@bold: I have a bit of a different take. I don't really see it as the writers trying to make her a superhero. I rather see it as an insecurity that she doesn't trust anyone enough to ask for help or share her problems, not even Abir, her BM or BP. The only times she does share is jab paani sar ke upar chala jaata hai and she has no other choice.
I used to see it in similar light for a very long time & thats why I used to cut her some slack, but I was proven wrong😭 & thus I have so many issues & grudges against this character
the writers have completely ruined her for me, with the superhero & hypocrisy route🥺
edit:
and how does these insecurity driven actions justify the leads' status of being a hero/heroine & other characters being the vamp/villian/grey?😡
just because the damage caused was not in the lives of leads but in the lives of side characters or parallel leads?
I mean aren't other characters' actions also because of their insecurities:
meenu- her fear of abir repeating the same mistakes that she made in the name of 'love'
kunal- his fear of losing abir once again to his #banjarahood
kuhu- her fear of not a being priority & being a 2nd fiddle in her own family's lives, and being forgotten
jasmeet- her fear of her son getting married to a girl whom she doesnt trust because that girl is in love with another guy
(I know this post stands a huge chance of being deleted or garnering me a warning, but still I had to post it😈)