YRHPK Live Updates/Episode Discussions 16 Jul 2020 - Page 15

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

I was quoting the same thing yesterday in misaki thread...

Yeah Abir is supportive and all.. I appreciate that... in fact we all love it... but but that is not a permanent solution to her distress she has developed Post traumatic stress disorder. The panic attacks the dreams of that dreadful event... She needs counseling and medicines if needed.

Maybe Abir is unaware of her panic attacks she suffered during her childhood days... I hope he talks to BM about her present condition. I know it won’t happen this soon but this is the right path... Abir’s band aid therapy won’t work... this is huge.

Yes Moni🤗

Mishti needs counselling, it's already a lingering issue from her childhood that she didn't get that medical attention (panic attacks). But with BM and BP love and affection she got through her childhood, but still those basic insecurities and fears haunt her, that's why she's still soo scared about being 'the housebreaker' and now after her mistake she knows exactly what society and her so-called family will call her 'Naman's daughter will ofcourse be a 'murderer''🥺😭

Arghh, I guess I was just emotional for mishbir, they don't deserve all this suffering. They just want love and happiness. So simple😳

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

I don't know whether BB would have planned the entire accident or whatever in the resort. But I do have a feeling, during the 3 months she must have realised that Abir is lying about ngo work and hiding something. So perhaps she did learn about the incident, and is now coming up with her plans to get rid of Mishti by proving to everyone she truly is her father's daughter - i.e 'murderer'🥺😒

If she really has purposely chosen Varun as Ketki's rishta just for the sake of her 'plan' then she is truly taking big risks with allowing Ketki to take time to know him just to make it seem like she is being good this time What kind of mother does that? Knowingly allow your child to mingle with someone who potentially has vengeful emotions.

Tis is like Shwet all over again, actually even worse - using a rishta to break another couple🥺

Originally posted by: vidz70

Yess.. The writers need to understand that the bandaid theory will not work out in this serious issue.. It's not like dealing with Kuhu's immaturity.. Hope they address this properly.. Moreover I am not getting over this revenge drama.. I have seen this from my childhood.. They cld have thought something else.. Who will take revenge yaar these days.. 21st century.. Directly go nd tell the police nd get the suspect arrested 😃

haha revenge plot is super iconic and cliche😆

My question is: how does Varun certainly know Mishti is the culprit. If he was there that night, then why didn't he take it the case to the police immediately. If he wasn't there that night, then how does he know?

haha exactly! who waits and plans all this (like what's your life goal?), but i guess our justice system isn't the best either. SO I'm sure there are people in the world who do take such matters of justice in their own hands sad actually.

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Haan ruhi. I totally get it.

I was just trying to put a realistic view on the whole anxiety matter. But I understand, that's not how it works for entertainment and ITV😆

I completely understand why Abir is doing what he's doing - to save Mishti from the blame and names.

But in the long-run it is not going to help her heal any better or faster, that's all I'm saying.

Anyways, I too hope mishbir find help and support through BM BP or even Kunal.

even if abir says to BM-BP, parul/kunal/nanu... the secret will come out from them and that leads passing to others... if any other get to know about it then, hogaya kalyan... everyone will abuse and torture her openly...

i dont think abir didnt consult doc or kept quiet without doing any research on it, see the rope of hope shows he did some thing thats reason he is always giving her a rope with bells, which makes a slightest sound and same goes with wind chime with sound too... may be the sound of them makes her calm...

when mishti gone trough mental abuse in childhood and her panik attacks started, it took 2 years to keep her away from it as said by BM on mishti kunal GD day... so now the situation is more different and we have to see how many days it will exist and there is any scope for it in future or not...

Originally posted by: angelfire78

accha aaj ka naya doubt - mishti was away from the family for 3 months starting about 4 days after marriage and kuhu claims till they got back everyone was khush, so what in the world is BB talking about when she says jab se yeh dono ghar mein aayi hain toh ghar ki khushiyan chali gayi?

🤣😆

Kuhu and BB definitions of 'khushiyan' are different and they are both stuck in their bubble/world of me-myself and I.

My doubt stays the same: What khushi is Kuhu referring to in the last 3 months? She's always wanted Mishti to get out of her life, couldn't stand living with her under the same roof. So when it finally happened. Was she happy? Nope. Kunal was not around either. Was the rest of the family happy? Not really. They were constantly complaining how Abir left because of Mishti So what khushi is Kuhu talking about?

So for Kuhu: happiness = 'everyone look at me and praise me, only me'

and for

BB khushiyan = (like Abir says) sab ko control karna. i.e the family should listen to me.

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

"Woh raaz sirf hum dono ke beech rehne chaiyye kissi aur ko nahi"

I know this is a very common ITV troupe and understandably creates that desired heightened drama....

but I really really wish, pray and hope

Abir and Mishti really need to come clean with whatever has happened. They have confess up.

1. Keeping such a huge incident as a secret is only going complicate family matters further - as we can see it is already brewing up so many confusions, misconceptions and unnecessary accusations and blaming.

"Woh raat sirf ek bura sapne samajke bhul jao"

Nooo Abiiirr, yaar that's not how it works!😔

You cannot forget such things! It needs to be treated!

2. Frankly, not allowing Mishti to get this huge burden of her chest, nor finding a concrete solution will NOT help Mishti get over her panic attacks and fear.

She needs ANSWERS, she needs HELP, she needs to CONFESS

I know Abir is doing everything to comfort, console and get her back to normal..but abiiiraa, this isn't the way. Hiding it will not get rid of Mishti's fear, it will only postpone it and continue to build up eating inside her. Plus it will haunt you too, as you constantly juggle the family and Mishti.

Abir please talk to the family - Parul maasi, BP, BM somebody please!

Hiding the truth never works out.

Please! Writers...handle this delicate mental/anxiety issue carefully.

Humble request...🤗

Mmmm i actually want to say something here... i get all of you guyz... but i'm saying this from my experience...

see mish is having a serious issue, and she is not even ready to face abir too thats why even he is being distant with her n the ray of hope trying to atleast make her comfortable with him...

he himself said to mish that once kunal, naanu, ketu, maasi, bm/bp gets to know they will support them but mishti is not in state to let anyone near... he would've consulted some doctor alone and try to bring mishti out of this first a little before she is ready to let others near her... did you see how she runs n hids...

the problem is if abir wants to take her to doctor or even himself brings someone close to mish be it bm/bp or maasi or anyone i'm sure mish condition will worsen only n she will try to run away... this is so complicated nandu not as simple as it seems... this is why he kept mish away from home for so long... even getting her to a doctor is not a easy task.... him meeting a doctor n helping her out himself is the only thing which can bring her out then taking her for treatment will help her, until she is ready anything from abirs side will only worsen her condition...

and also we know abir is not someone to hide things for long like he himself wanted to say everything to kunal but when he was ready things went haywire.... i feel the same is gonna happen now, when mishbir are ready to confess to family n take their support kuhu or meenu are gonna expose her in bad way which is gonna backfire n mish condition is gonna get worse... uff i seriously cant see her like this but i feel this is what gonna make abir lash out n get out with mishti n a big drama is gonna happen... i hope kunal comes back soon...

Originally posted by: Samyuktha123

Meri light🤗 I am early today but I feel very sleep as I had work till 2 yesterday night. In between I may blabber or vanish😆

Thanks for the updates, excited for today's episode. #intenseabir.♥️

Originally posted by: Samyuktha123

Bhuhahaha what a joke! Tell this to your son Mrs. Meenakshi Rajvansh! Actually he will do the opposite of what you are saying

hey meri sam get some sleep darling 🤗

haha so true meenu ko voh himmat nahi re so only she said it in absence of abir 😆

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Mmmm i actually want to say something here... i get all of you guyz... but i'm saying this from my experience...

see mish is having a serious issue, and she is not even ready to face abir too thats why even he is being distant with her n the ray of hope trying to atleast make her comfortable with him...

he himself said to mish that once kunal, naanu, ketu, maasi, bm/bp gets to know they will support them but mishti is not in state to let anyone near... he would've consulted some doctor alone and try to bring mishti out of this first a little before she is ready to let others near her... did you see how she runs n hids...

the problem is if abir wants to take her to doctor or even himself brings someone close to mish be it bm/bp or maasi or anyone i'm sure mish condition will worsen only n she will try to run away... this is so complicated nandu not as simple as it seems... this is why he kept mish away from home for so long... even getting her to a doctor is not a easy task.... him meeting a doctor n helping her out himself is the only thing which can bring her out then taking her for treatment will help her, until she is ready anything from abirs side will only worsen her condition...

and also we know abir is not someone to hide things for long like he himself wanted to say everything to kunal but when he was ready things went haywire.... i feel the same is gonna happen now, when mishbir are ready to confess to family n take their support kuhu or meenu are gonna expose her in bad way which is gonna backfire n mish condition is gonna get worse... uff i seriously cant see her like this but i feel this is what gonna make abir lash out n get out with mishti n a big drama is gonna happen... i hope kunal comes back soon...

I agree with both you and nandu in this.

Person has to be willing to be treated and/or willing to share, especially in case of traumatic events, but forgetting the event is not likely or even possible without talking it over with someone right? Not just abir I mean.

Originally posted by: angelfire78

accha aaj ka naya doubt - mishti was away from the family for 3 months starting about 4 days after marriage and kuhu claims till they got back everyone was khush, so what in the world is BB talking about when she says jab se yeh dono ghar mein aayi hain toh ghar ki khushiyan chali gayi?

this is called chance pe dance marna 😆 she wanted to do this when pills kand get exposed but couldnt do then now as its out n also with mishbir staying away from house she is using it to her advantage... koi logic nahi hai daya 😆

kuhu's happiness = kuhu + her happiness 😆

Originally posted by: riya27

It became their trait now.. Mishti became silly for them.. Wah 🤪

What's this constant behavior of demeaning someone... I so want abir to hear kuhu and nidhi mamis talking with mish in private.. He must give few shots to Mami and knock out bro

so true riya they just flip according to their comfort like imagine if mishti has done this mistake even then will they say lets forget n move on... i dont think so... i just hope abir lashes out n walks out with mishti this time with heads held high n saying everything to everyone