Originally posted by: ithihaas
yes this promo looks good and these days web series production values are high which can be seen in the promo.... the premise of the show is very relatable whether working or non-working mothers....
about family planning, there is so much of societal pressure on married couples to have kids soon after marriage....and also misconception that going for family planning might cause problems having kids later on....
Regarding family planning, i was referring to number of kids there...Family planning also includes planning number of kids also na 😆Yeah there is societal pressure on everything...If you are unmarried,marriage kab hogi?... If you are married,bacche kab paida karoge? If you have one kid, next baccha kab paida karoge ? ..there is no end to this nonsense...If i say this, i may sound repetitive like a tape recorder
...ie., In all such societal pressures,ultimately women are the one suffering in the end...as they are one give birth and look after children...But she has least say in taking such important decisions including planning number of kids..i mean husbands and inlaws decides even the number of kids ( most of the times) while women are the one bearing all pregnancy,delivery pain and sleepless nights while raising a small baby...And also women's parents should look after her and her child during pregnancy or post delivery ( post delivery for few months) as if women's parents give birth to baby 🤔....Anyway i saw such situations in my neighbours and colleagues/seniors regarding children...All these things often makes me question myself why should i even marry when someone will be taking decisions on my part too even without asking my opinions ..😆...
Indian Society treats unmarried women ( after certain age) , Divorced Women, and women who doesnt produce child as if they did some sin...as if marriage and having children should be the ultimate goal of anyone's life when they should be the individual's or couple's choice....And we get trapped into this social inhibitions and conditioning without even realising it ...it hits you very badly one day..but you dont get out of this trap easily once you fell into this..it takes lot of courage and determination to come out of this...I have friends,colleagues who discuss their problems of their married life with me..omg its so depressing to see them going through so much shit on daily basis😆...
Anyway when i talk about these things i talk keeping in mind about majority of the cases😆...May be there are few exceptional cases i have yet to come across 😆
Idk whether it looks like i'm over reacting to the things when i rant often on these things...but i definitely feel the need to talk about these issues...Someone or other should raise the voice against these things..atleast whereever we can ...Forum is the only place where i rant freely 😆...Real life mein toh even if you talk...they try to suppress saying oh you are girl...aise baat kare toh shaadi nahi hogi 🙄...omg this shaadi ,bacche nonsense never going to end..🙄..
Okay i will stop here 🤣....It was not my intention to bore ppl by talking the same thing daily 🤣...You ppl are stimulating me to talk these things indirectly 🤣
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