The Blurred Reality - My take on the coffee and pills fiasco - Page 3

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Eeeeeeee 🤣🤣🤣 haan re tere colleagues bekaar mein hi galat samajh lete hai 🤣

Meen a few days ago I visited the nautanki thread 😆😆 Yaar Kya kya likha hai humne 😆🤣😆 khushi ke aansu aa Gaye...sachhi kya din the re

Haan chalo toh phir Sunday ko likhenge ... haan dekho samy ka idea hai yeh 😆 Mishbir ko romance karna hai 🤣 But kunal is irritating then because he wants to learn some tips so that he can patao kuhu 🤣 Meanwhile Maine twist socha hai...baba is back 😎 Baba 2.0 😆 Meenu ka focus bahu se baba pe gaya 🤣 story yeh hai ki actually fraud meenu ne hi Kia tha to take badla from baba because he cheated her 😆 Namesake ka twisted badla tha yeh

Ab tu thoda improvise kar le ...mini also writes nautankis now...saare milke likhenge...maza ayega 🤣

aye haiiilaaaaaa 😲

nautanki ki tayaari bhi hogayi😲
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mere do do Supaak gurujiii🤗😭🤗

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Mini 🤗🤗🤗

Woh AT mein trial version tha 😆😆 I wasn't sure how my views will be taken ...🤣I got some good response so thought should post it here 🙈🙈

Thanks yaar, last time when I came we did discuss a lot on this and diya's thought that abir knows something stayed in my mind which helped me to write this 😆 I know the execution needs to improve a lot ....

Arey no worries mini 🤣 oyeeeeee 😆😆 Aajkal actually samajh nahi aata kya bolu toh bas chup rehti hun, honestly wasn't really stalking but haan lu thread mein aayi thi subh then bhaag gayi 😆

Uru...🤗🤗

Arey your views are always welcomed well in our forum....tu uska tension mat le. Even if it is not I will always read ur views.....mujhe toh bada interesting lagta hain.😆

Haan .....last time u came u actually help me sort out my confusions...😆hmmmm.....diya toh hain hi amazing.......itne amazing amazing plots joh diya hain tume develop karne keliye.........😆

Woh bhi sahi hain....aajkal kya bolun kuch samajh nahi aata.....dekhke dimaag pak jaata hain......hmm.....Meine LU mein raat ko hi kadam rakha...himmat nahi ho rahi thi......but it was interesting and different from the usual. Not bad as I expected.😆😆😆

Originally posted by: aquaHP

Hey Uru!!

I have missed reading your episode analysis but I have to agree, track analysis seems much better. I like the track so much better from your POV.

I had assumed Abir's reactions to be based on BB's actions and as I had mentioned in @dreamy's symbolism thread that we were going to see Abir's dialogue of him being a shield against BB during the Parul jail scene come to fruition now. What I had not seen is the plot to be so detailed on Abir's end. You explained the track from his side and you did it brilliantly!!👏

I guess him trying to rush Nanko into accepting Parul is also going to come handy somehow. My only problem is the story being rushed but as you said, we'll have to take things with a pinch of salt.

I would love to know your POV on BB's plans as well or rather the scenes from today's episode.

Really liked reading this post and I guess I should start banking on episodes too. Peace✌🏼

Hi aqua 🤗🤗 Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

Haan actually we were also discussing this in mishbir AT that abir knows something, I just commected that thought and wrote the analysis...somehow I believe this thought and theory does make a lot of sense with abir's and others reactions as well ...actually I always try to decode abir first , and then it just fits with the others reactions...It makes more sense that ways at least to me ...yes next track is how parul will get a recognition in rv house as kunal's mom ...so may be that's why the focus in more on parul from now only...

Haan I definitely get your point and you are right...the story is rushed.. sometimes I feel like telling them all to breathe 😆 So much happens in a day lol ... and they move from one track to another so quickly ... it's difficult to catch up ..

BB sasuma ke baare mein kya kahun 😆 Sometimes I feel she is just a control freak , may be because she took the control of the family when it was required and now it has gone so much in her head that she is just on a self destruction mode ...so much so that she actually believes that whatever she does is ultimately for the betterment of the family she had sensed that both her bahus don't fit in her ideology of dikhayi de sunayi na de 😆 and that's why she dosent like them at all ... however I do love her plans 😆 she is quite over enthusiastic about it and I know eventually they are gonna flop so I dont care much ..actually I love BB abir dynamics here , both of them have same character intensity , one on the negative side and one on the positive side...both of them have deep knowledge about human emotions and relations, the difference is in the ideology...benba believes in controlling everyone and abir believes in empowering everyone in their own way ... benba manages to bring out the worst in others while abir tries to bring out the best ...this contrast for me is something that keeps the story going , I love to analyse their confrontation scenes and they are bang on

Talking about yesterday's and today's scene ...see abir already told he wants to brush off the coffee thing , kunal was also supporting abir here , mishti will not speak up now and kuhu will accept it openly, so eventually benba had no option but to close the topic in front of all and thats what she did .. she already has a pitara of other plans 😆 but if you see today also she was trying her best to intimidate kuhu and parul in her own way 😆 reminding kuhu of the pills and connecting that aag wala sentence with parul ... she has sensed ke kuchh toh Hua hai parul kuhu ke beech...

Now if parul will do the inauguration...meenu ke reaction dekhne jaise honge 🙈

Originally posted by: Optimist_d

Uruuuuu!!!! ❤️🤗

I just can't say how much I love to read your posts! I generally don't involve in any discussions but do stalk the forum daily 😆

So today, I had gone through the LU before watching the episode and I was so damn hurt that I ended up fighting with my brother to vent out my frustration. I've even decided that I'll not watch the episode today and will watch it later once I'm back to myself.

Thanks to your post, which made me see the episode and I must say that I agree with whatever you have mentioned. In fact, it helped me to see the episode in a different way.

But looking at Mishtu's face, I just couldn't control myself😭

I'm more connected to Mishti because I have been through emotional trauma when always my close relatives compare me with my cousin and taunt me for any reason.. Be it saying that I'm fat, or I've spects so I look ugly blah blah blah. Thanks to my family that I have never taken them seriously. But constantly putting you down will somehow effect the way we handle relationships. We always have that worry at the back of our heart/brain and try to prove otherwise. That's the reason I don't like it when Kuhu's deeds aren't called out. For me, emotional trauma is much more than the physical one. It can destroy one's life if a support is not provided on time.

At this moment, I feel Mishtu needs that support. Though I can see that Abir is not at fault, looking at her face and Abir not prioritising her does hurts. Because he is her support system.. I'm sure that the moment she vents out all her insecurities, fears etc in front of him, things are gonna change and no one other than Abir can help her get out of it. Im just waiting to see how Abir handles her insecurities. I trust Abir dear, he'll not let us down❤️

People say that he changed after marriage. But the thing is, it takes time for him to analyse things and then prioritise.. I tried to understand his POV but the way you have explained it, makes me go down the memory lane and see what all he did for his love.. Now I can feel him too 😔

After reading your post, my trust on Abir, rather MishBir has deepened.

About Kuku, I don't want to say anything because I feel that the writers are not keeping them consistent, especially Kuhu. Would love to see how their relationship grows rather than Kuhu always being jealous of Mishti. Like all of you have mentioned, hopefully, by the end of this track, some solution comes up to this problem so that we can see some growth in their relation.. Because there were lot of layers to these two and somehow, I'm unable to connect to them at this moment. Initially, I was very interested to see KuKu's progress. Let's see what's writers have in store for us.

PS: Sorry for the long post dear. But going through all the discussions, I felt like sharing my POV.. And especially when it's Uru on the other side, I can't stop myself❤️

Hi dear 🤗🤗🤗🤗 thank you once again for the kind words 💔❤️

Ohho seems like you really got affected with mishbir yesterday 😆 your bro must be like what's wrong 😆

Hey I totally get you 😳, faced something similar in my life too , but you know it's better to follow the route of kuchh toh log kahenge 😆 Even if you will be the best in everything they will still find some fault in you , what ultimately matters is you and people who love you the most 😳😳 Thafs all ... everyone has some insecurities within but I truly believe in " apne andar ki ladayi khud ki ladni padti hai "

haan yes constantly being name called really affects your psychology, that's what is happening with mishti here, that's why she has to over prove herself she is actually lucky to find someone like abir in her life who is always ready to show her the right way , abir is her friend philosopher and guide in truest sense...he is a banjara who has his own abandonment issues but honestly he is an anchor to many and in turn abir is lucky to find her because if there is anyone who really cares for abir beyond any demands and complaints then that is mishti ..in a beautiful way they just complete each other..

I think you have written something on kuhu in the main forum , I will read that share my views there soon 🤗🤗🤗

Originally posted by: meen123

muje pata tha tere dinaag me 2-3 jokes aa BHI jayenge

Bas starting me help chahiye? BAAd me nai...I know I know just joking.....

Tu ho or shwet na ho aise kaise ho Sakta hai😛😛 I love ur shwet

🙈🙈🙈🙈 meen ...starting ending sab mein help chahie yaar ...come soon...🤗🤗🤗

I know you do ...you were tbr first one to recognize a shwet inside me 🤣

Originally posted by: nami2811

@bold.. Okay I just burst out at this one🤣🤣 Do you or someone calls her sasuma 🤣

@green.. BM said that? It is definitely going to be a loooong road before these 2 can get along.

I kind of like the fact that the track is centered around Kuhu but again this is coming at the expense of her character. Kaveri is experimenting with 100 shades of grey 😆

Yes we do 🤣 You can join our sasuma club too 😆

I know but as I say drama toh lamba chalega 😆 100 se zyada shades bhi mil sakte hai ...don't underestimate the writers

Originally posted by: SheThought

Wonderful wonderful post Uru ❤️🤗🤗

Bahot maza aaya padhke!

How much patience you have dear... to analyze and pen down so much!

My post also became a little longer than I expected, so please bear with me 😆

I too think that Abir suspected Meenu being involved with the pill saga. But when he had confrontation with her he told her that he suspects her to have planned the coffee thing to blame it on Mishti. So more than Parul, I believe he thought that his ma wanted to frame Mishti. Since he was sure Meenu had something to do with it, he was not really curious to find out who did it and downplayed it every time Meenu brought it up.

Finally on Holi day when all were questioning Kuhu, he asks Jugnu to throw the bottle out as Mahs were present and he wanted to them at ease as their daughter was being accused.

I do not believe he suspected Kuhu at all till he learnt the truth.

I wasn't very clear on why Mishti was suddenly asking Abir to reveal it to the family after hiding it herself for so long. But I got a much better idea of her thought process after reading your post! :)

I have almost exact thoughts as you do regarding why Abir thinks the time to reveal it to the family is gone. I understand Abir's intentions for not revealing it to the family at this point because with not so solid foundation yet for KuKu, fragile equation of Kunal-Parul and extreme action/reactions of his ma it has the potential for the family to fall apart. But I do not think he has linked the revelation affecting Mishti.

And you have explained beautifully what he was meant with his jhagda statment though Abir is yet to clarify it and I am not even sure if the writers will even let him, but I hope they do that and not just jump to romance!

I don't want to comment much on Abir's confrontation of Kuhu because I feel too tired from that subject

But yesterday, I made the mistake of fast forwading to just that scene in my eagerness to know how Abir handled it and then watched Mishti's scene in the kitchen taking her frustration out on the dishes - BAD idea... because it completely runied my mood and got me into my angry bird mode as I gotten fixiated on just one thing.

I actually saw Abir-Parul scene while reading your review, yeah, I took a pause reading your review and watched Abir-Parul and the rest of the episode 🤪😆

Now I feel if I had watched the episode in one go, I would have been little less upset about Kuhu's confrontation.

Anyways, I understand your explanation about why Abir didn't stop Kuhu from badmouthing Mishti. But the way I see it is this is only going to increase Kuhu's sense of entitlment and strengthen her belief that she can get away with anything with her bro, including badmouthing his wife who he claims to love a lot! I know this is just the beginning and Abir is going to continue with his moral lessons but if he keeps handling her with kid gloves, she is always going to get away easily as she doesn't have to face the consequences.

He asked her to talk to Parulmasi, but I am not sure what exactly did she apologize for?

She also talked about Mishti ka namach-mirch to bro, but what about her actual masala - the fact that she was hoping to drug Mishti because she wanted to do the pooja instead?

Moving on...

In the coming episodes, I see a lot of heartbreaks coming for Mishti. Meenu is not going to stop at this pill saga and will keep using Kuhu's jealousy and insecurities to her advantage. I already have a feeling that some big dhamaka is going to happen at this 1 year anniversary and Kuhu will again make some galti se mistake. And the cycle is going to continue - but now with Abir-Kuhu bond in the mix which has a direct conflict of interest with MishBir. Abir is going to keep prioritizing Kuhu and KuKu's happiness and family unity above his own and Mishti will have to keep adjusting.

Yikes, dreading this already! Abir and Kuhu's bro bond is my biggest pet peeve in the show as it lacks balance. One is too giving and another one doesn't mind runing his happiness if it's to her benefit.

But I do see that after a few cycles of galti se mistakes from Kuhu, all this will ultimately culminate into a battle between Abir and Meenu. That will be worth watching... but the path to that is not going to be easy.

And Kuhu need not worry as she will get away easily once Abir zeros down on Meenu as his real opponent.

Thanks pali

Hmm to be precise , one hour 20 mins lage the assignment likhne mein

Yes you are absolutely right pali, abir was sure that meenu is behind all this and till the end he didn't doubt on kuhu , until he heard it himself, it's just when we woke up he realised that parul is being blamed and that's why he confronted meenu with parul first , but of course he was quick enough to decode that target is mishti here ...

See going by your first para that maa wanted to frame mishti so obviously he did link the revelation to be affecting mishti , honestly I felt in the AM convo , abir wanted to tell more and explain more but before that only convo went to another level ...I guess tomorrow we will get their conversation, things will clear out more ... pali inka aisa hi hai Yeh pehle pyaar se patayenge ek dusre ko phir baat karenge , remember haldi kaand and then airport thing , pehle mandir Gaye, propose kiya , flowers udaye after that they had a proper conversation and abir asked her to come home .... aaaj bhi kuchh aisa hi Hua Pehle pyaar se patayenge ...aur phir mudde pe ayenge

You are absolutely right again , kuhu will see this as a sense of entitlement more like "arey Bach gayi main " ...the ball is in her court and honestly I do feel that abir will keep an eye on her now

she apologied to parul maasi because she could defend parul maasi in front of mahs and it more because abir said to kuhu that jo tum keh rahi ho agar vo sach hai toh maasi se maafi maango, that's why she did it , pali I do have a feeling , looking at the sensible attitude that parul is showing these days and with her take on mishti and kuhu, I do feel that parul is also guessing that kuhu has mixed those pills but the thing here is both abir and parul see it as bachpanna , both of them see it as galti se pills gire and she was scared to accept it , only mishti and the audience know that kuhu actually has old a thought of putting the pills for mishti, this is a point that abir was supposed to know actually... as I said abir is yet to discover a lot yahaan mishti ke liye collateral damage ho sakta hai

Par anniversary pe toh kuchh aur hi dhamaka hai pata nahi aage kya hoga

I know I know I read your post on the bro bond You were bang on , there is no balance in the relationship...

Haan jaise bhi ho , ultimately it's going to be abir vs meenu only And I am definitely going to enjoy that more hi ha ha ha

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

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nautanki ki tayaari bhi hogayi😲
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Sat ko milte hai 😎😎 Ready rehna 😆

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Uru...🤗🤗

Arey your views are always welcomed well in our forum....tu uska tension mat le. Even if it is not I will always read ur views.....mujhe toh bada interesting lagta hain.😆

Haan .....last time u came u actually help me sort out my confusions...😆hmmmm.....diya toh hain hi amazing.......itne amazing amazing plots joh diya hain tume develop karne keliye.........😆

Woh bhi sahi hain....aajkal kya bolun kuch samajh nahi aata.....dekhke dimaag pak jaata hain......hmm.....Meine LU mein raat ko hi kadam rakha...himmat nahi ho rahi thi......but it was interesting and different from the usual. Not bad as I expected.😆😆😆

Mini 🤗🤗🤗 chalo theek hai tum kehti toh thoda maan leti hun 😆

Haan sacchhi 😆

Mini apna sahi hai lekin 😆 Abinal ship and meenu fanclub 😎 life set hai 😆....chalo theek hai phir aaj lu thread visit kar lungi 😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

🙈🙈🙈🙈 meen ...starting ending sab mein help chahie yaar ...come soon...🤗🤗🤗

I know you do ...you were tbr first one to recognize a shwet inside me 🤣

Achi neend aayi bahut....

Kal kis time and kon se thread me shubh arambh Karna hai????

Tere andar to sab Kuch hai ,👻👻👻. Sab ki aatmayei I mean