Er.. Why's This Ridz Fault Exactly?

I've been reading several posts.. and how Riddhima should confess and how she should apologize and how only then they can get back together and all that.. Also, Armaan is totally behaving like the whole thing is Riddhima's fault and he's being St Armaan by even talking to her..

I want to stand up for Riddhima actually.. I mean fine, she said that she's still not sure about them.. in that scene in the guest house.. But, isn't that but obvious?! How can she be sure anyway! This is the guy who started wooing her because he made a bet with her sister! She put all that in the past and went ahead and confessed to him that she does love him.. and then bang! She finds out that he's gone to Muskaan's house without telling her.. as the ghar ka daamaad no less! And even when she confronts him about this, all he has to say is how bad Rahul is and how he's kaan bharofying!

She was upset that he lied to her and went as someone else's boyfriend.. She has all the right to be upset! And because she is upset, he went ahead and broke up with her?! The whole I'm-tired-of-making-myself-worthy and all that jazz..Is this how he was hoping to be worthy? He made it sound like it was all her fault.. that whole convo on the stairs during their break up.. I thought he missed the point completely! He was going off on a different tangent!

Instead of apologizing to her and accepting that he was indeed wrong, he went and broke up with her.. Even now, she's trying to be nice, and he's giving attitude..

P.S. I love Armaan too :-p but unfair is unfair any day!
P.P.S. Anyone, who read my ranting, thank you so much! : ) I just had to say it all out!

are yaar,
one hand she says that "she loves armaan"
and other hand she sayes that "she is not sure about her relationship"

WHAT IS THIS ❓

cum'on yaar she needs sum time naa!!...and armaan was not at fault.....! it was all riddhimas fault.... 😕 😕

Originally posted by: justjanet

I've been reading several posts.. and how Riddhima should confess and how she should apologize and how only then they can get back together and all that.. Also, Armaan is totally behaving like the whole thing is Riddhima's fault and he's being St Armaan by even talking to her..I want to stand up for Riddhima actually.. I mean fine, she said that she's still not sure about them.. in that scene in the guest house.. But, isn't that but obvious?! How <span>can </span>she be sure anyway! This is the guy who started wooing her because he made a bet with her sister! She put all that in the past and went ahead and confessed to him that she does love him.. and then bang! She finds out that he's gone to Muskaan's house without telling her.. as the ghar ka daamaad no less! And <span>even </span>when she confronts him about this, all he has to say is how bad Rahul is and how he's kaan bharofying!She was upset that he lied to her and went as someone else's boyfriend.. She has all the right to be upset! And because she is upset, he went ahead and broke up with her?! The whole I'm-tired-of-making-myself-worthy and all that jazz..Is this how he was hoping to be worthy? He made it sound like it was all her fault.. that whole convo on the stairs during their break up.. I thought he missed the point completely! He was going off on a different tangent!Instead of apologizing to her and accepting that he was indeed wrong, he went and broke up with her.. Even now, she's trying to be nice, and he's giving attitude..P.S. I love Armaan too :-p but unfair is unfair any<span> </span>day! P.P.S. Anyone, who read my ranting, thank you so much! : ) I just had to say it all out!

agree with u..hez not thnkng abot her feelngs...n if i was on her place...i will lose trust on my bf if he went with someone as her bf. i will ner tolerte..n how can b sure that he just pretndng...

as a viewrs we knw the truth but i thnk ridz not..
no offns to any one my thouts


n wat she said about not sure about relation is bcoz the stituation they r facing and the ways thng come (muski prob aswell..which is not sortd yet) betwn them n all arman's bhvr n all tht so she got confus wat is all that n wat 2do..

i finkz therz no armanz fault at all....itz all ridhimas fault...cuz arman has done so much 4 ridz n'd he has even changed totally 4 ridz...and at last how can see say she's not sure bout her relationship...i fink itz all ridhimas fault 😕 😕

when you love someone you have to do it with all your trust ,soul and and belief.
and Riddhima lacks a bits and pieces of these in her realationship.

common he wanted to tell her about the muskaan thing before going to Patiala,but could not as adviced by his friends that girls overreact.he also told her that he had made a promise with his friend not to tell anyone ,so he is not at fault infact so true to his words to keep his promise.
and in the staircase scene even ridz didnt make a big issue of muskaan thing she herself didnt know what she was talking about ( tumhe sahi aur galat ki pehchaan nahi hai).
now what is wrong with helping a friend had it been rahul would she have made such a big issue out of it?????

from the very beginning she is not willing to reveal their relationship to anyone
WHY?
is she ashames of him? infact she is so cofused she doesnt know her mind,
she doesnt mind taking all Armaans love but when her time comes she just shy away by saying she is not sure
why doesnt she hesitate when she takes kisses from him,hugs from him gifts from him
she is just fooling around with him ,how much time does a girl need to make up her mind

and did u realise the harsh words come just after he saved her from the goons what more tests u want from a man who loves u so madly

both r at fault actually..this is like a proper clap with both the hands equally participating...

Originally posted by: justjanet

I've been reading several posts.. and how Riddhima should confess and how she should apologize and how only then they can get back together and all that.. Also, Armaan is totally behaving like the whole thing is Riddhima's fault and he's being St Armaan by even talking to her..

I want to stand up for Riddhima actually.. I mean fine, she said that she's still not sure about them.. in that scene in the guest house.. But, isn't that but obvious?! How can she be sure anyway! This is the guy who started wooing her because he made a bet with her sister! She put all that in the past and went ahead and confessed to him that she does love him.. and then bang! She finds out that he's gone to Muskaan's house without telling her.. as the ghar ka daamaad no less! And even when she confronts him about this, all he has to say is how bad Rahul is and how he's kaan bharofying!

She was upset that he lied to her and went as someone else's boyfriend.. She has all the right to be upset! And because she is upset, he went ahead and broke up with her?! The whole I'm-tired-of-making-myself-worthy and all that jazz..Is this how he was hoping to be worthy? He made it sound like it was all her fault.. that whole convo on the stairs during their break up.. I thought he missed the point completely! He was going off on a different tangent!

Instead of apologizing to her and accepting that he was indeed wrong, he went and broke up with her.. Even now, she's trying to be nice, and he's giving attitude..

P.S. I love Armaan too :-p but unfair is unfair any day!
P.P.S. Anyone, who read my ranting, thank you so much! : ) I just had to say it all out!

I agree with you on everything you said. Armaan should have said sorry for going with Muskaan, then everything would have been alright, but he said that he was tired of not trying to get her mad, this literally means that he is tired of her. Even after that, Ridz is trying to be nice and he is showing attitude.

I love Armaan as much as everyone else does, but I also love Ridz and this time she is right.

For all those people who say Ridz should trust him enough and once she has said that she loves him, why does she say she is not sure now etc..-- love is not an absolute thing, it evolves, grows with time and trust and depends very mucc on being nurtured by both iniitally.

Ridz said she loved him, Armaan posed as someone else's boyfriends without telling her, did not tell her until she found out herself, even then acted stupidly instead of apologizing and setting it right. It does not matter how much any one professes that he/she loves anothe person, but if he/she goes and poses as another's finace(now don't tell me that he had promised Muskaan, that;s bullshit - committed couples and husband/wife have more commitment to each other than to friends and stupid armaan should have actually told Muskaan that he is in love wiht someone and this would jeopardize their relationship and hence refused to pose or informed Muskann that he has to take permission from his love), there will always be doubt - so naturally ridz is not sure of this realtionship. If you say, that just because he changed himself so much, for her, she should blindly ignore this and forgive him and get one with life, would you do the same??? without making him/her realize their folly and getting across how much hurt they have caused by their action?? I am sure there are many people who would which is why many are taken for a ride in real life anyway 😆

I am not saying she should not forgive him and get back together (I actually don't like Ridz's character that much, but this time I am tired of people blindly blaming her), but Armaan should know that if he is committed to Ridz, she comes before anyone else and that inlcudes breaking pormises to friends who he has known for a couple of months.

hi,

Even I totally agree with you.

soumya