Hi cool 🤗 good post, thank you for putting it up on the main forum 🤗🤗🤗
I am not sure why did you change your original post in the AT and decided to ignore the "I fell in love with mishbir because " points from your post there and in turn added a lot of kaira comparison here to prove a point , ummm let me tell you something, others from the AT understood your point instantly because they know the background of the discussion already , here it's more like chalti train mein chadna hai 😆 its necessary to explain the background too , even if makers read this post , I believe they will take it as a comparison post rather than concern raising post...
I know you didn't write much about the
Beautiful friendship phase
Beautiful confession phase
Beautiful realisation phase
Because you didn't want these points to take away the limelight of the grievances that you wished to put it up , it almost felt felt like a very different post on a different tangent actually because of not elaborating these points 😳 I for a fact know that your intention was to say something else ...
Correct me if I am wrong , I felt you just wished to show the imbalance in both the shows , where one couple is getting overdose of things while the other one is just getting underdose, so in comparison we can just improve in certain areas - communication, screen time and romance being the core areas ...its not like you want a Xerox copy of kaira or akshara naitik because honestly every couple had a different love story and a journey of ther own , the characters were different and so was the treatment ...toh comparison banta hai hi nahi
Communication
Mishbir for the first 150 episodes, the friendship phase were the best things ever, there was a flawless communication between them , it almost fell unreal on how they understood each other without much words , but that just explained the comfort level they had , therefore these days even after repeated words from each other , if they can't understand each other's basic emotional feelings, then it pains a little to see and make us believe that the characters are being compromised. All we as fans want is a heart felt communication between them , where mishti comes clean on how she is still living under a fear, a pressure that someone will leave her one day , she is still dealing with her past and she needs someone to hear her out , heal her
Abir on the other hand is someone who hasn't really expressed his real feelings on how he felt living without mishti , how much did he miss her , how he felt when his baba turned out to be a real nightmare to him , why is there always a threatening effect that he is getting from meenu , after break up phase , I have never seen mishbir doing any sort of " real dil se talks " , and I miss them , would really love that instead of romance wala patch up , I get an emotional patch up between then 😳 The one where both of then talk and listen " dil se " ...that's the communication I want
Screen Time
No one is saying that we want 21 mins ka mishbir only , but just 2 3 mins that too random scenes makes no sense , like when abir wasn't well during shivratri , mishti was so worried, but later when he woke up, not once mishti asked...I was so worried , do you remember what all you did in intoxicated state ? 😛 I really want these type of simple conversations and for that 5 mins ka screen time is also enough , all I expect is to cut down on some drama ( I know it's a part and parcel of the show and will be there till the very end ) but these days, the screen time is compromised for drama and thus is bothering me , all I expect some more dose of light hearted scenes in general ....
Everytime they can't come with a predictable plot , meenu plans something , others become dumb , then other become highly intelligent and tadaaaaa meenu's plan fails 🤣 Its getting boring now okay... I wish to see some new innovative fresh tracks , for a change show me characters who have the ability to overcome their past , their weaknesses and emerge as a strong personality, that is a real hero in true sense, isn't it ?
Romance
Obviously mishbir happens to be the most happening love story of the year , the marriage that they got after a hell of a struggle , toh agar hum chahe ke unhe thode sukoon ke pal mile , then what's wrong , I am really surprised to see that no one in thr family is asking the couples to go for a honeymoon, matlab koi baat bhi nahi kar raha , ek ke baad ek drama dhoom dham dhadam dishoom laga rakha hai 😆 like literally they are going pakdam pakdai for a kiss 🤔 kya hai bhai, yeh couple ki love marriage hai na ?
All I want to say is, i Iiterally have no problem with any other character and I completely understand that they can't show mishbir all the time , it's a family drama and every character is important to take the story forward, I am very happy to see that not only mishbir, but every character in the show has a separate story which is layered in it's own way and which elevates the whole story viewing experience
but I would really want a bir improvement in the areas that have been explained above
I wsh to see a mature and sensible Tean Mishbir soon
❤️
Edited by Onyourface - 5 years ago