Originally posted by: CaptiveFreedom
For few , isn't Shehnaaz Gill herself a hypocrite as she left her family for her career but criticize women who drink, smoke or opt for divorce...aiming for equality..
Women who drink, smoke in order to show themselves equal to men opt for divorce...is an orthodox, conservative, general/personal perspective....
Whereas...
One woman screaming at her "Larkon ko chune key bahaney dhoonti hai...ladko ko chuti hai"....other women keeping mum or asking the former one not to apologize for character assassinating a woman....than same woman who asked not to apologize cried over character assassination....That's true hypocrisy, inequality and character assassination of one woman by another...
A woman should retain her self-respect infront of man and fight with him over arguments between them...a woman must have her own opinion and perspective and be vocal about it...but a woman can't have her choice regarding an attachment "as a friend"..an attachment "as a lover"....an attachment "as a good mentor"....an attachment "as an admirer"....its like a women is hitting on too many men and is disgraceful even if her priorities are set...
Hi, all of us are hypocrites to differing extents and all of us change our opinions based on our biases and our backgrounds.
I mean tomorrow if someone Sana loves gets divorced, her thoughts on divorce will also change.
@ bold,I have to admit Sana has made me questions some of my own thoughts on a lot of things including who am I to define self respect or really anything for her. She would cling to Sid and yet was able to be her own person as well.The issue with Sana was that she was her own person who did her own things and that will always ruffle feathers.