Rhea-Shaheer|MishBir|AT: 82| DT Reminder note Pg 104 - Page 48

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Okay......kaam ki tension hain. Par aap toh kaam ki tension lete hi nahi ho....😆

Kaam ke tension lena toh mera kaam haina??

Kya bataun bhai......papers toh sign karliya....par yeh kuhune jeena haram karke rakha hain. Aap kaise ho bhai.....dard horaha hai kya, dande se maar jo mila hain aapko??😛

🤣🤣🤣 just because mein hasi mazak karta hun iska yeh matlab nahi hai ki mujhe tension nahi hoti 🤔😆🤣 sabki tension release karne ka alag tareeka hota hai nanko 🤣

Bas bhai band aid laga raha hun dard pe 😆 Tu sambhal kar rehna ..aane vale din tere bhi sankat bhare hain 🤣

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Nanko is samajhdhaar bas kisiko dikhaatha nahi hun😆

Shah is always amazing❤️Happy bday Shah❤️

Common restroom hoga....but they have to keep their spare clothes somewhere naaa......so it should have been in kuku's room only😆🤣🤣

Exactly !!!nobody follows their own advises......hypocrites hain sab ke sab. But realistic in a way, we also never seem to follow our own advises.😆dusron ko gyaan dena is easy ......par khud apne gyaan follow karna......not so much😆

Sahi hain.....BM-BP is a team. I love how BP looks at BM before taking a decision and she encourages him by nodding her head and closing her eyes.❤️

Wah bhai baat toh sahi hai 😆

Happy bday ahaaa ❤️😆

Arey common restroom mein they give lockers to keep stuff 😆 Anyways I highly doubt free freeloading statement ke baad mishti vo room mein jayegi 🤣

I sit in a different way , it's not always easy to follow our own advices 😆 Because that's how we are all designed to be , our eyes captures others more than our own selves , so it's easy analyse others and advice them accordingly , but for ourselves, someone has to show us the mirror ( someone being our guide ) or we on our own can see the mirror ( self realisation) in order to see our selves clearly and become a better person, that's all

Oh haan 😆 Isharon isharon mein they give assurances to each other They are really couple goals ❤️

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Hayee mini i'm answering this alone to not get confused.. 😆 i gave explanation to my confusion on episode separately to you n uru check it out n give your opinion... 😆

Ok i understand what you are asking... let me try explaining...

calling out is different like how abir did yesterday... that can be done a subtle way same time him apologizing to kunal for it is also right... like if mish is wrong he can say it but at the same time wont abir expect him to apologize for the tone he used... if its between him n abir it doesnt matter if they apologize as they are brother same goes to mishku whatever they do they are sisters doesnt matter but when its opposite along with calling out a little amount of respect is needed... even to meenu he or even abir does call out yaar but then when she apologizes for mistake they too apologize even though she was wrong they do it out of respect... are you getting what i said...

ok let me give example about bp-jas market scene... he gave it back to jas but not directly but through bm bcoz of this limitation only, they can subtly say but it will be more respectful if bm talks to jas or varsha when they do something wrong we have seen bp asking or bm herself saying this that she will talk to them...

its not like its family so ok infact abir wants everyone in family to take stand for themselves but the respect should be maintained... thats why even though calling out meenu as monster was right but he apologized out of respect being his mother she shouldnt hear that...

@bold - haa this is right yaar... ofcourse its his trait even during confrontation sometimes he wants to walk out but meenu stops him n wants him to continue have you noticed everytime during confrontation its abir who walks out half way, even kunal pointed it out yesterday.. its his habit which he needs to change but then i wont say he is wrong as its his way of calming down n also he does think of the other persons pov in that alone time...

Okay ......I am understanding what ur saying.......or this is what I am interpreting. You should call out but the boundary of the realtionship should be maintained. The respect should be maintained. You should not go overboard. Hmmm.....I am okay with that.....but I just want the guys to realise that mishku relationship is not the same as theirs and they should stand for their wives against anyone. If Mish is wrong Kunal should call her out, he shouldn't conpromise his wife's self respect for his bhai. Likewise if Kuhu is wrong Abir should call out Kuhu and should not ignore it for the sake of Kunal.

Coming to Abir walking out, I think its rude to put bluntly.....I could get his need to cool off. But he shouldn't abandon everytime he is frustrated. Thats the only thing I found distasteful. Leaving Mishti out in the resort alone.....and going off with his bhai....He should have atleast informed her he was going instead of taking off alone. Dnt they really check on each other?? Lol......do u remember the champagner track when Mish was mad with him?? He took off without informing her ......and she rented a scooty and went to search for him. So, shouldn't we expect concern from Abir too along with his anger??

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

hayee its the one n same yaar i understood now 😆

haan its true that all 3 are very much stubborn.. but when it comes to hearing out all three fail too.. 😆

i agree yaar both are not seeing each others pov but my question is mish is able to express n she has clearly said this is how she wants to deal with kuhu but then we still dont know or mish also hasnt heard abirs side of solution naa... i mean even the band aid was a family theory, but they havent talked about kuhu with calm mind naa... they go in different tangent like uru said their talk starts with one thing but ends with other but the core problem is not talked about...

@bold - totally he gets frustrated when things dont go his way n tries to walk out most of the time 😆

but this can be the only roadblock mini as if the work in team n start listening to each other there wont be any misunderstanding or problem 😆

past is past is abirs habit until its bought out by someone 😆

Okay.....I see what you talking abt. I saw the fight again. Mish was talking abt Kuhu's behaviour and how to stop it further. She was talking abt the future. Abir was thinking about how the situation could be controlled so the it doesn't escalate further. He knows if Mish and him doesn' t go with kuku, Mishti will be blamed for ruining their trip. Thats why he was repeatibg her to be mature. He knows Mishti was played by Meenu and she will be blamed. And he saw the trailer of it from Kuhu. But what he didn't expect was how overboard Kuhu's behaviour would be. And him going off alone and leaving Mishti there alone was a way to control the situation from becoming worse.

Its like he analysed the situation and understood Meenu's game but he misjudged the sisters' relationship, he didn't expect Mishti to be stubborn, instead of going with him. He wanted her to understand Meenu's game, but he wasn't able to explain it properly in the fight, because Mish was refusing to move on from Kuhu. She was refusing to change the topic.....must be similar to his fight with Meenu😛

Basically band aid theory and open surgery working against each other😆

Its like the chess game ......Abir is analysing the next move but Mish is still stuck in the previous one.😆

P.s I hope it made sense. Now I am doing gol gol baatein like them. I should channel my inner nanko😆

Originally posted by: piyasingh

She might want to add another name..😃 let her come..

Bold: Chaaa...haina..even i was thinking abt this..

Mere piya name ka sirf siya, ghiya ban sakta hai baki kuch nahi😒

haan she will have another addition too... uru ben where are you 😆

Hayee piya sorry yaar the rhyming is hilarious 😆 but dont worry we can have another name for you too.. see first i had my user name as diya only then pali only suggested this.. 😆 lets ask uru she has some amazing names 😆

Originally posted by: ruhi19

B: analyse the scene from back to front means... the words in the scene from end to start... it will give u clarity...

im not saying abir didnt get hurt nor im ignoring his pain... he already left her once during break up so they both suffered and kunal's birth truth also... its third time... he could have stayed there and hide from mishti or he showed his hurt infront of her... chod ke jaana that too a husband like abir is never make any sense to me...

coming to mishti even im disappointed with her... we will go but separately or i will come separately she can say it or i will go to MAH only she can say...

i didnt like both of them saying this... phele mishti saying i wont come because u dont need messed up girl and second abir leaving and hurting himself...

ohhkk i understand thanks dear 🤗 will try it next time...

I'm not saying he is right but its his buri aadat which he needs to change, thats what kunal advised naa running away in middle of a talk or scene is not a solution... its not like he is out of character..

for mishti see mini explained it well rather than looking forward she is only stuck in handling kuhu, she is not able to look past that... n abir didnt try talking to her again... in their own mess they are not looking at the others point...

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

all good 👍🏼

haan, they are in progress. sorry taking extra time to clear my thoughts n views

yay aajao😃

🤗

take your time dear but dont give up write ok.. 😃

will come to give my review now taking SS is so fun yaar enjoying it along with watching episode 🥳

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Okay ......I am understanding what ur saying.......or this is what I am interpreting. You should call out but the boundary of the realtionship should be maintained. The respect should be maintained. You should go obverboard. Hmmm.....I am okay with that.....but I just want them the guys realise that mishku relationship is not the same as theirs and they should stand for their wives against anyone. If Mish is wrong Kunal should call her out, he shouldn't conpromise his wife's self respect for his bhai. Likewise if Kuhu is wrong Abir should call out Kuhu and ignore it for the sake of Kunal.

Coming to Abir walking out, I think its rude to put bluntly.....I could get his need to cool off. But he shouldn't abandon everytime he is frustrated. Thats the only thing I found distasteful. Leaving Mishti out in the resort alone.....and going off with his bhai....He should have atleast informed her he was going instead of taking off alone. Dnt they really check on each other?? Lol......do u remember the champagner track when Mish was mad with him?? He took off without informing her ......and she rented a scooty and went to search for him. So, shouldn't we expect concern from Abir too along with his anger??

Lol I guess there is some misinformation here mini

In champaner, misbti first thought abir is in the bus , but realised he isn't there so she came out finding him , abir was busy informing nanko abir IT raid and was hiding from mishti ( he didn't knew bus was about to leave and that's why mishti was calling him ) ...after the call , when he came outside he realised the bus left and he concluded that mishti also left .... 🤣 that's a different thing they didn't call each other, there was a network problem, neither mishti could call abir and vice versa

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Okay ......I am understanding what ur saying.......or this is what I am interpreting. You should call out but the boundary of the realtionship should be maintained. The respect should be maintained. You should go obverboard. Hmmm.....I am okay with that.....but I just want them the guys realise that mishku relationship is not the same as theirs and they should stand for their wives against anyone. If Mish is wrong Kunal should call her out, he shouldn't conpromise his wife's self respect for his bhai. Likewise if Kuhu is wrong Abir should call out Kuhu and ignore it for the sake of Kunal.

Coming to Abir walking out, I think its rude to put bluntly.....I could get his need to cool off. But he shouldn't abandon everytime he is frustrated. Thats the only thing I found distasteful. Leaving Mishti out in the resort alone.....and going off with his bhai....He should have atleast informed her he was going instead of taking off alone. Dnt they really check on each other?? Lol......do u remember the champagner track when Mish was mad with him?? He took off without informing her ......and she rented a scooty and went to search for him. So, shouldn't we expect concern from Abir too along with his anger??

@bold - exactly this...

Mmm i get it they should first understand the depth of the sisters issue but like uru said the sisters confuse them with their flip from time to time... let them find it... but i seriously want both boys to consider their wifes self respect yaar.. kunal bhi koi kami nahi even he is not behaving like a proper husband being a good brother n devar is ok but so consider your wife yaar..

Haan ofcourse it was not only rude, i just said its his way of cooling down sometimes it is right bcoz rather than saying anything in anger its better to calmly walk out, but like kunal advised leaving in middle of an argument is not gonna end problem.. him leaving mish alone is wrong that i agree, maybe he would've stayed there somewhere informing mish n then talking to her or taking her alone is ok.. he is concerned naa thats why he came back, its just his anger over powers one moment but then once he cools down he does realize what his mistake is....

yaar the champaner one he hid himself to call kunal n solve IT ride problem he didnt knew she stayed back when he came back the bus went away he thought she went in bus n she was really angry on him..

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Okay.....I see what you talking abt. I saw the fight again. Mish was talking abt Kuhu's behaviour and how to stop it further. She was talking abt the future. Abir was thinking about how the situation could be controlled so the it doesn't escalate further. He knows if Mish and him doesn' t go with kuku, Mishti will be blamed for ruining their trip. Thats why he was repeatibg her to be mature. He knows Mishti was played by Meenu and she will be blamed. And he saw the trailer of it from Kuhu. But what he didn't expect was how overboard Kuhu's behaviour would be. And him going off alone and leaving Mishti there alone was a way to control the situation from becoming worse.

Its like he analysed the situation and understood Meenu's game but he misjudged the sisters' relationship, he didn't expect Mishti to be stubborn, instead of going with him. He wanted her to understand Meenu's game, but he wasn't able to explain it properly in the fight, because Mish was refusing to move on from Kuhu. She was refusing to change the topic.....must be similar to his fight with Meenu😛

Basically band aid theory and open surgery working against each other😆

Its like the chess game ......Abir is analysing the next move but Mish is still stuck in the previous one.😆

P.s I hope it made sense. Now I am doing gol gol baatein like them. I should channel my inner nanko😆

Bang on you got what i wanted to say... this is what was happening... he wanted to convey but mish was stuck to kuhu only, see he kept trying to talk about current situation n about handling it differently but mish was still stuck with going n talking to kuhu 😆

yaar if this is your gol gol baatein then talk like this only naa i understood only now... 🤣