The Blurred Reality - My take on the coffee and pills fiasco - Page 4

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

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Originally posted by: Onyourface

Ufffff those memories 😆😆 Maine bhi aaj ek padii... familymoon 😆

Chat thread use karein kya? Mai shaam ko free rahungi but you guys can start ...main thoda thoda stalk karti rahungi 😆

Mujh pe universe ki chakras ki kripa hai Talent hai ...sab ke pass nahi hota 😃🤣

AJ family moon padhungi🤣

Chat thread use kar Lete hai👍🏼

You and cool are super talented

Hello Uru,

I have slightly amended my reply to your post in the AT, after watching today's episode. It was very meaningful..

Sorry, it is quite long...please bear with me...T

I would say the whole game of shuffling cups was staged because he smelled something fishy. and he made sure the cup which went to Mishti was given to his Maa at the end. But when she smartly exchanged it with kuhu, he took the cup from her. (as diyu predicted)

Kuhu should have come up with some random reason to stop everyone from consuming that drink but she failed to do so. However, she made sure that she doesn't consume her drink.

Mishti is a confused soul and whenever she is confused she takes abir's words or shayari's as insipration and follows it adrently. example: keep trying even if you got 1%of chance to achieve something.

1. She stopped herself from revealing the truth because of abir kunal convo in their room made clear to her that Abir wont blame someone blindly without any hard evidence except for herself.

2. Abir supporting kuhu infront of the family during holi dhahan that "KUHU will not hurt anyone" made Mish to deduce that she shouldn't disclose this khaand of kuhu because abir has immense trust in kuhu. It could be either she doesn't want to give abir a heartbreak or she might have thought Abir won't standby her. (I personally prefer the former reason).

Meenu didn't let this pill incident slip off because she knew Mishti will blast kuhu infront of both families, so that she could prove that Mishti is not the right person to be a RV bahu. But Mishti doesn't want to carry her infamous tagline in RVs, so she has been giving moral lessons to kuhu in private so that she confess on her own. Meenu being DS she will never leave any stone unturned to prove that she is right. Yes, till that scene downstairs,even i gave him the benefit of doubt..even mishti felt abir is right after she spoke to kunal so went to meet abir and abir also after talking to parul maasi came inside to talk to Mishti but alas no one could come inbetween him and his bro. So he decided to go behind his bro.

He definitely had a gist of the so called sisters relationship but he didn't indulge into it...and because he is a person who want solid evidence he brushed it off easily. But after witnessing the bond they share...I was expecting him to talk it out to Mishti about it in their room. But alas, he spilled out something inappropriate.

A person who is well aware why we have two ears but just one mouth...failed miserably as a husband when he didn't give allow his wife to continue after he realized that his wife will not stop arguing about his bro khaand.

A BF who was impressed about her GF being a fighter, showed his disinterest of his wife being a fighter. Trust me this is not the first time, meenu just asked him to break the rishtey with mishti but the reason he gave of her coming from a broken family is his own words. So when he said that' jagadaa karna tumari aadath hain' is clearly supporting his previous statement of ' from a broken family' . So Mish misinterpreting it as such is not in correct.

He know why she walked out because she ended the discussion with 'Fine, we will walk in your path'. But my worry is he didn't stop her or go behind her instead he decided to downstairs through the other entrance.

But the last nail in the coffin was when MISH saw her hubby giving a hug and assured his bro that his wife will not let her secrets out.

This might have made mishti deduce that Abir too thinks that she is incapable of keeping the family together.( ie. her misinterpretation (to us) is made to be right interpretation for her). This will justify her dialogue to him tomorrow about learning the lessons on how to bind the family together...(as per segments). So far, it was just Meenu and Jas scenes were playing in Mishti's head but I felt really sad when she played abir words in it...(so Abir has been added to her tag list)...Unless he words it out, those scenes will be playing on her head whenever similar situations arise.

I don't think Mishti will share her thoughts to Abir anymore instead she will walk beside him in his path but when he comes to know that he is wrong in his decision.

she will give a hand to rise him up and stand high.

Actually, I dont believe in 'kaan padakke apologizing' or 'going on your knees to apologize' or 'gift something to apologize' or 'get touchy to apologize'( this is for couples only). To me they should talk it out 'why, how,when,what, who, because ' all these positive encourages should be addressed in the apologizing session. Even for proposing, I believe these PE should be addressed rather than going on your knees. This defines equality.

But today, I loved the role reversal of apologizing and making food to manaavo your spouse is the best way ever. Who said they didn't communicate.They did through the messages (I agree with Ruhi analysis here). And Mishti made him feel guilty by remaining him the promise he made during their wedding. She was about to tear up when she was reciting it... All she wanted was to be heard by her hubby...Abir eyes was only for Mishti in yesterday and today episode...Just observe his reaction when Mishti reciting the shayari. He smiled only when he saw his Mishti Doi smiled. His heart would have broken into million pieces when he saw her washing the dishes. (They have servants right)

I loved Abir parul conversation in the courtyard yesterday, this woman is mother goals. She made Abir understand who should he standby (ie Mishti). And I liked when the elders identified the friction between the newly weds and took the resposibility to guide them in their marital life. Naanu didn't say manano Mishti he said talk to nicely. And BM made Mishti understand that Abir let go of this easily even it was alife and death situation for him. and i think that is when Mishti decided to let go of this issue because she know what kuhu is capable of. So when Mishti gets hurt Abir will go bonkers...(This what is what we wanted)...

I think Mishti has made a decision to go in Abir's way for now so that at the right time she could bring him back on track. in other words, She will walk beside him hand in hand but when he comes to know that he is wrong. She will give a hand to rise him up and stand high.

This is another way of dealing with fights /arguments between couples. (especially the newly weds)

The other one is showing cold shoulder (People like me, Pali and geeth prefer...Isn't it ladies... and if you wish you could join your name to this list). The second one could be implemented mostly after few years of marriage.

I loved when she throw the plate right after she sensed abir is behind her #sadisticpleasure. and i am sure all married woman here would have obliged with Mishti's royal ignornace to her pati. It means that he dare not to come close to her.

Yesterday, Abir taught moral lesson chapter 1 to his bro and in return as guru dakshana bro taught him how to lie. But if you have noticed he didn't give a hoots about kuhuness when kunal talked about it...he was just looking at Mishti. Poor Abir. I felt bad for him..

Kunal will standby Mishti infront of the family where abir will standby his bro until he gets to taste his own medicine.

(trust me his bro is very much highly capable of it). Will also try to meddle bhaiya and bhabhi when needed like he did in yesterday's episode by placing mishti's hand on top of Abir's.

Drama tho jaroor hoga because Meenu changed her strategy now, she will Gel with Kuhu like we saw in today's episode to prove her point again...And she said to kuhu that she punishes people for their mistakes...As per Meenu, kuhu has done two mistakes so far first one is she didn't made sure that spiked coffee was consumed by Mishti and then calling her dragon saas.

I am happy that Mishti gave the ownership back to kunal. I want her gel with and follow Parul's footsteps on maintaining a household/family because that is where Mishti lags.

What an insightful post.. Loved reading main post & replies in this topic..

I have been a silent reader for awhile and some times it gets irritating after watching the episode, but after reading such beautiful insightful posts and replies, I tend to calm down my boiling blood. LOL

BTW..I really feel sad for Naanu, who was so confident on his upbringing of Meenu, that he was willing to give another chance to his daughter 😢 😢 ( per his convo with Abir after Mishti & Nannu's wedding called off

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Thanks pali

Hmm to be precise , one hour 20 mins lage the assignment likhne mein

Yes you are absolutely right pali, abir was sure that meenu is behind all this and till the end he didn't doubt on kuhu , until he heard it himself, it's just when we woke up he realised that parul is being blamed and that's why he confronted meenu with parul first , but of course he was quick enough to decode that target is mishti here ...

See going by your first para that maa wanted to frame mishti so obviously he did link the revelation to be affecting mishti , honestly I felt in the AM convo , abir wanted to tell more and explain more but before that only convo went to another level ...I guess tomorrow we will get their conversation, things will clear out more ... pali inka aisa hi hai Yeh pehle pyaar se patayenge ek dusre ko phir baat karenge , remember haldi kaand and then airport thing , pehle mandir Gaye, propose kiya , flowers udaye after that they had a proper conversation and abir asked her to come home .... aaaj bhi kuchh aisa hi Hua Pehle pyaar se patayenge ...aur phir mudde pe ayenge

You are absolutely right again , kuhu will see this as a sense of entitlement more like "arey Bach gayi main " ...the ball is in her court and honestly I do feel that abir will keep an eye on her now

she apologied to parul maasi because she could defend parul maasi in front of mahs and it more because abir said to kuhu that jo tum keh rahi ho agar vo sach hai toh maasi se maafi maango, that's why she did it , pali I do have a feeling , looking at the sensible attitude that parul is showing these days and with her take on mishti and kuhu, I do feel that parul is also guessing that kuhu has mixed those pills but the thing here is both abir and parul see it as bachpanna , both of them see it as galti se pills gire and she was scared to accept it , only mishti and the audience know that kuhu actually has old a thought of putting the pills for mishti, this is a point that abir was supposed to know actually... as I said abir is yet to discover a lot yahaan mishti ke liye collateral damage ho sakta hai

Par anniversary pe toh kuchh aur hi dhamaka hai pata nahi aage kya hoga

I know I know I read your post on the bro bond You were bang on , there is no balance in the relationship...

Haan jaise bhi ho , ultimately it's going to be abir vs meenu only And I am definitely going to enjoy that more hi ha ha ha

Yeah, that whole bit with apology to Parul was very ambiguous to say the least.

I understand that Kuhu apologized to Parul for not defending her when Kunal accused her but is that all Abir wanted her to apologize for and not for being blamed for something that she did?!

Also, what did Parul actually understand from that apology. Did she take it at just face value or did she understand that Kuhu had something to do with it?

Writers took lot of liberties with that scene, so mujhe maza nahin aaya 🤔

Also, how did Parul conclude that Mishti and Kuhu don't get along since childhood? From Mishti's haldi kaand at KuKu 1st wedding? Or BB ke Ex-Bestie honeka knowledge?

And how did she figure out that Kuhu gets love easily and Mishti doesn't think she deserves the love and has to try harder? She is very observant if she figured this out on her own.... itni ghanti toh Abir ke dimaang main bhi nahin baji thi abhi tak!

Yeah, LaalNashpati Anniversary pe bada hoga dhamaka

Maheshwaris ka hoga, Kunal-Parul ke sach se saamna

Hee Ha Ha Ha

Let's see kya kaand karte hai ab.

Arre bro bond post - jaane de. Kitne aur post hai mane bana daale! Meri sui atak gayi thi wahan...

But yesterday's episode has me detached from everything all of a sudden! I could not enjoy AM romance even one bit!

I don't know how to describe it... uff!