Rhea-Shaheer|MishBir|AT: 82| DT Reminder note Pg 104 - Page 44

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

HELLO MISHBIRIANS🤗

The discussion thread for re-runs in finally open!!

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/yeh-rishtey-hai-pyaar-ke/5158910/yrhpk-re-runs-discussion-thread-1-update-ep16-and-17

Thankyou for the reminder diya and ruhi👍🏼🤗

Let's all walk down the memory lane of yrhpk and mishbir, alll the way from the beginning Episode 1!🥳

#nostalgia #happymemories

wow wow nandu this is awesome lets go there... i'll upload pics too... lets share our opinion n start discussing.. 🥳

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

HELLO MISHBIRIANS🤗

The discussion thread for re-runs in finally open!!

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/yeh-rishtey-hai-pyaar-ke/5158910/yrhpk-re-runs-discussion-thread-1-update-ep16-and-17

Thankyou for the reminder diya and ruhi👍🏼🤗

Let's all walk down the memory lane of yrhpk and mishbir, alll the way from the beginning Episode 1!🥳

#nostalgia #happymemories

nannduuuuuu 🤗🤗

thanks for the thread dear😃🤗🤗

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Thank you Katrina ji 😉😆 Bohot din baad aapne agree kiya hai it seems 😛

Toh ab is janam mein yeh hi mili hai kya karein 😆

Same here , mere ghar pe meeting bulake duties di hai sabko 🤣 Mere pass aisi bakwas duties aayi hai kya bolun mujhe koi seriously leta hi nahi 😆 😆

Bold: Duties.. i think u have a joint family na?? My duties r dusting, washing dishes sometimes. Nd idhar udhar samaan hi pakdate reh jao..😆The moment i open IF and write a line, kisi na kisi ko yaad kaam yad aa jata hai😆

Originally posted by: ruhi19

dont be sorry yar...love u for the thread...

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

wow wow nandu this is awesome lets go there... i'll upload pics too... lets share our opinion n start discussing..

great! Thanks diyu I'll share some gifs🥳

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

nannduuuuuu

thanks for the thread dear

🤗❤️🤗

aww love you all, we're mishbir family❤️

Let's go and celebrate together😃🥳

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Haan he calls it as it is. But then won't it be hypocrisy if he doesn't call out Mishti when she does something. Honestly, I felt Kuhu went overboard but then he could have talked to her patiently like he did with Abir. But then, from the beginning he was shown as someone who doesn't care if he comes across as rude when he calls out some one........be it Abir,Meenu, Kuhu ya Parul maaasi.......he doesn't look at the relations......so shouldn't it go with his character to call out Mishti too if she goes overboard?? Or, Is his calling out others' actions is confined to when Abir gets hurt or one of his family memebers get hurt. Will he ever call out someone if Kuhu gets disrespected?? Atleast shouldn't he put across his opinion respectfully?? I know there should be a boundary of respect between relationships, but calling out as it is something I respect . Especially if ur wife is getting disrespected. Wasn't that our problem with Abir??

I understand what you are saying. I am not saying they should go and fight with their brothers' spouses when they are wrong.....but they could reprimand them respectfully. Today what Abir did, like subtly calling out Kuhu took him a long way in mishbir's relationship.

Isn't something like this a basic requirement....standing up for ur spouse ?? Or will they always tolerate their spouse's insult for the sake of relationships?? Even with Meenu, I want somebody to call her out for her actions except for Abir. Because they are all compromising their self respect and personality by turning a blind eye for the sake of family.

Thats takes me to the question.........Is ur sense of justice only applicable to outsiders?? When it comes to family saat khoon maaf??Because you dnt want to put relationships at stake??

But it would have been good if they maintained Kunal's character.I would like to see what prevails, his sense of justice for all his relationships or his bhai's pyar.

Its okay.....Abir's frustrations are understandable.....😆....plus ab gf thodi naa hain who he used to see randomly..🤣BM is the perfect candidate to advise. Both mishbir doesn't have any experience of how to make a marital relation work. Especially when they have to concentrate on family equations as well. This is their trial and error period to find a common ground. Now he can't even run away like before ......he has to take responsibilty of his relationship. I think, his sleeping separate and going off from the resort is to make us relate to the Abir who used to run away from his problems, when conflicts occur. Ab 1 din mein ek insaan thodi naa badal sakte hain??

P.S .....I think the post became long. I have tried to pen my scattered thoughts. Hope it make sense to u😛

Hayee mini i'm answering this alone to not get confused.. 😆 i gave explanation to my confusion on episode separately to you n uru check it out n give your opinion... 😆

Ok i understand what you are asking... let me try explaining...

calling out is different like how abir did yesterday... that can be done a subtle way same time him apologizing to kunal for it is also right... like if mish is wrong he can say it but at the same time wont abir expect him to apologize for the tone he used... if its between him n abir it doesnt matter if they apologize as they are brother same goes to mishku whatever they do they are sisters doesnt matter but when its opposite along with calling out a little amount of respect is needed... even to meenu he or even abir does call out yaar but then when she apologizes for mistake they too apologize even though she was wrong they do it out of respect... are you getting what i said...

ok let me give example about bp-jas market scene... he gave it back to jas but not directly but through bm bcoz of this limitation only, they can subtly say but it will be more respectful if bm talks to jas or varsha when they do something wrong we have seen bp asking or bm herself saying this that she will talk to them...

its not like its family so ok infact abir wants everyone in family to take stand for themselves but the respect should be maintained... thats why even though calling out meenu as monster was right but he apologized out of respect being his mother she shouldnt hear that...

@bold - haa this is right yaar... ofcourse its his trait even during confrontation sometimes he wants to walk out but meenu stops him n wants him to continue have you noticed everytime during confrontation its abir who walks out half way, even kunal pointed it out yesterday.. its his habit which he needs to change but then i wont say he is wrong as its his way of calming down n also he does think of the other persons pov in that alone time...

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Ahhh no I'm so sorry diya! I forgot😒. I got busy with some work, thanks for reminding me.😃

Got it up and open now: https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/yeh-rishtey-hai-pyaar-ke/5158910/yrhpk-re-runs-discussion-thread-1-update-ep16-and-17

My idea for the format was; since hotstar already has all the episode from the start. Anyone can start sharing pics and videos they have saved, and we can start discussing as usual.

Or Would you prefer to have one person post pictures from the episode in the thread? (would you like to do the honours? I personally don't have access to hotstar😒)

Or any lovely volunteers of our forum family who would like to post pictures of the re-run episodes in the discussion thread each day?

xx

ohh its ok nandu even i forgot n slept yaar.. and here i'm replying to some posts so couldnt join discussion asap...

thank you so much dear 🤗

ofcourse i can post pics... but not entirely but will post one pic of each scene... we can start discussing.. what say 😃

you guys start discussing mujhe ek reply karna hai after that will join you alll... 🤗

Originally posted by: SheThought

Haan, kill you Dheere Dheere like the show's theme song🤣

Yes, thank you! I do need to fix my recent (non-)sleeping habits 😒

Nooo....🙈🙈😆

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Hayee mini i'm answering this alone to not get confused.. 😆 i gave explanation to my confusion on episode separately to you n uru check it out n give your opinion... 😆

Ok i understand what you are asking... let me try explaining...

calling out is different like how abir did yesterday... that can be done a subtle way same time him apologizing to kunal for it is also right... like if mish is wrong he can say it but at the same time wont abir expect him to apologize for the tone he used... if its between him n abir it doesnt matter if they apologize as they are brother same goes to mishku whatever they do they are sisters doesnt matter but when its opposite along with calling out a little amount of respect is needed... even to meenu he or even abir does call out yaar but then when she apologizes for mistake they too apologize even though she was wrong they do it out of respect... are you getting what i said...

ok let me give example about bp-jas market scene... he gave it back to jas but not directly but through bm bcoz of this limitation only, they can subtly say but it will be more respectful if bm talks to jas or varsha when they do something wrong we have seen bp asking or bm herself saying this that she will talk to them...

its not like its family so ok infact abir wants everyone in family to take stand for themselves but the respect should be maintained... thats why even though calling out meenu as monster was right but he apologized out of respect being his mother she shouldnt hear that...

@bold - haa this is right yaar... ofcourse its his trait even during confrontation sometimes he wants to walk out but meenu stops him n wants him to continue have you noticed everytime during confrontation its abir who walks out half way, even kunal pointed it out yesterday.. its his habit which he needs to change but then i wont say he is wrong as its his way of calming down n also he does think of the other persons pov in that alone time...

I'm so loving reading ski your thoughts Jaan 😃

I soo want to write a lot but unable to... No idea why..... Just not getting the mood to write........ But I want to😊

You know it's really beautiful how we have understood vabhir Mishti ...... More than the writers/ makers

I'm glad MishBir had the fight yesterday... Good for them.... Keeping no bubbles in heart.........

It's a common point in couple where you take eachother For granted and also expect the others to understand you better and support you but this is not always the case everybody has their own perspective which sometimes they are unable to express openly....The only problem here is one is expecting The other to understand

Abir wanted Mishti to understand that Meenu is winning by getting the girls fight among themself.....n her fear of being called a home breaker becoming a reality

Mishti wanted him to understand that kuhu isn't so childish n innocent, never had kuhu let Mishti live in peace...n with abhirs constant support she's going all overboard

Though situation When both want to put their point first..n the other to understand it

Mishti needed badi maa to explain her in simple form

N Abhir needed Kunal

I think it's just a phase.....

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Ok girlzzz finally saw episode 5 times 😆 and got a clear idea but still both of you can clear it to me .... 😆

Uru what you said is correct its the different tangent here i tried explaining it see if i'm right... 😆

ok lets consider abirs dialogues

his room one "tumhari liye har problem ka solution is fighting"

yesterday "kis baat pe fight, i dont want to fight or fight over the fight, i dont like the word fight"

"why are you adamant or proving kuhu wrong n yourself right"

"i feel like talking to maa, she does things in name of family but it only creates problem in family"

uff ok from all this...

Firstly mish wanted to go talk with kuhu n not let her go, in her way or how abir sees this is her confrontational type, go n fight with kuhu, scold her....

Meenu her way of keeping family together is having control over them...

So abir had explained, had tried changing meenu's way of keeping family together that is he had wanted meenu to understand that by controlling family you cant keep them together, but she goes in different tangent like uru said n she wants to prove that controlling is the only way n can do anything to prove that n she name it as doing it for family... even now he is trying to change meenu's attitude n not let her take control over kunal, this is what all this is about...

Here mishti her way of trying to handle kuhu matter is fighting, scolding her n confronting her... abir tries to explain there are other way to handle her, kunal is also involved in all this... he is trying to explain the other way.. by doing what she wants that is confronting kuhu or anything is only gonna make things go out of hand which can create problem in family....

Uff now are you guyz getting why he compared mish n meenu... they want to handle things in the way only they want but abir has other solution but both are not ready to listen to that n adamant on their opinion only... this is why he compared both infact said he feels he is talking to maa...

Am i making sense or this is what you guyz also said.. i'm confused... 😆

but messed up thing and chodke jaana is not abir...esply when it comes to mkishti...

diyu when u cant analyse the scene... do it in back to front... so that u wil get clear idea...

and if i accept abir saying mishti to handle it in different manner then what about free loaders yar... mishti ki jagah koyi bhi hoti tho hurt hota... it is indirectly taunting abir only... no wife will take that...

abir se itna bhi nahi ho paya... i trust and we will find a solution together... im highly disappointed yar...

abir ka dard dikata hain but cant let go him as he left mishti...

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

ohh its ok nandu even i forgot n slept yaar.. and here i'm replying to some posts so couldnt join discussion asap...

thank you so much dear 🤗

ofcourse i can post pics... but not entirely but will post one pic of each scene... we can start discussing.. what say 😃

you guys start discussing mujhe ek reply karna hai after that will join you alll... 🤗

ohh no worries🤗i got busy with college work n then birthday threads here😆

commend your dedication to reply to so many posts😃👏👏

yup ofcourse, that's what I was meant to say👍🏼 Share pics of the important scenes.

Many are joining now in the thread..come soon😃