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IN-FAMOUS BONDINGS….

So all the duki aatmas of the show… I hope what I write makesense to every FD and every character in the show…

Yes we are not getting actual couple bonds but we aregetting other couples but it’s the way of progressing the story…

Before you read this keep this in your mind and read… everyperson is grey and every character is grey… the shades of grey are varied buteveryone is grey…

So after reading all posts in MF, both AT’s(yes I still readPOV and discussions in kuku AT) every are one sinking so I thought to made thispost…

MISHNAL BOND...

I start with Mishnal bond as the show started with same bond(mishti-kunal) most of us are in various zones in accepting but I will say whyit easy to accept…

This post is very long so please read it completely to give your reviewes…

Mishnal is very likely with each other in characters… theyneed push from everyone in their family as they are over thinkers… becausethese 2 don’t see the path but they are worried about the results… when mishnalare in courtship for kunal its like a deal and for mishti its like finding aright person… what ever mishnal did in courtship is need not to be elaboratebut I give some points here… when kunal faces problem with mishti he goes tokuhu for advice about mishti and mishti goes to abir for kunal… mishti neversaid the reason about her rejecting kunal and she didn’t put her words exactlybut I will give complete explanation here… what mishti liked in kunal is abir’stoughts and gestures so it came out she don’t know what to and what to chooseand even kunal didn’t trust her in her father issue but he didn’t want anotherrejection or break up as he knows the pain of it so he don’t mishti to undergothat.. yes mishnal never a match but kunal cared about mishti and he neverwanted to have a heart break for mishti even she didn’t trust her (that’s kunalcharacter) mishti wont keep grudge for any person as her own parents ditched soshe the hatered in mishti is also deserved for them… so its not easy formishnal to gel up but i already said these are alike and coming to the sweetbond of mishnal now… its not all of a sudden… kunal started to accept mishtiwhen meenu said mishti is not responsible for problems in family but its mehul…as kunal is maa ka bakt he listened to her and accepted her… the kunal whohated mishti’s presence is ready tie a bracelet with one hand to which mishtieven started making it difficult with him to normalise the situation but abirhelped and he completed and said with help of my brother I will mend myrelation with my bhabhi… its started from there after this kuhu asked kunal tothink about their relation as he accpeted mishti and then why not them but he said I cant say in marriage where Idon’t want to be in… it indicated he never accepted kuhu as his family… imsaying family because for kunal family comes first then his wife… so kunalnever accepted kuhu as family member so he cant give his wife position to her…(for kunal morethan meenu abir is important… what ever he do he will do forabir only not even for meenu and he will go against meenu for abir as wealready seen)coming to mishnal… even before card ceremony there is convobetween meenu and kunal and he had doubted meenu intentions about mishti butbrushed it off and accepted gracefully that may be it will be hard for him buthe accepts mishti for his bhai and meenu knows she cant use kunal and then movingto card ceremony abir broke off with mishti to protect kunal but kunal is theone who is affected for both mishti and abir as he know the pain of break upand he didn’t want any one to undergo it even if he hates i.e., mishti… whenkunal has seen mishti move on he berated her but abir as always stopped him andtold him that mishti still effects him…

When mishti told kunal’s birth truth he believed her butjust need confirmation as he knows mishti that she cant usually say this tohurt him and abir gave confirmation to it… when kunal got to know abirscarificed mishti for his birth truth and even jugnu confirmed abir all of asudden cant ditch mishti for a silly matter he connected dots as abir alwaysdefended mishti is all possible situations so its easy for kunal to acceptmishti and the turn of kunal character started from here…(kunal a person who ismaa ka bakt will blindly do anything and can gives his life if meenu asks butfor abir he will fight and become worst person and best person also)… kunalagreed to marry kuhu after a talk with not after abir adiviced him… he took hisadvice but the talk with kuhu made him realise that his life will be easy withkuhu (because he know the match is of kuhu’s but his maa changed the rishta buthe accepeted as he cant deny his maa and one yes kuhu triggered kunal not meenuor abir) kunal black mailed meenu that he will say to maheshwari’s that hespiked nishta’s drink and chooses abir’s happiness who is mishti and stood withabir… (the person who is maa ka bakt blackmailed maa for abir then why he willany leaf unturned to mend it with mishti)

Kunal always need abir support to mend the situation but onmishnish GD kunal supported and mended the situation… scene shift to mehendiwhere kunal supported mishti even tough abir himself was in confusion ofmishti’s words but our kunal decode it… mishti choose family but loves abir andkunal explained it beautifully as they both are on of same page (I love kunalhere as he understood mishti’s pain morethan abir and took mishti side andencouraged him to go further) then comes haldi the one dialogue of kunal formishti giving her the strength after mishti knowing truth why abir broke withher by holding her hand “ mishti KABHIKABHI LIFE MEIN VO NAHI HOTA JO HUM CHAHTE HAIN BUT HOTA WAHI HAIN JO SAHIHAIN” he gave strength to mishti as he knows the upcoming strom and whennishanth drama happened mishbir accepted faith but kunal started to fight forboth mishbir with maheshwari family by saying they cant get them married (Idon’t want to elaborate nishanth’s side) but directly said mishti don’t lovehim but due to kuhu their family moved ahead but kunal still encouraged abir tofight for mishti and the last nail in the coffin is message from abir to mishtiand mishnal formed a team for abir and kunal gave strength, support, belief andeverything to mishti in that moment (she believed mishti’s instinct for abir…the kunal who never understood mishti’s love for abir nor her POV gave in toher instinct…) when meenu asked kunal how can he believe mishti over her but hesays mishti can reach bahi and I trust her and even when they found mishbir…kunal gave his hand to support mishti to get down… (the super fevicol bond ofmishnal formed here that cant even break by their respectful partners) themishnal bond turned into actions (kunal is man of actions than words )startwith msihbir marriage preperations(the baby steps, understanding each other,trusting mishti are all done)then comes pooja of mishbir at RJV and kunal wantsto talk with abir but seeing mishti he backs off (the kunal who always wantshis priority and his first position in his bhai’s life ready to move back asmishti wants to talk with abir but mishti gave him what he wanted his haq onabir my moving back) and the terrace scene of mishnal where he asks misthi tosay me theme of sangeet and had a laugh at that moment…theme can be asked byabir also but kunal choose mishti to ask theme and that too planned by hiswife)the kunal who cant stand mishti with his bhai passing comments of theirromance, hearing her words, talkingvideo calls, helping her and asking his bhai to help his wife, complainingabout his bhai to his wife,believing mishti can handle his brother and he noneeds to take tension of it as completely trusts mishti for abir, takingadvices from her bhabhi about his wife and mom too… (I don’t feel ackward kunaltaking advice from mishti about kuhu as he did same at earlier which Imentioned and coming to parul matter… msihti is more relatable person than kuhuor abir and I can explain why mishti… everything about mishnal parents are notsecret in both families and the way mishti can answer this question cant beanswered by kuhu or abir because mishnal are with their upbringing family andkubir are with their own family but mishti’s answer made kunal to think andmishbir’s efforts made kunal guilty as he didn’t do anything but they are doingevery possible thing to respect her mother in all means… mishti can give sareedirectly to parul but she sent jugnu as she don’t want parul to remember theincident she faced previous day… so kunal is not any buddu to understand it butabir used his opportunity to advice kunal again (kunal trigger is seeing hismom working as servant and mishbir supporting her)and kunal did what he wantedbut not before saying to meenu as the best possible way he can… (I seen this inmeenu ki sachai post by someone that what ever kunal did he did it in openprenup, divorce and now parul acceptance)… he always stood by truth and facedit publically and did what he wanted to do… (kunal’s character growth is doneslowly but we should know the way to see it and even in mishnal relation too)and I can say about kuku relation also but in their bond… so mishnal cant tolerate their’s spouses beizzati byothers but they give benefit of doubt… (mishti in asking kunal about spikingdrink by taking abir’s name and kunal by asking kuhu about pills) and infrontof mishnal no one dares to bad mouth their spouses and mishnal maintain a linebetween with their words…

P.S: pls see down for other bonds....

KUBIR RELATION…

Kubir are also same in many aspects but not in all… theirbond started on ketu’s sangeet night and they don’t need time to gel up becausethey are going with flow persons and both don’t judge each other but listens tothem and believe what other say… kubir became more stronger after kuku’smarriage as for abir kuhu is not only friend, bhabhi but also his partner’ssister and the promise he made to mishti to care of kuhu… so for abir kuhu isfrom many sides and he will support her morethan kunal and he will take herside even if kunal is right also…

Now coming to kuhu… she can open up with abir but not kuanland confess her mind to abir and abir only not even with anyone… for kuhurelationship with abir is #keepitseperate she never tried for abir to get hislove and she made all possible ways to make mishti away from abir not becauseshe hates mishti but she loves kunal more and kunal hates mishti and even kuhutoo don’t want mishti to be in same house as she cant share same house with hermishti again… kuhu cant even stand mishti for abir as it proven on abir’sbirthday before leap and she made sure abir wont go away to mishti as she don’ther planed party to get spoiled…and kuhu once questioned abir about hisdecision of break up but answered her in her way only… what u said all theseyears is said by me so need to feel bad…

KUBIR after leap…

Their bond turned in different manner after leap and mostlyin nishmish shaadi time…kuhu don’t want mishbir but helped abir because kuhudon’t want nishanth to be in love less marriage not becasue abir wants mishtiand for kuhu abir’s break up truth also not important that much because shecared only about nishanth here morethan anyone as she experiencing love lessmarriage… so she helped abir for nishanth more and for mishbir less… she evenscolded abir for not coming on time and how mishti loose hope on him and abirdidn’t made any excuse but ketu said the truth and then she helped once forsangeeth and mehendi she don’t even know what abir’s plan is… yes everyone willsay kuhu is the who told about kunal’s spike kaand but she said for nishanth andher family morethan for mishti (its not that im blaming kuhu here but I willsay her POV more in other bonds)… kuhu wants abir to be his side and can badmouth mishti infront abir with all guts because abir never judged and when abircame to know about e-mail fiasco done by kuhu by using mishti’s id he didn’tscolded her instead made her understood what she did… same he did in pillsfiasco but if he knows her actual target then situation will be different wherewe can see in further episodes… this kubir bond will break it wont be same…(abir is thinking all kuhu’s kaands has love for kunal in e-mail, slappingmishti due to her fit of rage , pills due to galti… he knows only half truth inall these… but when he discovers all because of her hatered towards mishti thenthis relation will go trough the test) kubir can see their partners slapped bymishku but don’t even talk about it as I said #keepitseperate…. (I can rantmore on them but already there are many posts on them and I don’t want to digmore into this)

MISHKU…

Mishku relation I can say the things which maximum ofmembers don’t know here… kuhu flips when it comes to mishti and blames her foreverything because she in that thought process only that everything happens inher life is due to mishti… and kuhu always wants superior to mishti becausemishti is better than her and she knows it but she wont accept so blaming isher way and mishti she is wrong in many things but she is sensible and maturethan kuhu and she does things not to make kuhu less or wrong but she just don’twant to be abandoned by this family too… so mishti behaviour is based on that…both mishku have inscurities

a) M:Family abandoned issues so she has to selfindependent if MAH family leaves her…

b) K: TO be ignored by people due to mishti’spresence…

Kuhu don’t have any problem if she is ignored but only whenmishti is no there and if mishti is in picture then its back to square…

Mishti went through her issues in teens and there isconstant threat of her father so she is given more importance than kuhu by BPand BM and even BP and BM lost their daughter before some years of mishti’sarrival to MAH house so they felt mishti filled/completed that viod in theirlifes…

Kuhu went trough so much only when she got to know she isnot varsha’s daughter and made herself accept the truth that she is varsha’sdaughter only… ( I don’t know when kuhu got to know about this but she sufferedat that time)

Mishku equation is because both of them no one is soloresponsible for that… if one gives action then other will give reactions… Idon’t think kuhu has a problem with sharing everything with mishti as they havehealthy relation but something happened that made kuhu to think its all becauseof mishti… her insecurities, jealous and left alone by her own family… may bethis track shows the actual reason…

Mishti don’t hate kuhu but do things for her just because tomake kuhu believe that she is the not the person what kuhu thinks… kuhu hatesmishti and flips every time to safe side herself as she believes mishtisnatched everything…

Kuhu’s birth mother is dead and she don’t know it till nowand kuhu came to MAH house at age 4 or 5 but she don’t know shaurya is herfather and she calls naithik as her father but slowly she understood realityand kuhu is with MAH family with nishanth for 10 years or more before mishtiarrived…

Both mishku love each other but don’t express it… morethanmishku the other knows their wants without saying and they will be there foreach other at worst times… mishku as a team is khidki thod team morethanabinal… if mishku are together they win everything and in future there is achance of kuhu flip again… kuhu is not grey but turns darker shade of grey butwhen kuhu realises her mistakes then she will be more sweeter than mishti… bothmishku don’t trust each other if both says truth also as they both have equalshare in it…

MISHBIR relation…

Mishbir relation known to everyone but what we cant see is the change in dynamics after marriage…abir who cant stand a word against mishti listens to kuhu when she bad mouths her and wont even stop her and don’t also defend mishti because she don’t want to raise her anger or hate towards mishti(which is wrong but he will know it soon) and mishti didn’t even felt bad about abir listening to kuhu and her words but she felt bad that abir said uska jhagada karne ki addat hain and she cant handle joint family( which is really not abir meant but she is in home breaker dillusion soon abir make her out ofit) abir follows mishti’s stance for fight for the right not for family and mishti is taking stance for fight for family not for right thing… they are inrole reversal but they have to end it soon because they have to work as team not role reversals…

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KUKU relation…

Many say kunal is not a good husband or he wants kuhu onlyfor family but that’s not the case…kunal started getting into relation with kuhu after mishbir break up… but didn’t understood it but he seen kuhu growing and not giving a chance to him realize her worth but never said in words shown in actions following kuhu's diet, using hash tag language, helping her in event management and understanding her morethan her at time of mishbir sangeet theme discussion on terrace… (kunal who never wanted his wifeto work of course he is taking divorce from kuhu but he accepted kuhu’s eventmanagement decision and corrected her mistakes too in the event) he always sayswhat kuhu did her for family but never says what she did for him but shows inhis actions of following her personality… kunal even accepted his mistake bysaying what ever he did with kuhu is completely his fault he cant blame mishtifor it and needs to sign divorce papers but kuhu stopped him but he want togive her dream wedding so he proposed re marriage and gave into her commands ofgetting married in same mandap and even asked mishti on behalf of kuhu…(if kuhuasks situations will be different but here kunal asked mishti on kuhu’sbehalf)and got married but they never spoke but as I said kunal shows inactions morethan words by burning divorce papers and asking kuhu to teach himeverything because he don’t know anything… (kunal who don’t even give a damn tohis wife surrounded himself as student to her learn from her) kunal planned offsite trip for kuhu the man who cant even skip a day of work and did everythingfor his wife during shivratri pooja… and after that on kuhu’s birthday kunalgave her dance date as gift (I know he should give some expensive but he isgiving experiences to her not materialistic things as a husband who wants togive love and for kuhu materialistic things matters but not from kunal fromothers) and then holika dahan scene when kuhu wants to do kunal kept mum andobeyed (which is not also kunal who snatches mishbir rights) and never blamedkuhu for mishti’s incident even tough there is no hand of her but listened toher made her to let out the pain but stopped her when it is getting more andasked her to explain her code language (kunal who don’t want to hear kuhu’svoice as she speaks much to asking her to explain code language) and made herby smile by tickling her and kissing her… (kuhu is not angry on kunal formaking her demean about red pear issue (which I don’t even call demean but itsa nok jhok of hubby wifey any wont believe if I say so )nor gifting company tomishti which is dear to her) kunal neverquestioned her again on holi dahan issue as he believes kuhu can never do thatand coming to pills fiscao kunal questioned kuhu infront of all but I wont seeit has kunal not trusting his wife because its about abir but I see it has itsbetter he asks his wife than some other asks his wife because sometimes it isbetter our spouses asks us than family and if kuhu said truth also he willdefend her and if he comes to know it he will be hurt but understand her andsupport her… kuhu listens to abir but kuanl can make her redeem herself anddon’t judge her by this act and even he can understand if she says she has aplan for mishti but she didn’t want to do but galti se hua tha…kuanl is changedas husband gives benefit of doubt to kuhu and even he asks apology to mishti onkuhu’s behalf but they shown it differently… (here also both are in rolereversal mode but kuhu’s insecurities should be targeted and kunal knows whatshe is doing as he did most of them but he can only get her out of these…)kuhu’s cure is kunal’s love but to show his love and support the worst has tocome out of her (kuhu wont change to black but touches deeper shade of grey)(whoare is not able to accept mishnal bond and kuanl cant treat his wife more thanabir or mishbir but he is doing it by taking mishbir rights on holik dahan)kunal even took misht’s side to let her breath and talk but kuhu vent herinsecurity on mishti but kunal took kuhu’s side not in words but actions ifkunal who is bonding with mishti should question kuhu as mishti ran awaywithout answering but kunal didn’t do that shown his love in actions… kuku arenot getting scenes but if u get u can connect easily…

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PARUL-MEENU BONDING…

I don’t want to say much about this bond as already a topicis running in MF but I give small gist of my POV…

Meenu became a person whom she hates that mehul… mehul isthe one who plotted everything and trapped meenu in love but that decision ofher life drastically so she comes from there and slowly she turned into mehulcompletely… I don’t why meenu accepted parul because parul came in search ofmehul to Rajkot but she ended up meeting meenu and meenu adopted kunal reason neverknown as meenu wont do anything without plan… meenu used parul in all her kaand’sas abir says meenu habituated everyone in the house to blame parul for their mistakesand if meenu is that good she should have given parul the place in the house ofrelative but she made her servant and raised kunal to control him and made himagainst everyone… even his own mother parul but cant make him against abir andmay be can never do also... parul sacrificed everything to see his son growinginfront of her and getting everything which she cant give and even bears hishatered also and left hope of kunal accepting her as a mom and if meenu made the great RJV empireand it’s the parul who held the home directly or indirectly… it is tough for meto imagine RJV home under meenu control if not parul is with her… parul hasmore understanding of every person in the house than meenu… if meenu doesanything to parul again the home will break…

MAH RELATIONS…

Yes BP-BM are partially to mishti as they got second toraise their daughter again so didn’t let any stone unturned and went out of theway and yes they cant raise kuhu as mishti because kuhu has parents and theywill raise kuhu and BM-BP does grand parents duty but they failed but notcompletely when ever they have to choose between kuhu or mishti it is alwaysboth kuhu (in e-mail fiasco, kuku first marriage announcement, haldi kaand,kuku re marriage) the situations are always against mishti but they never tookher stand like abir did and even BP- BM can believe their parvarish but they keptfamily morethan mishti and coming to mishti (changing the rishta ,giving premarital courtship ,nishmish shaadi track everyone are at fault but blamed onlymishti because she gave hopes to everyone or mishti) … BM even gave her aspecial place which is only of her and kuhu BP too care for kuhu if someoneremembers the first scene in MAH house aftermishku performance at kutch only kuhu arrived home and BM is worried for mishtibut BP asked her concentrated on kuhu as kuhu is here..

Varsha and shaurya raised kuhu very well and did allpossible things for her never made her feel she is illegitimate and morethanshourya varsha fulfilled everything kuhu wanted and for varsha she acceptedmishti but always she stood up with kuhu…

Jas she is most annoying person in all ways but her instinctabout mishbir is true they cant be separated and for her the problem is mishleft nishanth and if nishanth did then she wont had any problem and yes MAH didn’tgave time for her healing but they never forced to attend functions but jasintiated it by coming to mishbir pooja in RJV house by saying MAH house is herhouse…

AS BP said he did ehsaan nannu and kuhu but never made themrealised that then when BP-Bm want to raise mishti as her own they should givein but all showed their differences in all possible ways…

Im not saying BP- Bm are perfect in handling the house butmistakes are done by everyone…

P.S: I don’t want this as a battle ground and FD wars…see ithas a complete story and yes everyone is in their character with theircharacter growths…

If I used anyone’s words or sentences in this without their permissionthen im sorry…

Pls share your opinions and views about this…

P.S: pls see down for other bonds....

Originally posted by: ruhi19

IN-FAMOUS BONDINGS….

So all the duki aatmas of the show… I hope what I write makesense to every FD and every character in the show…

Yes we are not getting actual couple bonds but we aregetting other couples but it’s the way of progressing the story…

Before you read this keep this in your mind and read… everyperson is grey and every character is grey… the shades of grey are varied buteveryone is grey…

So after reading all posts in MF, both AT’s(yes I still readPOV and discussions in kuku AT) every are one sinking so I thought to made thispost…

MISHNAL BOND...

I start with Mishnal bond as the show started with same bond(mishti-kunal) most of us are in various zones in accepting but I will say whyit easy to accept…

This post is very long so please read it completely to give your reviewes…

Mishnal is very likely with each other in characters… theyneed push from everyone in their family as they are over thinkers… becausethese 2 don’t see the path but they are worried about the results… when mishnalare in courtship for kunal its like a deal and for mishti its like finding aright person… what ever mishnal did in courtship is need not to be elaboratebut I give some points here… when kunal faces problem with mishti he goes tokuhu for advice about mishti and mishti goes to abir for kunal… mishti neversaid the reason about her rejecting kunal and she didn’t put her words exactlybut I will give complete explanation here… what mishti liked in kunal is abir’stoughts and gestures so it came out she don’t know what to and what to chooseand even kunal didn’t trust her in her father issue but he didn’t want anotherrejection or break up as he knows the pain of it so he don’t mishti to undergothat.. yes mishnal never a match but kunal cared about mishti and he neverwanted to have a heart break for mishti even she didn’t trust her (that’s kunalcharacter) mishti wont keep grudge for any person as her own parents ditched soshe the hatered in mishti is also deserved for them… so its not easy formishnal to gel up but i already said these are alike and coming to the sweetbond of mishnal now… its not all of a sudden… kunal started to accept mishtiwhen meenu said mishti is not responsible for problems in family but its mehul…as kunal is maa ka bakt he listened to her and accepted her… the kunal whohated mishti’s presence is ready tie a bracelet with one hand to which mishtieven started making it difficult with him to normalise the situation but abirhelped and he completed and said with help of my brother I will mend myrelation with my bhabhi… its started from there after this kuhu asked kunal tothink about their relation as he accpeted mishti and then why not them but he said I cant say in marriage where Idon’t want to be in… it indicated he never accepted kuhu as his family… imsaying family because for kunal family comes first then his wife… so kunalnever accepted kuhu as family member so he cant give his wife position to her…(for kunal morethan meenu abir is important… what ever he do he will do forabir only not even for meenu and he will go against meenu for abir as wealready seen)coming to mishnal… even before card ceremony there is convobetween meenu and kunal and he had doubted meenu intentions about mishti butbrushed it off and accepted gracefully that may be it will be hard for him buthe accepts mishti for his bhai and meenu knows she cant use kunal and then movingto card ceremony abir broke off with mishti to protect kunal but kunal is theone who is affected for both mishti and abir as he know the pain of break upand he didn’t want any one to undergo it even if he hates i.e., mishti… whenkunal has seen mishti move on he berated her but abir as always stopped him andtold him that mishti still effects him…

When mishti told kunal’s birth truth he believed her butjust need confirmation as he knows mishti that she cant usually say this tohurt him and abir gave confirmation to it… when kunal got to know abirscarificed mishti for his birth truth and even jugnu confirmed abir all of asudden cant ditch mishti for a silly matter he connected dots as abir alwaysdefended mishti is all possible situations so its easy for kunal to acceptmishti and the turn of kunal character started from here…(kunal a person who ismaa ka bakt will blindly do anything and can gives his life if meenu asks butfor abir he will fight and become worst person and best person also)… kunalagreed to marry kuhu after a talk with not after abir adiviced him… he took hisadvice but the talk with kuhu made him realise that his life will be easy withkuhu (because he know the match is of kuhu’s but his maa changed the rishta buthe accepeted as he cant deny his maa and one yes kuhu triggered kunal not meenuor abir) kunal black mailed meenu that he will say to maheshwari’s that hespiked nishta’s drink and chooses abir’s happiness who is mishti and stood withabir… (the person who is maa ka bakt blackmailed maa for abir then why he willany leaf unturned to mend it with mishti)

Kunal always need abir support to mend the situation but onmishnish GD kunal supported and mended the situation… scene shift to mehendiwhere kunal supported mishti even tough abir himself was in confusion ofmishti’s words but our kunal decode it… mishti choose family but loves abir andkunal explained it beautifully as they both are on of same page (I love kunalhere as he understood mishti’s pain morethan abir and took mishti side andencouraged him to go further) then comes haldi the one dialogue of kunal formishti giving her the strength after mishti knowing truth why abir broke withher by holding her hand “ mishti KABHIKABHI LIFE MEIN VO NAHI HOTA JO HUM CHAHTE HAIN BUT HOTA WAHI HAIN JO SAHIHAIN” he gave strength to mishti as he knows the upcoming strom and whennishanth drama happened mishbir accepted faith but kunal started to fight forboth mishbir with maheshwari family by saying they cant get them married (Idon’t want to elaborate nishanth’s side) but directly said mishti don’t lovehim but due to kuhu their family moved ahead but kunal still encouraged abir tofight for mishti and the last nail in the coffin is message from abir to mishtiand mishnal formed a team for abir and kunal gave strength, support, belief andeverything to mishti in that moment (she believed mishti’s instinct for abir…the kunal who never understood mishti’s love for abir nor her POV gave in toher instinct…) when meenu asked kunal how can he believe mishti over her but hesays mishti can reach bahi and I trust her and even when they found mishbir…kunal gave his hand to support mishti to get down… (the super fevicol bond ofmishnal formed here that cant even break by their respectful partners) themishnal bond turned into actions (kunal is man of actions than words )startwith msihbir marriage preperations(the baby steps, understanding each other,trusting mishti are all done)then comes pooja of mishbir at RJV and kunal wantsto talk with abir but seeing mishti he backs off (the kunal who always wantshis priority and his first position in his bhai’s life ready to move back asmishti wants to talk with abir but mishti gave him what he wanted his haq onabir my moving back) and the terrace scene of mishnal where he asks misthi tosay me theme of sangeet and had a laugh at that moment…theme can be asked byabir also but kunal choose mishti to ask theme and that too planned by hiswife)the kunal who cant stand mishti with his bhai passing comments of theirromance, hearing her words, talkingvideo calls, helping her and asking his bhai to help his wife, complainingabout his bhai to his wife,believing mishti can handle his brother and he noneeds to take tension of it as completely trusts mishti for abir, takingadvices from her bhabhi about his wife and mom too… (I don’t feel ackward kunaltaking advice from mishti about kuhu as he did same at earlier which Imentioned and coming to parul matter… msihti is more relatable person than kuhuor abir and I can explain why mishti… everything about mishnal parents are notsecret in both families and the way mishti can answer this question cant beanswered by kuhu or abir because mishnal are with their upbringing family andkubir are with their own family but mishti’s answer made kunal to think andmishbir’s efforts made kunal guilty as he didn’t do anything but they are doingevery possible thing to respect her mother in all means… mishti can give sareedirectly to parul but she sent jugnu as she don’t want parul to remember theincident she faced previous day… so kunal is not any buddu to understand it butabir used his opportunity to advice kunal again (kunal trigger is seeing hismom working as servant and mishbir supporting her)and kunal did what he wantedbut not before saying to meenu as the best possible way he can… (I seen this inmeenu ki sachai post by someone that what ever kunal did he did it in openprenup, divorce and now parul acceptance)… he always stood by truth and facedit publically and did what he wanted to do… (kunal’s character growth is doneslowly but we should know the way to see it and even in mishnal relation too)and I can say about kuku relation also but in their bond… so mishnal cant tolerate their’s spouses beizzati byothers but they give benefit of doubt… (mishti in asking kunal about spikingdrink by taking abir’s name and kunal by asking kuhu about pills) and infrontof mishnal no one dares to bad mouth their spouses and mishnal maintain a linebetween with their words…

Great analysis Ruhi... Even I didn’t feel Mishnal bonding is forced or very fast. Their bonding is gradual. Mishti was never mad at kunal for anything except during the divorce track.

For kunal i think he was hurt when she broke the engagement. He became more mad when abir supported her and also he listened to meenu’s words he thought she is selfish and not fit for abir.

Once he came to know that mishti will do anything for abir all his doubts are gone. I think he admires her now.

Originally posted by: sanamshine

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Great analysis Ruhi... Even I didn’t feel Mishnal bonding is forced or very fast. Their bonding is gradual. Mishti was never mad at kunal for anything except during the divorce track.

For kunal i think he was hurt when she broke the engagement. He became more mad when abir supported her and also he listened to meenu’s words he thought she is selfish and not fit for abir.

Once he came to know that mishti will do anything for abir all his doubts are gone. I think he admires her now.

why he knows mishti is not harm to family and his place is safe then he gave in..

Originally posted by: sanamshine

wow...

Great analysis Ruhi... Even I didn’t feel Mishnal bonding is forced or very fast. Their bonding is gradual. Mishti was never mad at kunal for anything except during the divorce track.

For kunal i think he was hurt when she broke the engagement. He became more mad when abir supported her and also he listened to meenu’s words he thought she is selfish and not fit for abir.

Once he came to know that mishti will do anything for abir all his doubts are gone. I think he admires her now.

Originally posted by: ruhi19

KUBIR RELATION…

Kubir are also same in many aspects but not in all… theirbond started on ketu’s sangeet night and they don’t need time to gel up becausethey are going with flow persons and both don’t judge each other but listens tothem and believe what other say… kubir became more stronger after kuku’smarriage as for abir kuhu is not only friend, bhabhi but also his partner’ssister and the promise he made to mishti to care of kuhu… so for abir kuhu isfrom many sides and he will support her morethan kunal and he will take herside even if kunal is right also…

Now coming to kuhu… she can open up with abir but not kuanland confess her mind to abir and abir only not even with anyone… for kuhurelationship with abir is #keepitseperate she never tried for abir to get hislove and she made all possible ways to make mishti away from abir not becauseshe hates mishti but she loves kunal more and kunal hates mishti and even kuhutoo don’t want mishti to be in same house as she cant share same house with hermishti again… kuhu cant even stand mishti for abir as it proven on abir’sbirthday before leap and she made sure abir wont go away to mishti as she don’ther planed party to get spoiled…and kuhu once questioned abir about hisdecision of break up but answered her in her way only… what u said all theseyears is said by me so need to feel bad…

KUBIR after leap…

Their bond turned in different manner after leap and mostlyin nishmish shaadi time…kuhu don’t want mishbir but helped abir because kuhudon’t want nishanth to be in love less marriage not becasue abir wants mishtiand for kuhu abir’s break up truth also not important that much because shecared only about nishanth here morethan anyone as she experiencing love lessmarriage… so she helped abir for nishanth more and for mishbir less… she evenscolded abir for not coming on time and how mishti loose hope on him and abirdidn’t made any excuse but ketu said the truth and then she helped once forsangeeth and mehendi she don’t even know what abir’s plan is… yes everyone willsay kuhu is the who told about kunal’s spike kaand but she said for nishanth andher family morethan for mishti (its not that im blaming kuhu here but I willsay her POV more in other bonds)… kuhu wants abir to be his side and can badmouth mishti infront abir with all guts because abir never judged and when abircame to know about e-mail fiasco done by kuhu by using mishti’s id he didn’tscolded her instead made her understood what she did… same he did in pillsfiasco but if he knows her actual target then situation will be different wherewe can see in further episodes… this kubir bond will break it wont be same…(abir is thinking all kuhu’s kaands has love for kunal in e-mail, slappingmishti due to her fit of rage , pills due to galti… he knows only half truth inall these… but when he discovers all because of her hatered towards mishti thenthis relation will go trough the test) kubir can see their partners slapped bymishku but don’t even talk about it as I said #keepitseperate…. (I can rantmore on them but already there are many posts on them and I don’t want to digmore into this)

MISHKU…

Mishku relation I can say the things which maximum ofmembers don’t know here… kuhu flips when it comes to mishti and blames her foreverything because she in that thought process only that everything happens inher life is due to mishti… and kuhu always wants superior to mishti becausemishti is better than her and she knows it but she wont accept so blaming isher way and mishti she is wrong in many things but she is sensible and maturethan kuhu and she does things not to make kuhu less or wrong but she just don’twant to be abandoned by this family too… so mishti behaviour is based on that…both mishku have inscurities

a) M:Family abandoned issues so she has to selfindependent if MAH family leaves her…

b) K: TO be ignored by people due to mishti’spresence…

Kuhu don’t have any problem if she is ignored but only whenmishti is no there and if mishti is in picture then its back to square…

Mishti went through her issues in teens and there isconstant threat of her father so she is given more importance than kuhu by BPand BM and even BP and BM lost their daughter before some years of mishti’sarrival to MAH house so they felt mishti filled/completed that viod in theirlifes…

Kuhu went trough so much only when she got to know she isnot varsha’s daughter and made herself accept the truth that she is varsha’sdaughter only… ( I don’t know when kuhu got to know about this but she sufferedat that time)

Mishku equation is because both of them no one is soloresponsible for that… if one gives action then other will give reactions… Idon’t think kuhu has a problem with sharing everything with mishti as they havehealthy relation but something happened that made kuhu to think its all becauseof mishti… her insecurities, jealous and left alone by her own family… may bethis track shows the actual reason…

Mishti don’t hate kuhu but do things for her just because tomake kuhu believe that she is the not the person what kuhu thinks… kuhu hatesmishti and flips every time to safe side herself as she believes mishtisnatched everything…

Kuhu’s birth mother is dead and she don’t know it till nowand kuhu came to MAH house at age 4 or 5 but she don’t know shaurya is herfather and she calls naithik as her father but slowly she understood realityand kuhu is with MAH family with nishanth for 10 years or more before mishtiarrived…

Both mishku love each other but don’t express it… morethanmishku the other knows their wants without saying and they will be there foreach other at worst times… mishku as a team is khidki thod team morethanabinal… if mishku are together they win everything and in future there is achance of kuhu flip again… kuhu is not grey but turns darker shade of grey butwhen kuhu realises her mistakes then she will be more sweeter than mishti… bothmishku don’t trust each other if both says truth also as they both have equalshare in it…

MISHBIR relation…

Mishbir relation known to everyone but what we cant see is the change in dynamics after marriage…abir who cant stand a word against mishti listens to kuhu when she bad mouths her and wont even stop her and don’t also defend mishti because she don’t want to raise her anger or hate towards mishti(which is wrong but he will know it soon) and mishti didn’t even felt bad about abir listening to kuhu and her words but she felt bad that abir said uska jhagada karne ki addat hain and she cant handle joint family( which is really not abir meant but she is in home breaker dillusion soon abir make her out ofit) abir follows mishti’s stance for fight for the right not for family and mishti is taking stance for fight for family not for right thing… they are inrole reversal but they have to end it soon because they have to work as team not role reversals…

Regarding kubir my thought is little different i dont think they are similar in anyway.

Abir is self less he will do anything for his family. Kuhu is selfish.

I always find their bond one sided. She never gave any thought how will he be affected Either in outing his relationship to family or mandap or pills fiasco. She helped him in some instances when she got nothing to lose.

I want their bond to break and start again.

about Mishku i feel kuhu is a outright bully Since there for not enough backstory of why kuhu hates mishti.

I dont no how they are going to fix this relation she crossed the line too many times.

Originally posted by: ruhi19

KUKU relation…

Many say kunal is not a good husband or he wants kuhu onlyfor family but that’s not the case…kunal started getting into relation with kuhu after mishbir break up… but didn’t understood it but he seen kuhu growing and not giving a chance to him realize her worth but never said in words shown in actions following kuhu's diet, using hash tag language, helping her in event management and understanding her morethan her at time of mishbir sangeet theme discussion on terrace… (kunal who never wanted his wifeto work of course he is taking divorce from kuhu but he accepted kuhu’s eventmanagement decision and corrected her mistakes too in the event) he always sayswhat kuhu did her for family but never says what she did for him but shows inhis actions of following her personality… kunal even accepted his mistake bysaying what ever he did with kuhu is completely his fault he cant blame mishtifor it and needs to sign divorce papers but kuhu stopped him but he want togive her dream wedding so he proposed re marriage and gave into her commands ofgetting married in same mandap and even asked mishti on behalf of kuhu…(if kuhuasks situations will be different but here kunal asked mishti on kuhu’sbehalf)and got married but they never spoke but as I said kunal shows inactions morethan words by burning divorce papers and asking kuhu to teach himeverything because he don’t know anything… (kunal who don’t even give a damn tohis wife surrounded himself as student to her learn from her) kunal planned offsite trip for kuhu the man who cant even skip a day of work and did everythingfor his wife during shivratri pooja… and after that on kuhu’s birthday kunalgave her dance date as gift (I know he should give some expensive but he isgiving experiences to her not materialistic things as a husband who wants togive love and for kuhu materialistic things matters but not from kunal fromothers) and then holika dahan scene when kuhu wants to do kunal kept mum andobeyed (which is not also kunal who snatches mishbir rights) and never blamedkuhu for mishti’s incident even tough there is no hand of her but listened toher made her to let out the pain but stopped her when it is getting more andasked her to explain her code language (kunal who don’t want to hear kuhu’svoice as she speaks much to asking her to explain code language) and made herby smile by tickling her and kissing her… (kuhu is not angry on kunal formaking her demean about red pear issue (which I don’t even call demean but itsa nok jhok of hubby wifey any wont believe if I say so )nor gifting company tomishti which is dear to her) kunal neverquestioned her again on holi dahan issue as he believes kuhu can never do thatand coming to pills fiscao kunal questioned kuhu infront of all but I wont seeit has kunal not trusting his wife because its about abir but I see it has itsbetter he asks his wife than some other asks his wife because sometimes it isbetter our spouses asks us than family and if kuhu said truth also he willdefend her and if he comes to know it he will be hurt but understand her andsupport her… kuhu listens to abir but kuanl can make her redeem herself anddon’t judge her by this act and even he can understand if she says she has aplan for mishti but she didn’t want to do but galti se hua tha…kuanl is changedas husband gives benefit of doubt to kuhu and even he asks apology to mishti onkuhu’s behalf but they shown it differently… (here also both are in rolereversal mode but kuhu’s insecurities should be targeted and kunal knows whatshe is doing as he did most of them but he can only get her out of these…)kuhu’s cure is kunal’s love but to show his love and support the worst has tocome out of her (kuhu wont change to black but touches deeper shade of grey)(whoare is not able to accept mishnal bond and kuanl cant treat his wife more thanabir or mishbir but he is doing it by taking mishbir rights on holik dahan)kunal even took misht’s side to let her breath and talk but kuhu vent herinsecurity on mishti but kunal took kuhu’s side not in words but actions ifkunal who is bonding with mishti should question kuhu as mishti ran awaywithout answering but kunal didn’t do that shown his love in actions… kuku arenot getting scenes but if u get u can connect easily…

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I like their bond kuhu is selfless here. She will do anything for kunal. This is where kuhu is herself. She loved / liked kunal at first sight. Though kunal did fake marriage he liked kuhu and he felt bad for doing this.

kuhu was always there for kunal. Hope he does tooo

Originally posted by: ruhi19

PARUL-MEENU BONDING…

I don’t want to say much about this bond as already a topicis running in MF but I give small gist of my POV…

Meenu became a person whom she hates that mehul… mehul isthe one who plotted everything and trapped meenu in love but that decision ofher life drastically so she comes from there and slowly she turned into mehulcompletely… I don’t why meenu accepted parul because parul came in search ofmehul to Rajkot but she ended up meeting meenu and meenu adopted kunal reason neverknown as meenu wont do anything without plan… meenu used parul in all her kaand’sas abir says meenu habituated everyone in the house to blame parul for their mistakesand if meenu is that good she should have given parul the place in the house ofrelative but she made her servant and raised kunal to control him and made himagainst everyone… even his own mother parul but cant make him against abir andmay be can never do also... parul sacrificed everything to see his son growinginfront of her and getting everything which she cant give and even bears hishatered also and left hope of kunal accepting her as a mom and if meenu made the great RJV empireand it’s the parul who held the home directly or indirectly… it is tough for meto imagine RJV home under meenu control if not parul is with her… parul hasmore understanding of every person in the house than meenu… if meenu doesanything to parul again the home will break…

MAH RELATIONS…

Yes BP-BM are partially to mishti as they got second toraise their daughter again so didn’t let any stone unturned and went out of theway and yes they cant raise kuhu as mishti because kuhu has parents and theywill raise kuhu and BM-BP does grand parents duty but they failed but notcompletely when ever they have to choose between kuhu or mishti it is alwaysboth kuhu (in e-mail fiasco, kuku first marriage announcement, haldi kaand,kuku re marriage) the situations are always against mishti but they never tookher stand like abir did and even BP- BM can believe their parvarish but they keptfamily morethan mishti and coming to mishti (changing the rishta ,giving premarital courtship ,nishmish shaadi track everyone are at fault but blamed onlymishti because she gave hopes to everyone or mishti) … BM even gave her aspecial place which is only of her and kuhu BP too care for kuhu if someoneremembers the first scene in MAH house aftermishku performance at kutch only kuhu arrived home and BM is worried for mishtibut BP asked her concentrated on kuhu as kuhu is here..

Varsha and shaurya raised kuhu very well and did allpossible things for her never made her feel she is illegitimate and morethanshourya varsha fulfilled everything kuhu wanted and for varsha she acceptedmishti but always she stood up with kuhu…

Jas she is most annoying person in all ways but her instinctabout mishbir is true they cant be separated and for her the problem is mishleft nishanth and if nishanth did then she wont had any problem and yes MAH didn’tgave time for her healing but they never forced to attend functions but jasintiated it by coming to mishbir pooja in RJV house by saying MAH house is herhouse…

AS BP said he did ehsaan nannu and kuhu but never made themrealised that then when BP-Bm want to raise mishti as her own they should givein but all showed their differences in all possible ways…

Im not saying BP- Bm are perfect in handling the house butmistakes are done by everyone…

P.S: I don’t want this as a battle ground and FD wars…see ithas a complete story and yes everyone is in their character with theircharacter growths…

If I used anyone’s words or sentences in this without their permissionthen im sorry…

Pls share your opinions and views about this…

P.S: pls see down for other bonds....

I always felt they were wonderful in dealing with every relation.