i am very sensitive of child abuse topic - Page 3

Originally posted by: deefy89

Sorry I meant it sounded strange having to tell her future in laws about something that happened so long ago, not about her mum

I don’t understand the last bit ☺️

Originally posted by: Hannie_Fan

oh about that.. see I am a person who believes there should be complete honesty in the relationship and woh incident koi choti baat nahi thi woh trauma tha hai and shayad rahega humesha. Mere liye ye bhi jaan-na zaruri tha ki unki kya mentality hai kyuki aage jaakar agar Meri daughter hui and Khudaa na khasta uske saath ya fir mere saath Aisa kuch hua toh mere in-laws kaise behave karege.

I totally agree with what you said (the part in English, idk what the rest means).

Sorry I don’t speak /understand Hindi ☺️☺️😆

Babita and mini had an almost perfect relationship. It was just a bit one sided where babita could tell mini anything but mini could not tell babita everything. Still, they had a relationship that’s better than some mother daughter relationships. Parents should be approachable where their child could literally speak to them (or ask advice) about anything.

Originally posted by: deefy89

I totally agree with what you said (the part in English, idk what the rest means).

Sorry I don’t speak /understand Hindi ☺️☺️😆

Babita and mini had an almost perfect relationship. It was just a bit one sided where babita could tell mini anything but mini could not tell babita everything. Still, they had a relationship that’s better than some mother daughter relationships. Parents should be approachable where their child could literally speak to them (or ask advice) about anything.

Originally posted by: Hannie_Fan

I said it was not a small incident it is a trauma. I have to know my in-law’s mentality because if such an incident takes place with my daughter or me in future will they support us or not...

Ah that makes sense actually.

I was nearly 4 maybe when the neighbour kid wanted to see me & was about to touch me.he was maximum 10 years old so till date I'm not sure of his intention whether someone from that age actually know something like that.

Bt fortunately my brother came at right moment & slapped him.My parents then confronted his parents too.

About the harassment on public transport, i can write essay.

But I have this really close freind who is the Life of our group. She is just so cheerful everyone around knows her as the happiest girl.

When we grew up & realised all those issues,she opened up & told she was abused by her cousin.never told anyone at home..that all her life she felt dirty & she was afraid of male anatomy.

We had no idea.

I had nightmares knowing this.i have no idea how she tackled it alone.

Originally posted by: Itsflora

I was nearly 4 maybe when the neighbour kid wanted to see me & was about to touch me.he was maximum 10 years old so till date I'm not sure of his intention whether someone from that age actually know something like that.

Bt fortunately my brother came at right moment & slapped him.My parents then confronted his parents too.

About the harassment on public transport, i can write essay.

But I have this really close freind who is the Life of our group. She is just so cheerful everyone around knows her as the happiest girl.

When we grew up & realised all those issues,she opened up & told she was abused by her cousin.never told anyone at home..that all her life she felt dirty & she was afraid of male anatomy.

We had no idea.

I had nightmares knowing this.i have no idea how she tackled it alone.

It's natural everyone has some fling as we are made like that

As I shared a one year old girl liked touching her private part and smiled as it gave her pleasure

Especially those children who sleep in their parent bedroom although it is dark but children get an idea as recently in my neighbour I heard that a 5 year boy and 4 year old girl just were touching each other and it was out of willingness

Anyway these are very common that sometime I feel if I am thinking too much as it's normal

And sometime I feel that nothing serious happened with me then also I make these thing big

I am lucky enough that my brother and parent now understand and then even they trusted me as I can't blame them totally as from what background they are they even done this much was more than enough and now even they understand and ask sorry from me

You know what in first case it was just a fling as that cousin is nice person it was just teenage effect but in second case he is just a pro rapist who don't know how much rape he would have done and still my uncle despite him having a daughter protect him and allow him in his house

So I myself get surprise with these thing

And in this show they are showing institute trying to protect their image but in majority of case victim not want to case

As in my institute it is indian institute so might be they were very much ready to support many girls but the girls just demanded suspension of those rapist with asking not to make matter public and institute was not even able to suspend most boys even as the most girls were not ready