The Hypocrisy of Moral Code (ML vs FL) DT Note Pg 5 (Edtd 12.06) - Page 10

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Originally posted by: TeAmo_Messi

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Prerna loving Anurag and being his secretary is spineless but Bajaj loving prerna and making her a full time forced mother of his child is some Oscar Worthy love.

Anurag peeping in their bedroom is creepy but Bajaj hiding the pregnancy truth from Anu and still threatening Anu to not love prerna is classy.

Mohini bashing Prerna for Anu in hospital is regressive but Bajaj scolding prerna over kuki's minor hurt is father's concern.

Anurag throwing prerna to give her a new life is cowardice but Bajaj stopping her from facing Anurag and asking her to parent kuki is a bravo worthy act ? Like who the hell tells a traumatized woman about parenting their own kid? What was that ?

Prerna winning awards and crediting Bajaj in front of the media makes her strong woman, but same prerna coming back to face her betrayer husband and get answers is spineless.

Anurag accepting that he made a mistake by having ONS with komo is spineless but Bajaj never accepting that he played with a pregnant and helpless woman's emotions to satisfy his ego is praiseworthy.

Anurag spending 8 years with komo to keep his family safe and happy is again spineless but Bajaj ruining someone else's marriage to satisfy his child with a purchased mother is human act.

Anurag setting up divers to save prerna is lame but Bajaj waiting for prerna to fall instead of saving her beforehand is heroic.. I am super impressed actually

Lmao!

I get that people have different views, and that’s fine but not differentiating between consent and voyeurism (A peeping vs RB hiding her pregnancy) and Mohini telling off P for A (who is a grown ass adult) vs Bajaj yelling at P for being careless with a 5yesr old MUTE child, this is hilarious.

Anurag remained married to Komo because HE CHOSE that life. He CHOSE for Pre and Homself when he gave into her demands and pushed Pre from the bridge. HE CHOSE to keep sneha from Pre and HIMSELF when he gave into Komo. Even if sneha is alive and thriving, it doesn’t take away the fact that Prerna as an adult was robbed of choice, consent and ability to live her life on her terms. He had the choice to rebut Komo because in this case P acted of self défense. With Bajaj, he arm twisted her, he pushed her to make a choice, but NEVER robbed her of it, and he freed Anu which was Prernas demand, wish, whatever.


There is a HUGE difference there. When Anu lovingly sacrificed his life to live with Komo, what was its purpose? He wasn’t even shown to check on the divers.

If we go back further, he f**ked her in the jungle, then ditched her to get engaged with Komo ( majboori I know, but again changed the course of her life, without so much communicating to her.) Can we see a theme of Anu deciding for Pre robbing her of her choice, consent, etc? There is also a clear lack of communication, Which is problematic to say the least.

i think the pattern of ML deciding for FL and the show not raising that point via the FL, is ALSO problematic. What if P did the same things that A did? Why doesn’t she question his authority?

I can’t be assed to rebut rest of this inane post, but if you need to justify actions comparing Anu vs. A minor child, i feel like there is a gross misunderstanding of life in general.

There is no doubt that this show is about flawed characters and we should discuss them, I am not claiming Bajaj hasn’t wronged Anu or Pre but let’s talk apples to apples. Not Kuki as a 5 year old vs Anu. If people are bringing in points to debate, don’t selectively choose what fits AnuPre narrative, because the issues lie in the finer details.

I think we can all agree, there is a HUGE difference in how ML and FL are viewed and treated. Ekta spoke about this in her interviews too. Per The ITV audience the FL isn’t considered good even if she is shown to desire other men, or are considered impure if they think of moving on with other men. Whereas the men have full leeway to do whatevr they want. The FL must forgive the ML for his actions. I read here that FL is applauded for not jumptkng into bed with Bajaj. First, why not? It’s not like Anu didn’t. And sex is natural and the desire to have it isn’t limited to men. If you are in a STABLE relationship with a man who has shown to be a good partner, a caring friend, you raised a child together, WHY NOT? the inherent ‘I’m glad she didn’t move on from revenge, aka Anu’ is so bizarre.

Prerna can two things: make rôtis and flirt with Anu(when she was married) , which is wrong, and move on with Bajaj, have a normal healthy relationship, which is right.

also, I want to add that Bajaj doesn’t escape the superior ML sphere, cuz he wasn’t morally right when he did proposition P. Also, hiring PI didn’t sit well with me.

But I look at patterns, and don’t get fixated on individual Incidents. Anu has shown patterns that fit the classic superior ML, where Bajaj started that way, but thus far has shown to rectify his actions, starting with uniting AnuPre and confessing to hiring PI cuz it saved her life.

i think wierdly the only thing KzK gets right all of the characters are Flawed.

Originally posted by: TakingAStand2

Lmao!

I get that people have different views, and that’s fine but not differentiating between consent and voyeurism (A peeping vs RB hiding her pregnancy) and Mohini telling off P for A (who is a grown ass adult) vs Bajaj yelling at P for being careless with a 5yesr old MUTE child, this is hilarious.

Anurag remained married to Komo because HE CHOSE that life. He CHOSE for Pre and Homself when he gave into her demands and pushed Pre from the bridge. HE CHOSE to keep sneha from Pre and HIMSELF when he gave into Komo. Even if sneha is alive and thriving, it doesn’t take away the fact that Prerna as an adult was robbed of choice, consent and ability to live her life on her terms. He had the choice to rebut Komo because in this case P acted of self défense. With Bajaj, he arm twisted her, he pushed her to make a choice, but NEVER robbed her of it, and he freed Anu which was Prernas demand, wish, whatever.


There is a HUGE difference there. When Anu lovingly sacrificed his life to live with Komo, what was its purpose? He wasn’t even shown to check on the divers.

If we go back further, he f**ked her in the jungle, then ditched her to get engaged with Komo ( majboori I know, but again changed the course of her life, without so much communicating to her.) Can we see a theme of Anu deciding for Pre robbing her of her choice, consent, etc? There is also a clear lack of communication, Which is problematic to say the least.

i think the pattern of ML deciding for FL and the show not raising that point via the FL, is ALSO problematic. What if P did the same things that A did? Why doesn’t she question his authority?

I can’t be assed to rebut rest of this inane post, but if you need to justify actions comparing Anu vs. A minor child, i feel like there is a gross misunderstanding of life in general.

There is no doubt that this show is about flawed characters and we should discuss them, I am not claiming Bajaj hasn’t wronged Anu or Pre but let’s talk apples to apples. Not Kuki as a 5 year old vs Anu. If people are bringing in points to debate, don’t selectively choose what fits AnuPre narrative, because the issues lie in the finer details.

I think we can all agree, there is a HUGE difference in how ML and FL are viewed and treated. Ekta spoke about this in her interviews too. Per The ITV audience the FL isn’t considered good even if she is shown to desire other men, or are considered impure if they think of moving on with other men. Whereas the men have full leeway to do whatevr they want. The FL must forgive the ML for his actions. I read here that FL is applauded for not jumptkng into bed with Bajaj. First, why not? It’s not like Anu didn’t. And sex is natural and the desire to have it isn’t limited to men. If you are in a STABLE relationship with a man who has shown to be a good partner, a caring friend, you raised a child together, WHY NOT? the inherent ‘I’m glad she didn’t move on from revenge, aka Anu’ is so bizarre.

Prerna can two things: make rôtis and flirt with Anu, which is wrong, and move on with Bajaj, have a normal healthy relationship, which is right.

i think wierdly the only thing KzK gets right all of the characters are Flawed.

That essentially translates to 'I am glad she still in trauma and PTSD and cant heal herself' whereas someone who actually thinks of Prerna as an individual would want her to heal even a little bit. Not move on cause closure is important but just heal... and not be so cold hearted to reject affection in its basic form and be closed up from the world. Yes its her child that has died and thats the greatest hit to a mother but for a decade nobody should want her to suffer. These are nuances which escape people cause as an FL she has no standing at all.

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

Just don't indulge. Not worth it.

The whataboutism won't take away from the topic and won't magically remove the sexist takes shown with respect to ML and FL. Never.

Well no one wants topic to be closed. No one is making irrelevant comments here like cry baby etc etc. Just like TM everyone is putting forth their own views if it doesnt go with TM's thoughts doesn't mean people are after post.

Coming back to topic the people who are labeled as people justifing anurag just because he is ML and he can do whatever he want have learned from the best of this forum ( same situation different people). He is culprit of pre and pre will serve him with whatever punishment she likes ( again she will be trashed if decided to forgive him because she just can not). People calling other hypocrist is laughworthy here those are the same people who label womans as useless , cheaterless disloyal without actually understand her situation. She is cheater she does EMA and makes roti for her BF ewww how can she, she should die she doesn't deserve her mahan husband who plots against people for selfish reasons are the same one now coming with bechara act like their ML dudh ka dhula hua. Did anyone accept pre or her choice in last bajaj track because she wanted to still be with her lover and not give bhav to her husband ( oh ya she is married and in this society once you are married anything you do after needs is for only your so called husband) .

Just like you pointed about that all one ML acts are brushed under carpet and people bash FL if they dare to move on. the same point of view can be twisted with all the expectations people keep from woman because she is woman and she isnt supposed to do what she likes. Its different perspective where we judge FL for whatever choice she makes. She is judged because one fandom expects her to play by the society rules and one expects her to break those stupid rules that this mere society created.

If ML sleeps with 50 woman how can you still root for him he is bad but people still root and cheer for that wife whos husband slaps cheate and play mind games with her but is still stands with him against her happiness. When FL tries to act hero she is looked down upon. If FL sleeps with many man and still people sympathize with her she is called character less and doesn't deserve mahan husband.

If only this post came at the time when FL was judged after every action she took after her marraige and hurt ego of people by not moving on so easily we would have sided with so called bechara victim ML. We only see this kind of post when FL is look down upon or when she doesn't satisfy their MLs fandom and thats what is hypocrisy.

As much you feel bachara for your ML other feel the same why judge them then when you are doing the same thing they are doing. Her saving ML is also looked down upon by the same womans who cant appreciate one woman saving a man and we talk about sexist nature of CVS. The day people will accept that woman can do what man can do we will have another conversation.

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Originally posted by: MR21

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Originally posted by: Kira_James

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Another thing I have a problem with is why does a FL need a man to survive or why does the need of maintaining a relationship depend on a women

In asliduniya prob single women manage to be happy without necessarily a relationship than men .

Why did pre even have to marry bajaj the second time around they could have lived in . I always believe marriage should always be for the right reasons.

Another prob with most ITV couples is the lack of communication and martyr attitude. People take decisions for each other without thinking clearly about consequences.

Love comes later but mostly No relationship works without respect, communication and trust

Originally posted by: manzilmukul

Bravo ATC!

And, this thread 🥳

Thank you!

Just stated the absolute obvious though. CVS dont even do it subtly😆 Anyway, The tea is hot😛!

Originally posted by: Anastasia69

Well you will get answers in your topic itself 😆

You see-Even if ML attempts to murder FL to save her(oh the logic), he’s still the true love/soulmate and she should stick to him only. Coz uski majboori ko kyu Koyi nh samajta😭

Of course the one who respects her, gave new purpose to live, will always be a villain. Because he did what ML couldn’t do.

And what’s redemption? Character arc? We don’t know coz KZK 2 soulmates never got one 😛

Sachmein koi uski majboori nahi samajhta 😆 Its beyond human comprehension!

ML throws the FL off the bridge, the one who saves her is the villain. Thats the truth of KZK2. 😛