 or 32 blinds about him which is the max about anyone. Compared it with his contemporaries like kartik aaryan about whom blinds started after the success of sonu ke titu ki sweety and he became a part of that insider circle, there were a total of 9-10 blinds about him from 2018 till now. For rajkummar ,they were as less as 3-4. Rao though is a brilliant actor hasn't still found BO success. Which is one of the main reasons he isn't considered a threat. So among his contemporaries, ssr had the most no. Of blinds ranging from kriti calling him 'truck driver' to him hooking up with aamir's wife to #me too to him having an affair with mukesh. He was made out to be everything sick that a person could think of. These things ain't true but it hurts that these things were picked up by newspapers which made him a joke and tarnished his image.

There was systematic bullying and mental harrasment. Metoo allegations collided with him contributing 1.5 crore to kerala and nagaland floods(when other stars were contributing only in lakhs). The amount he earned from drive was contributed to goodwill. Sadly, this goodwill was overshadowed by the allegations on him that followed.

Amidst all this, i also tried to read blinds about star kids as some ppl here claimed were written but couldn't find even a single as malicious as these. Read some about kriti having one night stands etc etc . Compare that to alia whose blinds are mostly about her career and films she's doing. Correct me if i'm wrong.

Also noticed 1 thing amidst the search, in 2017 while promoting raabta he got into a feud with a journalist. Several blinds were written after that. Then in the same yr he fired his PR manager, i think rohini iyer saying that they're spreading rumors about him. Several blinds outpoured after that . Then he dissed 'befikre' after which he was tagged as 'overpaid' and 'too big for his boots' and a 'wannabe A lister'. 2017 was a happy yr for him. He was getting invited to big parties thrown by manish malhotra, Kjo , Ekta , kriti and rohini iyer. Everything went downhill after that.

I am not a movie buff but have been researching alot these days and have noticed these things. From kedarnath's posters to interviews to reviews ,everything was about sara. He was intelligently sidelined. While everyone sidelining and bullying him is responsible including the audience and trolls ,his underactive , good for nothing PR is to be blamed too , for not celebrating his successes, for not putting him in the spotlight, for not avoiding unnecessary negative limelight and for not doing efforts to clear his image.

Beautiful...❤️

Everytime I read something said/written by his family members......I always wonder......so much class and grace.......with what all is going around them.....and if they were a greedy/needy family.....imagine what they all could have done for themselves as a family if they wanted to.....but NO......at this time.....the class they are showing....My God.....no wonder why Sushant was the way he was.....Imagine having the same DNA as these people or being guided by these people.....a fruit doesn't fall far from the tree......HATS OFF to Sushant's family...

The real Sushant. The beautiful boy who enamored all with his charm and drive in life. The family clearly adored and pampered him so much. Their baby! Imagine losing their boy in this manner. The grief is unimaginable. But, just like Sushant his family as well stands out due to their grace and dignity. I wish them all the strength in the world.

Originally posted by: lifeiscool

Blinds are a prblm. But not everyone reads them. Especially ppl like me who ain't interested in bollywood gossip. I've come to know about them only after his death. Still he was always in news and headlines of reputed newspapers like TOI which made me believe that he was arrogant ,pervert and success had gone to his head. Not that it mattered when watching his films. Obviously , in movies it was his character which was appreciated. Ppl who don't read blinds still someone were fed those gossip stories through verified and reputed newspaper. And his downfall started in 2016 after dhoni's success.

I visited that blinds site osop few days back and searched his name. From 2016 to 2020 ,there were a total of 31 or 32 blinds about him which is the max about anyone. Compared it with his contemporaries like kartik aaryan about whom blinds started after the success of sonu ke titu ki sweety and he became a part of that insider circle, there were a total of 9-10 blinds about him from 2018 till now. For rajkummar ,they were as less as 3-4. Rao though is a brilliant actor hasn't still found BO success. Which is one of the main reasons he isn't considered a threat. So among his contemporaries, ssr had the most no. Of blinds ranging from kriti calling him 'truck driver' to him hooking up with aamir's wife to #me too to him having an affair with mukesh. He was made out to be everything sick that a person could think of. These things ain't true but it hurts that these things were picked up by newspapers which made him a joke and tarnished his image.

There was systematic bullying and mental harrasment. Metoo allegations collided with him contributing 1.5 crore to kerala and nagaland floods(when other stars were contributing only in lakhs). The amount he earned from drive was contributed to goodwill. Sadly, this goodwill was overshadowed by the allegations on him that followed.

Amidst all this, i also tried to read blinds about star kids as some ppl here claimed were written but couldn't find even a single as malicious as these. Read some about kriti having one night stands etc etc . Compare that to alia whose blinds are mostly about her career and films she's doing. Correct me if i'm wrong.

Also noticed 1 thing amidst the search, in 2017 while promoting raabta he got into a feud with a journalist. Several blinds were written after that. Then in the same yr he fired his PR manager, i think rohini iyer saying that they're spreading rumors about him. Several blinds outpoured after that . Then he dissed 'befikre' after which he was tagged as 'overpaid' and 'too big for his boots' and a 'wannabe A lister'. 2017 was a happy yr for him. He was getting invited to big parties thrown by manish malhotra, Kjo , Ekta , kriti and rohini iyer. Everything went downhill after that.

I am not a movie buff but have been researching alot these days and have noticed these things. From kedarnath's posters to interviews to reviews ,everything was about sara. He was intelligently sidelined. While everyone sidelining and bullying him is responsible including the audience and trolls ,his underactive , good for nothing PR is to be blamed too , for not celebrating his successes, for not putting him in the spotlight, for not avoiding unnecessary negative limelight and for not doing efforts to clear his image.

Like I said , it was never about whether or not public read the blinds. He read it. He knew it.

He knew there was constant attempts at destroying his hard earned reputation.

Thay knowledge is enough to rottle him.

I have seen that interview where he was having a behes with journalist. That journalist was being utterly disrespectful to both him and kriti. She was deliberately instigating him.

And I noticed this even when he was alive and had mentioned it then too. I wasn't even his fan.

Are you talking about same rohini iyer who is roaming around calling Sushant her best friend ?

Originally posted by: Scarlet.ferro

What a warm heartfelt note. ❤️

I knew where he was coming from. This poor 16 yr old boy who had to lit his mother into flames was never the same again. I can imagine the silent terror which was gripped by his heart, not killing it, not letting it live. The only ray of hope left probably was that bill-board and his aspirations of doing big in life , i dont know- for himself or his mother-.

No matter what someone say , i am forever going to believe bollywood ruined him. Dont come attacking me with saying bollywood made him what he was because its not the truth. He was who he was because of himself. Whether or not he killed himself , but bollywood did shatter his already fragile mind and his confidence. If anyone who disagree can go and check the exponential degradation of his self confidence. From being eternally happy and having good set of friends, he was down to saying ' people call me few times and then they stop. I think they find me boring'.

Not once or twice, he had repeatedly stated he thought he was boring because people would not listen to him.

I agree he was not naive or Godly but he was innocent!! Not made for this facade world. He was an introvert in the world of glamour and pretence. Poor guy thought only talent was required to make big here. What did he know. 💔

Yes he couldn't fit-in. He wasn't multi-faced.

He was multi-talented.

I read a blind that stated producers refused to release drive on theatres because sonchiraiya flopped and they didnt think people would want to watch a film with the same 'leading man'. Can someone make me count the number of hits Sonam kapoor or Ranbir kapoor have given to deserve all that they have? Not saying Ranbir is not a good actor but i didnt come across any blind stating anything even remotely close despite having train of flops.

Doesnt matter if anyone else read those blinds or not because sushant for sure read them. He even googled himself a few hours before his death as per reports of his phone! Apparently they definitely bothered him!!

The background that he was coming from, does anyone have any idea what false metoo accusation could have done to him? Forget professionally, how horrifying it must be for him and for his family and the extent of embarrassment he must have endured in case he had to justify himself to his family?

I dont know if his dream was gone, but his shine was definately gone. He always looked tired. Tired of everything.. Even kedarnath's success didnt do any good to him. And ofcourse, he wasnt even acknowledged by people who he wanted validation from.

Anyway, if he indeed killed himself, bollywood should have atleast some shame and so do people trying to reason why bollywood was not responsible for what sushant did to himself.

He was a dreamer. And so driven that it must have taken a lot to end it all and its a shame.

Yes depression sometimes dont have a reaon, but his, had one.

Bollywood is not the same for me ..

No matter how it sounds, but it will be better if i find out he was murdered because it will give a sense of relief that they didnt break a very strong headed man , bit by bit, piece by piece every single day for years.

Bollywood changed him so much. If you hear Harshad Chopda speak(KDMHMD fame), he says clearly how for all of them Sushant was the kid on the sets. Came to the sets fully colored on holi, played pranks on everyone, was a baby to all of them.

From there, he went to being told by others how he was boring and just didn't fit in.

My heart breaks every time I think about his mental state.