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Originally posted by: AreYaar

There is nothing wrong or weak with seeking acceptance. But Kangana is trying to make Sushant sound like a pitiful bechara by describing him as “misguided” in seeking acceptance. She’s saying the same about Taapsee simply because Taapsee refuses to tow her line about being hateful towards the Chopras and the KJos. Just because everyone doesn’t make this as black and white in order to do tamasha doesn’t give someone like Kangana the right to come and pass judgements on how “A or B” grade they are. She sounds like a megalomaniac who thinks she alone knows all truths about everyone, and she alone has “overcome” the big bad world.

She is nothing like Sushant no matter how she wants to spin this. Something broke in her a long time back and is now only filled with hate and venom.

Anyways, I hope people will find a way to move on now that DB has released and they can stop giving oxygen to every 2Rs tamasha that people are doing in the name of so called “justice for Sushant”.

I totally agree with you on her and I do not agree in anything she is trying to say about Sushant. He was surely not bechara like she is making him or infact, even some of his fans are making him. She is just spewing venom. But I wasn't getting why some of his fans thought it being negative and hating Anurag on saying he quest after big names.

@Bold; I genuinely hope it does stop and I might sound insensitive when I say that I laugh reading few of proofs, but I do hopelessly. 😆

Originally posted by: sensodynee

Seeing the series of events happening post Sushant death reminds me climax of Welcome. When everyone assume Lucky is dead and to convince RDX they make story that with him only reason is gone and with that narrative everyone is doing circus having their own version and fooling around without being respectful to dead one. Here also it is same, Sushant died and people around are milking new way to be in news and Kangana is surely one of them!

Comeon, people take her seriously (on any of her narrative on blaming someone for death) after she saying that the proof she has is using the reference of the game Kill, Marry, Hookup. I mean seriously?!?

I don't know what is she gaining from all this. When you are using someone reference (here Ankita) to make a point then I don't think I will give any weigh to her, but I surely know and think it is no wrong when Anurag or she say that Sushant wanted acceptance from YRF or Dharma.

He always looked for acceptance from the people whom he liked and it didn't bother at times if he got double love from his loved ones. If he liked someone then he did everything to gain their attention.

He was same guy who dropped Bihari Rajput surname from his twitter handle when Padmavati issue was going on. He is not a Rajasthani Rajput and that Rajput is different from Bihari ones, but he did it because he wanted look cool like those BW ones. He always tried to be someone he is not when he wasn't getting attention he wanted from the people he liked.

Honestly, I don't even see it is wrong or something negative because aren't we looking for acceptance?! In a way or other we are working for acceptance, validation, recognition. I don't think It makes him or anyone wrong for thinking like that, because it is very human and shows that he was also a human nothing much different.

Before, I use to think when someone dies then the biggest loss to the person who dies and the loved one around because they suffer, but now seems we need to add circus with it which people play around in name of that dead person and try to be in news.

Agreed with most of what you said.

Kangana is not innocent. Not at all. In fact she seems to have become so vindictive and filled with venom that she seriously needs help herself. Her whole life seems centred only on negativity and carrying out a witch hunt for others right now. She's fulfilling her own agendas with this too.

And most of the people who are commenting on sushant's death are being drawn in primarily because of their own past struggles/wounds or trying to bring themselves or their own stories in. Everyone seems to be an authority on it.

What struck out to me in this interview was that other than abhishek kapoor and shekhar kapoor, she was the one who actually said it that sushant craved acceptance but wasn't getting it in the industry and that led him to change desperately. The only difference I see is that these three people have said it in their own different ways- kangana spoke of it in her megalomaniac way, gattu spoke of it in accepted despair and with familiarity as someone who has seen the struggle and change within ssr in front of his own eyes, and shekhar kapoor of course in altogether different way- but baat ek hi ki hai sabne. The examples kangana gave were just more striking cos they happened in front of us. (I find it hard to believe though that ankita was kangana's source and would tell her details of personal life of her ex. Although the rest of the minor details were impressive.. The part about ssandeep whatever...and Sushant and ankita actually did attend kangana's party long long back- I remember we were left wondering how they even did get an invite lol!) And it stands out because while gattu and shekhar kapoor were genuinely close to sush, she was not. It is a different and more realistic account of him than what the rest of Bollywood has given.. People who didn't know anything about him. Like you compare that rohini iyer rant on Instagram with this.

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Agreed with most of what you said.

Kangana is not innocent. Not at all. In fact she seems to have become so vindictive and filled with venom that she seriously needs help herself. Her whole life seems centred only on negativity and carrying out a witch hunt for others right now. She's fulfilling her own agendas with this too.

And most of the people who are commenting on sushant's death are being drawn in primarily because of their own past struggles/wounds or trying to bring themselves or their own stories in. Everyone seems to be an authority on it.

What struck out to me in this interview was that other than abhishek kapoor and shekhar kapoor, she was the one who actually said it that sushant craved acceptance but wasn't getting it in the industry and that led him to change desperately. The only difference I see is that these three people have said it in their own different ways- kangana spoke of it in her megalomaniac way, gattu spoke of it in accepted despair and with familiarity as someone who has seen the struggle and change within ssr in front of his own eyes, and shekhar kapoor of course in altogether different way- but baat ek hi ki hai sabne. The examples kangana gave were just more striking cos they happened in front of us. (I find it hard to believe though that ankita was kangana's source and would tell her details of personal life of her ex. Although the rest of the minor details were impressive.. The part about ssandeep whatever...and Sushant and ankita actually did attend kangana's party long long back- I remember we were left wondering how they even did get an invite lol!) And it stands out because while gattu and shekhar kapoor were genuinely close to sush, she was not. It is a different and more realistic account of him than what the rest of Bollywood has given.. People who didn't know anything about him. Like you compare that rohini iyer rant on Instagram with this.

@Bold: So true!! So rightly said, it is like ok chalo now it time for my story as I might get covered.

I totally get what you and TB were trying to say even I did nod my head on that part when she said that Sushant was looking for acceptance. When we read what she is saying on him it looks like an opinion from a third person point of view and I can see why it makes an impression. It is just that I feel she is milking it and making comments by gathering opinions, and of all making him some bechara, bhook ke mara bina koi paisa, kapade types which I can't watch or listen to from her. lol Rohini's rant was like reading rant of a person called Sushant whom I had never heard or knew.

If I have to pick my favorite post or tweet from someone not close is Neeraj,

twitter.com/neerajpofficial/status/1272186830872592385

This is Sushant! He would do random things like this which would make anyone go what is this guy even doing? 😂 He was an attention seeker like this.

Haha... Indeed.. So sweet neeraj's post is!

From the film fraternity, I would say abhishek and ekta kapoor's words and posts filled me up the most. Abhishek because it kinda was on lines of what I had been suspecting and ekta because watching manav and the pavitra rishta song again made me cry.

Anyway, I will wait for everyone's reviews of Dil Bechara. I liked the songs except the title song. :P

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Haha... Indeed.. So sweet neeraj's post is!

From the film fraternity, I would say abhishek and ekta kapoor's words and posts filled me up the most. Abhishek because it kinda was on lines of what I had been suspecting and ekta because watching manav and the pavitra rishta song again made me cry.

Anyway, I will wait for everyone's reviews of Dil Bechara. I liked the songs except the title song. :P

How did you find the film? Have you seen it yet?

Originally posted by: sensodynee

I totally agree with you on her and I do not agree in anything she is trying to say about Sushant. He was surely not bechara like she is making him or infact, even some of his fans are making him. She is just spewing venom. But I wasn't getting why some of his fans thought it being negative and hating Anurag on saying he quest after big names.

@Bold; I genuinely hope it does stop and I might sound insensitive when I say that I laugh reading few of proofs, but I do hopelessly. 😆

LOL then I will sound even more insensitive to you when I say that I’m quite over this pity party/martyrdom mode that people have developed about everything related to Sushant. The more people do crap like this, the more detached I feel from the whole tragedy now.

I guess I’ve compartmentalized it now and can view DB as a stand alone movie rather than some gratuitous eulogy to Sushant as a martyr. It also makes me laugh that people are interpreting every random scene as some secret code from Sushant telling them how depressed he was. It’s gone way overboard. Basically it tells us how hungry people always are for conspiracy theories and can’t accept factual truths even in front of their eyes.

Sushant killed himself. Didn’t give a reason. You’re not going to get a reason. End of story. He’s gone. Baat khatam. Enjoy his movies and stop fixating on him like some bechara martyr guide. I also am finding it funny that people have started quoting his philosophical posts like some kind of gospel gyaan in life. Swami Vivekanand banaa rahe hain usko 😕😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL then I will sound even more insensitive to you when I say that I’m quite over this pity party/martyrdom mode that people have developed about everything related to Sushant. The more people do crap like this, the more detached I feel from the whole tragedy now.

I guess I’ve compartmentalized it now and can view DB as a stand alone movie rather than some gratuitous eulogy to Sushant as a martyr. It also makes me laugh that people are interpreting every random scene as some secret code from Sushant telling them how depressed he was. It’s gone way overboard. Basically it tells us how hungry people always are for conspiracy theories and can’t accept factual truths even in front of their eyes.

Sushant killed himself. Didn’t give a reason. You’re not going to get a reason. End of story. He’s gone. Baat khatam. Enjoy his movies and stop fixating on him like some bechara martyr guide. I also am finding it funny that people have started quoting his philosophical posts like some kind of gospel gyaan in life. Swami Vivekanand banaa rahe hain usko 😕😆

Originally posted by: priya185

Hi Niki

How did you find the film? Have you seen it yet?

No Priya. I don't think I will be seeing it either. Few personal reasons (nothing related to sushant).

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

By the way, sushant had apparently bought a 20 crore penthouse in bandra for himself and ankita after signing dhoni. This was in 2015, before he broke up with her. Does anybody know if he ever moved into that house later? Because the latest news reports said he was living in a posh flat in bandra on rent..

I used to think it was that place with the maroon walls... the kinda "shabby chic" interiors were really similar to the vibe in Malad. But with everything I've read now I have no idea. Maybe he sold it to recoup the money? I doubt any of us in this thread will know honestly. His ~real fans~ may have an answer for us LOL

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I haven't read the whole interview because in general, I choose not to give any oxygen to the narcissistic megalomaniac that Kangana is. I just find it disturbing that she is so successful in manipulating people's perceptions....like with you guys, the fact that you are Sushant fans looking for some kind of validation regarding his perception and vulnerabilities, she has cleverly put in 1-2 lines pretending like she was a kindered spirit and that's instantly hooked you into lending an ear to what she has to say. She's a high functioning sociopath in many ways....very clever and a very good actress so she is very good at throwing out soundbytes to jump on the issue of the day. I wish people could begin to see past the act to the empty person. For it takes a really empty person to manage to make someone's tragic death also about themselves and their "intellectualism".....the fact that she's thrown out things like Ankita told me Sushant is intellectual like you🤔....anyways shows the level of self-serving exercise this interview was.

Kangana doesn't care about anyone other than herself....her commentary on who is an outsider and who is "b-grade" is also self-serving in the same vein and not some "stand taking" that many seem to think of her to be.

To look for a "Queen" in Kangana is a fallacy to begin with.....she's a fabulous actress, so I can appreciate her talent....but she's a complete psychopath otherwise who preys on people's emotions to get attention in any form.

I hope Sushant can find some peace and isn't turning in his grave seeing psychos like Kangana co-opting his death to make it about some "commentary" on her so called intellectualism and "anti-nepotism morcha".

Boy oh boy, I can promise you I did not think long and hard about any of this. Certainly not on this level. Also not sure how I feel about being called a Sushant fan. 😆 I thought I got to count as a #hater now. I am even in the elite group of people who are blocked on twitter forever. And if y'all knew the thoughts I had about him in my head I really don't think you would call me that lol.

If I'm being for real, I read anything related to this whole fiasco with a very self-serving attitude. At some point I have to admit that when it comes to Sushant and Ankita I am just nosy and invasive and like collecting information. I don't know what I will ever do with this information, especially now, but that part of me refuses to quit. So when I read anything that hasn't been written out before, particularly when it coincides with my own thoughts, I become interested. I felt similarly with Vikas Gupta's post. I pretty much ignore who is delivering the info because at this point... I don't care lol.

When it comes to Kangana I can honestly say I don't know much about her or her history. I try to give most people the benefit of the doubt and think back to how completely misunderstood my own favorites were at one time. Also, with this article I didn't read it as her painting him as a bechaara, but maybe that's because I refuse to ever see him that way? And I didn't believe the "intellectual" line at all, as I pick and choose the parts I want to believe as per my convenience lol. But I will certainly consider what you have written if I ever read more from her.

If I am coming across as a manipulated fan requiring validation then I really need to reconsider the way I write on here lol. I know I have a flair for the dramatic and mostly only come online when I'm in my feelings, but that line was definitely a wake up call!