Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight
Hayee Mini it was not the zidd part yaar.. 🤣🤣 actually its a little twisted i watched episode 3 times now to understand it n i have got a clear idea but still want time to put it in words will post soon... but it was a mix of their room scene n resort one... 😆
Yaar poor girl back to back is hearing things which she took it in wrong way n the idiot is very much obvious to it too 🤣 all misinterpretation n obviousness playing between these two 🤣
@bold - Haan experience speaks 🤣 kunals basic trait is like that he never hesitates to call out anyone even meenu which he did in initial episodes... even now he will do... him calling out mish ah i doubt that but can happen... like let me say even if mish knew n meenu original face comes out she can go over limit, remember her temple words if not she was her bahu., now as a bahu she cant call out meenu beyond a limit,... same rule applies to everyone the respect matters, thats the reason why abir apologized to kunal too about talking like that to kuhu even kunal didnt deny it, he just said we all say things in anger which we shouldnt...
if kuhu is wrong abir can talk to kunal about it but confronting her directly is not right, same goes to kunal with mish n mishku with meenu n each others partner...
haha true yaar BM answered alot of question actually before abir used to do that be a good listener but now even he is loosing it 😆
i understand yaar he needs to stop kuhu n stand up for mish atleast for the respect of both... todays subtle one was ok but then both abinal still dont see kuhu like mish does did you see how kunal said people say things in anger which they shouldnt especially kuhu, they are not realizing the seriousness yaar... both are taking note but still they are not yet to see its her deliberate attempt not anger....
Okay....wow 3 times??.....when u get clarity post what was bothering u in the episode🤗
Haan yaar she was really hurt......and his obliviouness is really surprising😆We dnt knw when this bomb is going to explode on Abir's head. Classic clueless husband .😆Bina baat ke bak bak kiye jaa raha thaa......🤣
Haan he calls it as it is. But then won't it be hypocrisy if he doesn't call out Mishti when she does something. Honestly, I felt Kuhu went overboard but then he could have talked to her patiently like he did with Abir. But then, from the beginning he was shown as someone who doesn't care if he comes across as rude when he calls out some one........be it Abir,Meenu, Kuhu ya Parul maaasi.......he doesn't look at the relations......so shouldn't it go with his character to call out Mishti too if she goes overboard?? Or, Is his calling out others' actions is confined to when Abir gets hurt or one of his family memebers get hurt. Will he ever call out someone if Kuhu gets disrespected?? Atleast shouldn't he put across his opinion respectfully?? I know there should be a boundary of respect between relationships, but calling out as it is something I respect . Especially if ur wife is getting disrespected. Wasn't that our problem with Abir??
I understand what you are saying. I am not saying they should go and fight with their brothers' spouses when they are wrong.....but they could reprimand them respectfully. Today what Abir did, like subtly calling out Kuhu took him a long way in mishbir's relationship.
Isn't something like this a basic requirement....standing up for ur spouse ?? Or will they always tolerate their spouse's insult for the sake of relationships?? Even with Meenu, I want somebody to call her out for her actions except for Abir. Because they are all compromising their self respect and personality by turning a blind eye for the sake of family.
Thats takes me to the question.........Is ur sense of justice only applicable to outsiders?? When it comes to family saat khoon maaf??Because you dnt want to put relationships at stake??
But it would have been good if they maintained Kunal's character.I would like to see what prevails, his sense of justice for all his relationships or his bhai's pyar.
Its okay.....Abir's frustrations are understandable.....😆....plus ab gf thodi naa hain who he used to see randomly..🤣BM is the perfect candidate to advise. Both mishbir doesn't have any experience of how to make a marital relation work. Especially when they have to concentrate on family equations as well. This is their trial and error period to find a common ground. Now he can't even run away like before ......he has to take responsibilty of his relationship. I think, his sleeping separate and going off from the resort is to make us relate to the Abir who used to run away from his problems, when conflicts occur. Ab 1 din mein ek insaan thodi naa badal sakte hain??
P.S .....I think the post became long. I have tried to pen my scattered thoughts. Hope it make sense to u😛
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