YRHPK Re-runs// Discussion Thread 1 (update ep16 &17) - Page 97

Originally posted by: ruhi19

mishti is sorted means in my opinion, she wants a marriage with abir, she want a pecaeful life not like in MAH, she dont see life as any competition, this is what i meant of sorted, yes i know mishti over thinks and decides but situations will never turn in her favour...

i read uru's psot, coming to abir, yes he is seen kuhu's best side and i know that, every relation has some respects and boundaries so he is maintaining that, i just needed him to say a word to kuhu, from holi incident on wards, that doesnt mean i want him to take stand against kuhu for mishti, i just need him to say what she said is wrong...

coming to mishti saying half truths and hiding truths, it is really worst from her side but after the way abir is reacting, i dont think she will say him again...

for me taking mishti side is easy not because she is right or im supporting mishti, she said to him who ever may win we are loosing and her points are valid regarding kuhu and asking abir to listen to her, she always giving to abir and following abir, trusting abir and in return she is asking abir to trust her and listen to her... so i take mishti side, as i want mishbir to be in middle ground and fight or face what comes for them...

ruhi 🤗 sorry for the late reply 😳

Haan i agree she is sorted in her wishes but somehow her emotions are messed up thats what all three have in common they have competitive nature but the problem is their emotional state which all three hid from family for one or other reason thats what i meant....

i agree i too said the same he needs to reprimand kuhu for badmouthing kuhu even though subtle like he did in last episode.... he will take stand for mishti, its not in the way he will handle kuhu thats not the problem here but the problem is he is aware of only half truth with that what he will understand n what he will do...

actually both have this hiding problem but when time comes abir says the information which is needed at that moment but mish doesnt even say that abir gets to know that only by himself that too only half info, she will keep on saying to abir thats no doubt bcoz she doesnt have any baggage with abir like mah family, she most of the time shows her anger, worry everything to abir only so she wont stop thats for sure the problem is she is only informing him half truth n also expecting abir to do what she wants both are doing the same...

let me explain why i'm keeping both on board by i talk for abir more...

see even in room scene, resort, the photo frame if you notice abir calmly listened to her until she complained about kuhu, he let her express her emotions but only when she started saying what she wants to do about kuhu to punish her, reprimand her abir started talking or walked out infact only once he walked out other two times mish misunderstood his words n walked out... both are not ready to talk properly about this issue... She is more talking about what kuhu will do, what they should do about kuhu rather than saying the actual truth if you notice abir reacted when kuhu talked about maasi n went overboard during the resort fight, both brothers only tried to stop kuhu they never said anything to mishti as they knew n understood mishti... if he knew kuhu actually planned the pills for mishti, she badmouthed maasi in the photo frame incident n everything he will react... he too needs to listen n hear out what mishti wants to say for that they both need to be in calm mind but both are not in that position...

And both had to find a middle ground abir is seeing a bigger picture n mishti wants to find a solution for kuhu which is a part of that bigger picture, so until they talk out n see what they can do about kuhu without giving meenu an opportunity which is more important for both girls this issue cant be solved...

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

I don't know why, but I feel like, this is probably my favourite misbhir convo-scene before they became best-friends🤗. I love everything about it! The writing, the dialogues, rhesha's natural performances/expressions, ofcourse the iconic music and it just had a easy organic flow to their story (they aren't complete strangers, nor friends yet, so their banter had the perfect balance of Abir's nautanki, Mishti's realistic reactions of frustration)👏😆👏 Can watch this ample number of times and not get bored😃❤️

Also I know how much we loved Abir's hoodie outfit in the previous lakeside scene. But for some reason, I find the two looks in this episode even better❤️The leather jacket is so HOT!! and the denim shirt +vest outfit later on is also super suave We don't see Abir in those smart-casual styles much at all (until post-leap office Abir in suits), but I prefer these relaxed semi-formal looks. Plus Abir's lambe baal in this episode just looks soo soft and shining😳❤️ It's just adds 100x more beauty😳😆

haha I love that Abir uses this dialogue and behaviour of hers, to mock her later on when they meet again at Mah house The way the writers, connected and wrote these sequences were soo clever and effortless Maybe that's why I love this scene so much

Aww this is so beautiful yaar nandu i love this scene but itna socha nahi your beautiful analysis makes it more special n shows the scene in a different light... 👏❤️

i totally agree it was the only n perfect stranger to friends middle scene n the realistic approach it had was so beautiful yaar...

ahem Abirs this look i think its for only this short scene he done this look something special...

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Mishbir's first typical heroine falling into hero's arms wali scene haha yea it did look like a small smile from Rhea, or maybe Mish really did get lost in Abir's "jheel se aankein" Who wouldn't?

Abir's long flowy hair here So hot!! My fav shot from this scene(perfect angle)

This is my favourite bit! Mish not understanding or catching onto his hints that they will meet again in the evening haha Mish speaking gujju was adorable, and just like later on when mishbir are buying tickets for Abir to search for Baba, Abir teases Mish "sunaa, hamari ladki pagal che"

Dono ajeeb, dono pagal = beautiful mishbir couple

aww awwdorable Abir and his smile...Missing the balloons these days

haha Hifi my first thought after seeing this scene was this only even the first time the typical fall catch of mishbir but they dont have many only few cliche scenes else they have some amazing unique romantic scene breaking all the cliche awww 🤣

awww no one can resist that honey orbs nandu maybe its mishti or rhea whoever it is she is actually representing us there 😆😉

haaa Hifi again my favorite of this scene the flying hair, messy uff so hawt n angle is perfect to capture the hair yaar so so beautiful ❤️

ohh haan chokri pagal che 😆 aww i love when both speak gujju yaar so sweet.. like abir said in the kissmat episode when mish says tum maha ajeeb ho n he says tum bhi kam nahi ho 🤣 dono pagal ajeeb hai yaar 🤣

hayee seriously this carefree abir mishti balloon suno everything is missing yaar i want them back 😭

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

hayee look at this ladka! kya style hai? kya lag raha hai? I love this look of Abir #drooling

and ofcourse, our beloved Mr. Three piece suit looking sharp n dashing as usual

hayee *drooling mode increased to high levels*

p.s One thing I didn't understand is, how did Naanu and BB leave Parul behind? I know it's too early to hint that Kunal's real mom is her, but still, they always wanted her to believe that she still has those motherly rights on Kunal. So why didn't they get her to tag along (make up some excuse..). Instead they purposely left her behind, felt bad for her as a mother

Ohh so true this is one of my favorite abir look no one would've pulled this look better than shaheer simple costume but he looks so dashing yaar and the way he keeps his hands on waist n moves around n the beautiful hands with watch ufff the watch n hand has a separate fan base.... ☺️

haha true i love the 3 piece suit kunal so much he looks so dashing n handsome n this suit is one of my favorite so classy

Hifi nandu same more than the normal shots this tinted glass shots is so beautiful dont know the reason but both boys looks so handsome n dashing in this inside car shot ☺️

Totally agreed nandu actually this is the only time they left her behind i think else meenu or naanu never left her behind for any functions be it for kunal or abir but as kunals mother she was always there this time they failed n even parul maasi didnt react haan its too early still she was shown giving her opinion for kunals life from start to meenu so this looks little weird...

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

haha he totally did! Abir the ROCKSTAA and mish got shocked indeed

One of my fav entries of Abir so happy and warm vibes

aww that smile dil hi le lo

haha it's very relaxing and enjoyable when you meet someone that is able to break that awkward ice and make everyone else feel comfortable on the first meetIt just makes that first meeting so much more memorable and easy, by taking away that "ladke wala ke saamne impression rakh na hai" pressure

Aww abir teasing mish n her words on her aaj kal ladkiya apna hairpin nikalke balloons pod the hai

haha loved this nautanki very organic and natural I also love how Mish just couldn't do or say anything, but just happily smile, be amused at Abir's cheeky n fun behaviour #socute

my fav: "aap sab kitne acche smile karte hai, varna aaj kal ab angry hoke ghum the hai" Shah's voice modulation here was so good

aww their pure smiles and that silent understanding - Mish's hesitation to accept the balloons, but Abir's extra little nod n smile just conveyed something genuine from his heart

aww rhea style haaa 😉😆

Uff hifi nandu this is my favorite too the happy vibes n the bgm n abirs innocent face the balloons everything was so perfect... ❤️ this was my next dp after the bus top abir with camera only eyes one... uff this boy has some amazing shots for dp yaar

awww so beautifully said nandu the tension will always be thick whenever the bride groom meet happens abir jaise ek insaan hai tho it will be much easier n its easy for girls family to talk freely too...

haha her expressions for every tease of abir was worth it n his cute innocent smile, their eye talk in this scene was best...

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Uff the big turning point, BB's one decision turned all the 4 lead characters lives upside down😲 All their love stories took a big hit and have had to go through so much damage, to get to wear they are now😳

I felt awful for Kuhu here That's why one shouldn't build up too many expectations in one's mind so quickly, but still THIS was not right. She didn't deserve it, not only be rejected and humiliated but also go through the pain of seeing her sister receive the same rishta that was first in her name🤔😒 Kuhu really went through very tough times during mish-kun courtship, she had bury all her feelings and pain, for the family. Poor thing, I understand her anger and pain but solely blaming Mishti was also not right at all, especially insulting her to be like Naman (Kuhu does feel bad for it later, when speaking to Varsha, but never ever aplogises for it to Mishti😒 - that's the fundamental sibling issue.)

Very true nandu this one incident changed alot for all four character but love is not easy to get the one which got easily doesnt hold the value which we get after a long fight.... all these fights n everything are worth it now all four have come a long way... 👏

correctly said nandu high expectation leads to high disappointment its not good but still a rejection is rejection only the amount of pain maybe less if expectation was low... but kuhu did a great job throughout the courtship i felt really bad for her in this phase... and did you see the connection this is one reason why her hatred for mishti started something which was rightfully hers was named after mishti which is being said to her even now like the haar, the property paper on her birthday its not the anger that mish is getting but the words said to her that its hers but needs to go to mish but the anger on who is actually responsible has gone to mishti thats were she goes wrong, kuhu just finds the easy target to blame which is mishti for her everytime to escape reality...

yaar the sibling apology is not proper they just show in action n the other has to understand this is an apology for that reason... that is sweet but they need to talk it out... uff complicated rishta of our show...

aww Kunal too, seemed like he was ready to give this rishta a real proper go, he was looking forward to getting to know Kuhu That sweet smile Felt bad for him too, it must have been humiliating for him too, BB changing the rishta in the last minute, without even telling him anything but it all happened on his name's behalf And when Kunal doesn't say anything in reaction to BB's sudden shocking rishta swap - That's why Kuhu misunderstands that Kunal didn't like her from the start and asked Meenu to do something to break the rishta Poor guy

so true it was a shock for him too he was also affected alot in this thats why even till end he stood his point that the way she did was not right n she shouldnt have took this decision without informing him... silence can be taken in wrong way thats what happened with him poor boy as everything happened in his name he was also misunderstood...😒

ha exactly! Very much hypocrisy but more than that, it's that typical "ladke wale" ego

Exactly its the ego thats what bp too pointed after the GD that the problem is mishti breaking rishta not that rishta broke but who broke it... same happened for nish mish too jas was more angry that mish broke the rishta its a typical lake ki maa thoughts i think.... all this was pointed out so well in abir meenu confrontation after gd breakup...

BB's plan in swapping the rishta in the last minute wasn't bad in her p.o.v, typically no family would agree to her ridiculous request of exchanging the sisters in the rishta. Like BP immediately says in the start of next episode - "we don't need to keep any relations with a family like that" "what do they think of themselves? that they can just come here and reject Kuhu but also ask for Mishti's hand in marriage". That's exactly what BB planned and understood will happen, she didn't want either of the rishtas to happen, she just wanted to get out of this and found a horrible way to do it.Meenu thought she had found an easy way to escape this 'undesirable' rishta..but instead she just further complicated and messed things up badly in the mah family.

True meenu was waiting for an opportunity to totally cut ties with maheshwaris n she complicated things so well... she even confesses it to parul in next episode that this is what she wanted... she doesnt even care for her family so her complicating things for maheshwari is nothing...

First of all, Mishti was not even ready for marriage. She wasn't interested and highly worried about asking for time to get to know the guy (she hadn't discussed her feelings or views with BM or BP yet). Plus she wanted to get her a solid career going, before thinking of settling down. Instead BB's shocking decision causes all that to go out the window. BM then re-thinking and convincing everyone to agree to Kunal-Mishti rishta, puts so much pressure so quickly on Mishti (as the 'elder' daughter) and forget about her professional goals/dreams

well said nandu like mishti said in the paragliding episode that rishta mishti ka hai but no one asked for her opinion on this or what she wanted to do next.... she had to even fight for that.. this was actually a realistic issue that girls need to fight for their career goals after completing studies before they are pushed to marriage... and also girls opinion about the rishta is the last or none but even neighbors/distant relative opinion are considered...

aww me too, felt awful for both of them This disastrous event caused a huge drift and damage in their relationship later on too, (after becoming friends in mish-kun courtship, Kunal then gets lost in BB's master manipulation plan to separate mishbir). Kuku's relationship took such a long time to finally catch on to the right track, Kunal and kuhu have never been on the same page, (First was Kuhu's one-sided love, then both Kuhu n Kunal fighting for the divorce, Kuhu then reluctantly moving on because she had given up/lost hope with Kunal ever returning any love or feelings for her). And now finally when they're married again, kuku are still struggling to understand one another in terms of managing their personal hubby-wifey bond along with their family responsibilities. They are still trying to find that common ground, where they understand and accept each other for who they are (looong way to go, because they hardly ever communicate about their feelings)

Well explained nandu they both are into their own miseries first in the fake shaadi then they struggled with communication during divorce period now kuhu insecurity n trying from kunal side n kuhu struggling within self they are not able to communicate n come find a middle ground... but thank god they are trying now....

arghh it's so hurtful. Kaveri did a wonderful job, in those progression of expressions from excitement, shock, despair, and shattered broken heart

True if you notice her adam apple part will move continuously in this scene, kaveri did a beautiful job in controlled yet vulnerable kuhu... 👏🥺

ha yes, this pattern of Abir learning the truth at last still continues And also notice how neither Mishti nor Kunal explain the full truth properly here, just like usual, Abir is left with the 'half-truth' and insufficient amount of info, and then he has to figure out the rest of the story by himself. But he is #hoshiyaarAbir he will eventually piece the puzzles together correctly

Hahaha so true he can just hear whatever is given n still manage to control a situation so well n connect the dots n complete the puzzle really love love this trait of abir... 😆

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Fantastic maa-beta confrontation👏 Both very strongly set in their ideologies and battling for their points to be heard and understood. Two very strong-headed characters. But hands down Abir wins this round and the next big round (after Mish rejects Kunal)👏 He had the perfect sense of balance between rational thinking and compassion.

And Diya👏👏 take a bow girl, you explained the whole sequence, the characters and their thoughts, feelings and behaviours exceptionally well👏 You covered pretty much everything that had to be discussed between Meenu's regressive soch, Abir's progressive soch and Kunal's sandwiched in the middle between the two as usual👍🏼

Ohh so well said nandu Abir was so balanced putting across his progressive thinking and also was in his limit while talking.. 👏 he did won the confrontation in terms of the correct ideology as this time kunal too got his point that where meenu went wrong n in the mishkun gd breakup too family understood where meenu is wrong as he correctly mentioned n compared ketu rishta... meenu does understand but wont give up her ideology that easily... 😆

@bold - awwwee you just summed up my post nandu... thank you 👏🤗

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Yes, Abir becomes totally silent and just like an on-looker/by-stander in the rest of the discussion; because

1. he realises that the situation is not that simple anymore, it's not just about BB rejecting Kuhu for no reason, but now twisting to a whole new level of rejecting one sister to select the other. That sister whom Abir had connected to on some deeper level and developed a natural attraction to her interesting 'angry violent chorni' personality. Abir was just dumbfounded, he didn't know how to react.

2. Abir decided to keep quiet, and hear what Kunal has to say, he decided to give Kunal the chance to put forth his opinion and feelings.

Wow this totally sums up abirs thought process n his reaction in the entire scene nandu i just couldnt explain but you did a splendid job... hats off girl👏👏

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

aww this big softie teddy bear *nandu panda runs to give Abir a big hug*

I love how gentle and sensitive he is The way he's delicately holding Mish's earring, and talking to it aww he's always felt that pouring his feelings out to his little Mishtee, has helped him feel better

aww this is so sweet nandu panda give a tight hug from our side too 😉🤗

wow never noticed this angle true he somehow finds a way to express his thought to mishti either to her earring like in this or her diary now...

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

aww yay! Ofcourse the #jugbir ship is forever sailing strong I miss that bond now

nice job at the de-coding Captain DiyaYou summed up his feelings and his perspective of what a real home is perfectly. Rather than just a house with a family that lives together, the warmth, peace and support that a home provides is something that Abir has been searching for, that he has been deprived of since his Baba left. It's so endearing and heart-touching to see that his long search finally ends with Mishti as his destination Abir just has such a big heart that he extends his arms out for that support in hand and hugs in embrace to everyone, including the mah family

Hayee even i miss this bond nandu sweet Jugbir after shivratri chalo chalo we havent got any... 😒

Hayee thank you nandu guruji 2.0 😆🤗

awww so said it so well true its a home for abir not house... he did say mishti's painting as "ghar jitni simple sa seeda sa lekin bahur khubsoorat" when mishti asked how beautiful the painting was... and also from start more than anyone he was so excited for rishta with maheshwaris such a sweet guy.