i am very sensitive of child abuse topic

first wow the reaction on social media on this topic is just about favoritism everyone is not discussing gravity of situation and just busy in defending their favourite character

anyway just coming to topic

as i myself has experienced this two times first when i was 6 and my one of maternal cousin did this to me when i was asleep and thankgod nothing bad happened much as i got up and told my parent and my parent immediately made arrangement of him sleeping separately but they even after being protective and trusting me they asked me to have silence and never tell anyone about it and even they never complained to his parent about thisincident and quitely kept him with us for next 3 years due to commitment and honestly after that he never done anything and we share a good bond but still i want to ask a question now even why he dared to do such thing but am never asked him due to to bond be share now as it would be awkward but i really dont know if he is sorry for it or not because i dont see in his action its like he consider that incident as some small thing and think i have forgotten it

the second was cruel one when i was 11 one of my paternal brother done this with me and he even done in sleep but i even woke up at that time even when he was was about to do wrong but it left scars as he touched me very wrongly for a long period and i was thinking i was dreaming but thank god i woke up at right moment and i told my parent and my father beaten him alotand ousted him from house but they that time even asked me for silence and not only this that time we all were gone to my father place in holiday and after that incident when we reserved a car for visiting places my father even asked him to join as he feared that if people will know that even after he being there why he not took with us my parent never thought how i would feel sitting near him after such incident and i still question my parent for that

as that time i was very young so not understood those thing but felt uncomfortable

recently my younger sister shared wwith me how a milkmaid touched her wrongly and when she complained her father her father first started to scold her and asked if she given signal to her and i was shocked that how my uncle can question from her such thing from a child who was just 7 year old to give signal to such old man

i was really thankful that atleast my parent trust me and never doubted or questioned me but still i have taught myself what is right or wrong and even told my parent

you know i was shocked with recent event when one of my neighbour daughter who is just one year old was liking to touch her sensitive part and when i warned my neighbour and she took it seriously and invastigated it came out that one of her own uncle was doing with her

so just wanted to tell these are very common and we should be very careful as it was very much shocking for me that even a year old child is not safe

sorry if it got too long but just wanted to share it as it is raised and make you aware

Very well said.

No one is safe today. The whole place has become hell.

No respect for anyone.

No one can understand this pain other than the person who has faced it

Its good how they came up with this topic.

Originally posted by: cutie95

Very well said.

No one is safe today. The whole place has become hell.

No respect for anyone.

No one can understand this pain other than the person who has faced it

Its good how they came up with this topic.

yeah i am just watching this track and can say they till now has given 100 percent and whatever they are showing is fact

dont know why people are coming up with babita cant do this

as i myself have gone through this and knows how victim never are able to speak

and seeing mini babita relationnship its very much like my moom and me she even dont like me mentioning these thing to anyone when i recently shared with my shared when she shared hers my mother got angry that why i am making this topic as everyone will know now as my cousin will tell to her parent and they to everyone

when i ask my mother question now then she is like ab badal toh nahin sakte

she never let me ask question to my father saying he will feel bad

even in starting i was not able to talk with my mom as i used to feel she might guilt trip herself

anyway these type of thing are very common and very complicated you can never know about who and how migh have suffered

and the fact is 99.99 percent indians has experienced this as even my friends used to share by telling story or elly this happenened to one of their sister but now i understand it was their story

TM🤗 you speak up and that's need courage 👏👏 totally agree with you and personality know some girls who faced this kind of unfortunate and unforgettable experience 😭🥺 almost every parent specially mothers try to hide because of log kya kahenge aur kya sochenge🤢 😡🤬💔 this is today's reality that scared never heal🥺

Very well said. Sorry that you had to have this horrid experience. I am loving this storyline, personally. Storylines like this lead to conversations in people’s houses and ppl need to be open about thing like this even tho it’s sensitive

True ,this is very sensitive issue and here we cannot say babita was wrong.Society is still like that only.parents hardly confront the person and if he is relative then confronting never happens.

In my case I was so terrified, actually not terrified also I was not able to understand why my neighbour uncle touching awkwardly.It happened almost more than 40 years before ,I.use to stay at my neighbours place and play with their son while my parents use to go out for shopping or buying some things.My neighbours were very close to us and they called my parents bhaiyya and bhabhi.that uncle three times made me sit on his lap and touched very awarkardly in front of his ssmall son and teasing him that see I like her more and his son was like No and get all angry. But later I came to know that teasing and all just a bahana to make me sit on his lap and use to ask me if you feel something, I was too young and naive so use to say No nothing happend to him.

At that time even I dint heard the word Molesting also.and I was 7 yrs old

But not once when he did same thing thice at different days ,I started feeling that why he is doing like this and stopped going to there house but I dint informed my parents because I was too scared to tell them.Then one day he kissed me on my cheeks that was really uncomfortable and the same day I informed my parents but my parents dint confront them but instead stopped sending me to their house completely and even they stopped talking to him.

My parents are very good parents and they loved me very much always given me the best things but only thing is in those days there was not much friendly relationship between parents and children.but now time changed but in such type of issues society also needs to change.

I am sharing my story only to say that parents confronting the culprit is hardly done in olden times but even now in our society people think twice before exposing the culprit because somewhere there is a fear in heart of parents that Girl name will be spoiled in this and even people start seeing her as culprit.

But luckily I have two daughters and from the age of 4 ,j taught them good and bad touch and I made myself so comfortable with them that they dont get scared before sharing anything.😊

True.. This is a very big issue... No-one of any age is safe now... Na jane kab kya ho jaye... That's why we should always trust our child. Over anyone....

Those scars will remain lifelong with us even man have touched u in a wrong way.... We CAnt forget that nightmare anytime in lie lives.... One or the other it will haunt us and makes remember that....

I guess ppl don't want to see the sentivity of the issue just like the so called society the only want to justify about it.... It's better to ignore such ppl ad get effected....

I was 9, my mamu touched me in washroom. Unfortunately I couldn’t even save myself. Ghar pe koi tha hi nahi. I cried , cried a lot I did not know ye kya hota hai kya nahi. 2 days later I told my mom about it and thankfully my parents did not fear the society and that man was put behind the bars.... No matter what, The scars are still in me both emotionally and physically (at my back) . I was again lucky that my fiancé and in-laws even after knowing this accepted me.... My sister too was touched in wrong way when she was in 10th, but she did not tell anyone except me. When I asked her to she refused. I went and told her parents that but she committed suicide .

Originally posted by: Hannie_Fan

I was 9, my mamu touched me in washroom. Unfortunately I couldn’t even save myself. Ghar pe koi tha hi nahi. I cried , cried a lot I did not know ye kya hota hai kya nahi. 2 days later I told my mom about it and thankfully my parents did not fear the society and that man was put behind the bars.... No matter what, The scars are still in me both emotionally and physically (at my back) . I was again lucky that my fiancé and in-laws even after knowing this accepted me.... My sister too was touched in wrong way when she was in 10th, but she did not tell anyone except me. When I asked her to she refused. I went and told her parents that but she committed suicide .

OMG suicide 😭😭

It's really heartbreaking

Originally posted by: Hannie_Fan

I was 9, my mamu touched me in washroom. Unfortunately I couldn’t even save myself. Ghar pe koi tha hi nahi. I cried , cried a lot I did not know ye kya hota hai kya nahi. 2 days later I told my mom about it and thankfully my parents did not fear the society and that man was put behind the bars.... No matter what, The scars are still in me both emotionally and physically (at my back) . I was again lucky that my fiancé and in-laws even after knowing this accepted me.... My sister too was touched in wrong way when she was in 10th, but she did not tell anyone except me. When I asked her to she refused. I went and told her parents that but she committed suicide .

I’m so sorry about your experience 😭

You must be so proud of your parents that they did the right thing by you and didn’t worry what other people would think. You were the victim here so why should they worry. In him being put behind bars they also stopped it happening to other girls and both you and them saved other young girls from feeling the same emotional trauma. You should be extremely proud of yourself for speaking up and helping putting a monster behind bars.

Bold- they “accepted” you because there’s nothing to really accept. You were a child and couldn’t help that AN ADULT chose to do that to you. You were a child.

Your sisters story is actually so awful. This is what happens to victims because of the stupid women out there that gossip and blame victims. It makes them scared to come forward 😭😭

Just seeing how this storyline is making people share their experiences, it’s probably doing the same to people at home. Here in the uk since the 90s, they started to show real life situations/crimes as part of serial storylines. It helped so many ppl and still continues to help so many people speak up about their own situations that they’ve been too ashamed to speak up about. I applaud PB for showing this storyline