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Originally posted by: meen123

vaah vaah vaah

I missed some interesting conversation.....

Behna theek hai thodi homesick ho rahi hu but then whole nation is....so yeah ok

Meen 🤗

check Chat thread yaar you will know how much fun it is... not only pali n uru everyone have taken a character me as BM 😆 you should be Atul come n go from time to time 🤣

haa i get it dear dont worry its time for some self care n awareness.... all are together in this... take care dear... be safe.. 😊 you didnt go home, i mean work still going on???

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

Heloo folks,🤗

Finally watched the episode and I liked it for the following reasons

1. Mishti is opening up about kuhu infront of Abinal -no more behind the walls lessons.

2. Mishti giving it back to kuhu, so she wont take any physical or mental abuse anymore from her. Also she addressed kuhu's jealousy.

3. Abir's ENOUGH is more than enough for me. As i have mentioned in many of my posts before, he is tolerating kuhu only for Kunal...Kunal asked to pack the things that they bought after reaching the resort.

4. Abir did see a jalak of his Maa in kuhu today when she blamed Mishti hand in parul's haq dilana task. 'SabMishtiKiWajahSe'

Now I could derive why he compared Mishti to maa...Infact I was against it till yesterday but today I could guess why he said that...he didn't compare Mishti it was kuhu in his head...So he took it out on Mishti when he saw mishti being so stubborn and not understanding him. I could actually put a finger to it after watching tomorrow's episode.

@Coooll Anu😎....If they can give humma humma for kuku , a couple who didn't have a proper love story yet and didn't share any kind of romantic moments like MishBir...Then think what we would get to watch on MishBir... I am really happy for kuhu fans , so far they didn't had any story to discuss apart from blindly supporting their favs...This is first one ever in these 270 episodes...So it is okay ma...

But we'r in for https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WtielknVlgI

See even kat is not that expressive in that song...but our expression king and queen will burn our screens...Sabar rak🤗

@ All 🤗

Makers are not biased nor treating RheSha unfairly...Yeah, they're not promoting MishBir... But I really don't care because they are too famous already as a couple without any gimmicks and I see it as a direct blessings from god . Nazar naa laage *ThuThuThu...

RS did some pooja ( not sure but it is dhan tharas something) for his welfare in the sets not for kuku birthday (their birthday falls on the same day) it was their birthday coincidentally so they took part in the pooja...I dont see anything wrong in it.

@ Ammu😊 i would request you not comeup with actors quitting the show ma...even a single negative word might come into effect if you keep on uttering it. Even in you real life, please don't use anything that could bring a negative outcome. Sorry, if you're offended.🤗

P.s : UK is on lock down for next 3 weeks...NO one should go out unless it is for medical reason and / or shopping essentials...

#StayHome...#StaySafe All of you.

awesome post Moni👍🏼

Completely agree with all your points.

I'm still yet to wrap my head around Abir's comment about Mishti being like Meenu. I can kind of see what he means about Mishti's zidh, but he is failing to understand that Mishti has been putting up with all this nonsense for years n years. She too has a breaking point/limit. I can understand Abir's concern about Meenu's secret plot, and he's trying his best to deal with Kuhu in a different approach, but sadly his attempts are blocking his vision to see the impact it's having on Mishti and his relationship.

I'm not upset, just disappointed as usual with the writers and directors with the execution. Infact, I'm quite intrigued to see how mishbir manage these differences in opinon👍🏼 Writing an analysis thread about my views on the last 2 weeks of episodes, I'll explain more there🤗

@Bold: I totally agree👍🏼 I'm glad they gave kuku their intimate scene now, so mishbir should be able to get a proper separate sequence like this too. Uff just thinking about how mishbir will absolutely set everything on fire is so exciting😳

#staysafe #stayhome #washhands everyone

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Moni tomorrow is the last episode yaar..from thursday the channel will start re run the show from 1st epi.

So dont know will they give proper closure or will leave it as cliffhanger???

Omg is it confirmed!?

I'm so excited if they start re-run from 1st episode I joined the forum much later and missed the fun of the first 50 or so episodes with all you here🤔Now we all can get a chance to reminisce and discuss our favourite moments from those amazing first 100 episodes🤗😃

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Ok this will be my thoughts on today’s episode. I know I can put it in the episode analysis but I am a bit scared, please if you don’t agree with me let’s debate not bash each other. I have had a great experience so far but I am a bit nervous as this is a loaded post.

First of all, I loved today’s episode. I have a habit of looking at the time I have left, but today I was left wanting more. This is how I felt in the initial episodes. I also understand the way this track is shaping up to be, and how this unprecedented situation tampered the episode so before anything. I want to say a great thank you to everyone involved, including the extras that were shown. I am in the medical research field, so I am very biased towards health care professionals but I understood how hard it must be for them as well.

I know everyone says Abir’s band aid theory and I know people are frustrated by it. But you have to take into account Abir’s backstory. The fact is he went through trauma as well, his parents were unavailable both emotionally and physically, that has shaped him with scars and flaws as well. I relate to him this way, I grew in a very similar situation being the judge between my parents and being a role model to a much younger sibling. In this type of environment, you hide everything. Humor and insanity becomes a tool, and it is very easy to hide behind it. From the outside we are balanced but what eats the most is self deprication. It is very hard to love yourself, and it is very easy to loose yourself helping others. The irony of this situation is that Abir basically lectured Mishti about this while he himself doesn’t follow it. For years, he has been the glue of the Rajvaansh family by basically not caring about his pain or insults. I think that is why he expects Mishti to be the mature one, because that is what he was. This is not fair to Mishti, that is why I loved their fight! Mishti doesn’t want to be treated like that anymore because her entire Maheshwari life she was treated like that explicitly by many characters. She realizes how hard it is because she had Badimaa and Badepapa to talk to, who showed how much they truly love her. Mishti was angry because she is being forced into this situation again, but this time she is in no “ehsaan”. She knows she has the right to live happy because she is the elder bahu of the Rajvaansh household, not like her initial situation where she was basically thrust into a new environment albeit unfairly. The argument was beautiful because it showed both of their insecurities, Abir unknowingly opening up “a purana gaau” when he says that she has a messed up equation, and that this house won’t split. This is Mishti’s fear that one day if she doesn’t hold her right, Abir will think she is too damaged and will break his household. This is also why Kuhu has reached her threshold with Kuhu, Mishti knows that this household is as much her right as Kuhu’s. Initially when she taunted, Mishti would ignore as she partially realizes that this is Kuhu’s blood relations, while not for her, now that is not the case. She is doing what Abir wanted her to: to be stubborn.

I wrote during the Shivaatri track why Mishbir were foiling Shiva and Parvathi (and they actually used it, they are spying on me yaar!). That is still holding true, Abir for the most part does not get angry he keeps his emotions in check, especially anger and sadness. But even the slightest bit of anger, ruins everything, he becomes unhinged and out of control (i.e Ved beating up). But with the time and thoughts when he calms he realizes how wrong he was and works on it to rectify it. If he is insulted or hurt he takes it as he deserved it, and keeps going. Here is where Mishti comes in, she is his confidante he can tell her anything and she will be there to listen and show him the correct path. But unfortunately she also gets his anger as a package deal (not fair nor am I condoning it) and faces the trials as well. The beauty is Mishti because of the positive influences in her life is realizing her worth, and is not afraid to voice her thoughts to Abir. Does she still get insecure? Of course, she is in a new environment but she is still fighting. Her fight is what will make Abir realize his self worth, as the way he is being treated will also cause the way Mishti is being treated. I want Mishti to stand up tall and show him his flaws, and his worth and soon he will also learn to be stubborn with his family including Kuhu soon.

I am really sorry for a loooong post. I still have thoughts, but they are more jumbled than this. Let’s see how the story goes on. Also I tried to be balanced, sorry if I went overboard with some of my thoughts. Please agree and disagree with me, I want to her y’all’s opinions on this too!

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Originally posted by: Aishu13

Ok this will be my thoughts on today’s episode. I know I can put it in the episode analysis but I am a bit scared, please if you don’t agree with me let’s debate not bash each other. I have had a great experience so far but I am a bit nervous as this is a loaded post.

First of all, I loved today’s episode. I have a habit of looking at the time I have left, but today I was left wanting more. This is how I felt in the initial episodes. I also understand the way this track is shaping up to be, and how this unprecedented situation tampered the episode so before anything. I want to say a great thank you to everyone involved, including the extras that were shown. I am in the medical research field, so I am very biased towards health care professionals but I understood how hard it must be for them as well.

I know everyone says Abir’s band aid theory and I know people are frustrated by it. But you have to take into account Abir’s backstory. The fact is he went through trauma as well, his parents were unavailable both emotionally and physically, that has shaped him with scars and flaws as well. I relate to him this way, I grew in a very similar situation being the judge between my parents and being a role model to a much younger sibling. In this type of environment, you hide everything. Humor and insanity becomes a tool, and it is very easy to hide behind it. From the outside we are balanced but what eats the most is self deprication. It is very hard to love yourself, and it is very easy to loose yourself helping others. The irony of this situation is that Abir basically lectured Mishti about this while he himself doesn’t follow it. For years, he has been the glue of the Rajvaansh family by basically not caring about his pain or insults. I think that is why he expects Mishti to be the mature one, because that is what he was. This is not fair to Mishti, that is why I loved their fight! Mishti doesn’t want to be treated like that anymore because her entire Maheshwari life she was treated like that explicitly by many characters. She realizes how hard it is because she had Badimaa and Badepapa to talk to, who showed how much they truly love her. Mishti was angry because she is being forced into this situation again, but this time she is in no “ehsaan”. She knows she has the right to live happy because she is the elder bahu of the Rajvaansh household, not like her initial situation where she was basically thrust into a new environment albeit unfairly. The argument was beautiful because it showed both of their insecurities, Abir unknowingly opening up “a purana gaau” when he says that she has a messed up equation, and that this house won’t split. This is Mishti’s fear that one day if she doesn’t hold her right, Abir will think she is too damaged and will break his household. This is also why Kuhu has reached her threshold with Kuhu, Mishti knows that this household is as much her right as Kuhu’s. Initially when she taunted, Mishti would ignore as she partially realizes that this is Kuhu’s blood relations, while not for her, now that is not the case. She is doing what Abir wanted her to: to be stubborn.

I wrote during the Shivaatri track why Mishbir were foiling Shiva and Parvathi (and they actually used it, they are spying on me yaar!). That is still holding true, Abir for the most part does not get angry he keeps his emotions in check, especially anger and sadness. But even the slightest bit of anger, ruins everything, he becomes unhinged and out of control (i.e Ved beating up). But with the time and thoughts when he calms he realizes how wrong he was and works on it to rectify it. If he is insulted or hurt he takes it as he deserved it, and keeps going. Here is where Mishti comes in, she is his confidante he can tell her anything and she will be there to listen and show him the correct path. But unfortunately she also gets his anger as a package deal (not fair nor am I condoning it) and faces the trials as well. The beauty is Mishti because of the positive influences in her life is realizing her worth, and is not afraid to voice her thoughts to Abir. Does she still get insecure? Of course, she is in a new environment but she is still fighting. Her fight is what will make Abir realize his self worth, as the way he is being treated will also cause the way Mishti is being treated. I want Mishti to stand up tall and show him his flaws, and his worth and soon he will also learn to be stubborn with his family including Kuhu soon.

I am really sorry for a loooong post. I still have thoughts, but they are more jumbled than this. Let’s see how the story goes on. Also I tried to be balanced, sorry if I went overboard with some of my thoughts. Please agree and disagree with me, I want to her y’all’s opinions on this too!

You've beautifully explained both Abr & Mishti's P.O.V. Can't agree more. Your post is well balanced. You've put forth your point very poignantly. And I appreciate that skill of yours. I get where they both are coming from and I empathize with them. That's why I can't stay mad at either of them for too long. They both have very traumatizing pasts and it can take toll on anyone's mental health. Instead of expecting the other person to act in a certain way, they should start empathizing with each other more. They were able to do that earlier, but they are failing to do so now. They should work on it better.

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

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