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Posted: 5 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: Mahisa22


But cost of higher education in USA is 10 times more than in India. What about that?


You know their parents salary its in crores so 50 lakh is like half year salary of most parents there


Even labourer gets 30 lakh in some states 60 lakh as its mim wage


For us kids, 50 lakhs is very less


Even part time 2 hour work everyday can fecth you 10 lakh 20 lakh per year for kids is that less?


In india you work 12-16 hours a day in IT company with 10 years exp you will get 15-30 lakh per year with a BE degree


US education cost so much because its compatible with US salary


Do you know salary of doctors there 2 crore specialist 5 crore lawyers 5 crore per year


Thats why education is more costly becuase their salary is good


In india masala dosa cost 50 rs in new york 10 dollars means 650 Rs so what they can afford it


For them 10 dollar is like 10 Rs for us here


We pay for BE 6 lakhs and get job of 5 lakhs


They pay for BE 50 lakh and get job starting salray 50 lakh only (80,000 usd)

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Posted: 5 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: myviewprem


You know their parents salary its in crores so 50 lakh is like half year salary of most parents there


Even labourer gets 30 lakh in some states 60 lakh as its mim wage


For us kids, 50 lakhs is very less


Even part time 2 hour work everyday can fecth you 10 lakh 20 lakh per year for kids is that less?


In india you work 12-16 hours a day in IT company with 10 years exp you will get 15-30 lakh per year with a BE degree


US education cost so much because its compatible with US salary


Do you know salary of doctors there 2 crore specialist 5 crore lawyers 5 crore per year


Thats why education is more costly becuase their salary is good


In india masala dosa cost 50 rs in new york 10 dollars means 650 Rs so what they can afford it


For them 10 dollar is like 10 Rs for us here


We pay for BE 6 lakhs and get job of 5 lakhs


They pay for BE 50 lakh and get job starting salray 50 lakh only (80,000 usd)


That's not true. In India, 100 rupees is a very small amount if money for most people. But for Americans, 100 dollars is like 500-600 rupees. Even if something costs 10 dollars, they will call it fairly expensive.


And the prices are balanced in both the countries according to exchange rate. For example, what costs 7500 in India will cost 100-200 dollars in USA. A 350 Rs movie ticket will be around 15 dollars in the US.


I agree on the salary being good, but still students in the US complain about not being able to afford good Universities even with two jobs.

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Posted: 5 years ago
#83

How is India not a poor country? Its always so traumatizing to visit there and see all the poor people laying on the road outside the hospital.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav


Then it should be the choice of the guy as well to leave or to stay with his parents !! If he decides to move out after marriage, would that be as accepted in the same bracket as a girl's moving out after marriage ? You yourself raised a question mark on the 'adulthood' if someone chooses to move out. Why ?


If moving out and taking care of the parents are considered two separate things for a girl, the same would be applicable for guys as well.

of course, whatever suits a particular family’s need. A girl or a boy.
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Posted: 5 years ago
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You are a burden on earth forget being an adult if you are living with your parents even after 18.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Being ADULT is a state of mind...it has got nothing to do with whom u are living...or not living...

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: heartbleed

You are a burden on earth forget being an adult if you are living with your parents even after 18.



I disagree stayng with parents does not mean you are not economical independent or mentally kid etc


If you go to college you live with friends in hostels is that burden on earth?


If you go to work you live in rented apartments with colleagues before marriage is that burden on colleagues? or burden on earth?


Even USA many live with friends in hostels/rented apartments before marrying


I think what you say is wrong because aged parents will get company and help in many work if you stay with them and also economic help as you spend on grocery, cable, laundry and pay bills


They did that for you as a kid its your turn to do that as adult than you say burden on earth???


Thats why in us people go around shooting for simple reasons or doing drugs and more suicides although very rich nation because they are very lonely inside no mental support


Atleast indians and asians do not do much drugs, kill themselves less and do not shoot for simple reasons


You know why because you stay with family with parents and grandparents and you have sense of responsibility towards family thats why even if poorest country suicide less, no shooting no much drugs etc


Family and parents are your psychiatrists in life

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

I’m in quarantined in upstate New York with my wife, mom, dad, brother, sister in law, sister, brother in law and their 2 daughters


So I ask if anyone had room in their house for me. I don’t even need to bring my wife 😆



Can anyone help me 😆

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: myviewprem



I disagree stayng with parents does not mean you are not economical independent or mentally kid etc


If you go to college you live with friends in hostels is that burden on earth?


If you go to work you live in rented apartments with colleagues before marriage is that burden on colleagues? or burden on earth?


Even USA many live with friends in hostels/rented apartments before marrying


I think what you say is wrong because aged parents will get company and help in many work if you stay with them and also economic help as you spend on grocery, cable, laundry and pay bills


They did that for you as a kid its your turn to do that as adult than you say burden on earth???


Thats why in us people go around shooting for simple reasons or doing drugs and more suicides although very rich nation because they are very lonely inside no mental support


Atleast indians and asians do not do much drugs, kill themselves less and do not shoot for simple reasons


You know why because you stay with family with parents and grandparents and you have sense of responsibility towards family thats why even if poorest country suicide less, no shooting no much drugs etc


Family and parents are your psychiatrists in life


what the F*** 🤔

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: heartbleed

You are a burden on earth forget being an adult if you are living with your parents even after 18.


Isn’t that a bit of a dramatic statement? A burden on earth? I’m unmarried, over 18 and still live with my mum and siblings. I’m loving every day and moment of spending time with my mum and younger siblings because I know we won’t have this forever. Doesn’t make me less of an adult for choosing this lifestyle and nor does my family consider it a burden.

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