Agreed & wanna share my 2 cents regarding yesterday's fiasco, did Asim disappoint me? Should he have have handled the situation differently? Yes, he did & yes, he should have.
But was it unexpected? No, I expected him to behave exactly the way he did when I 1st saw the promo. This is how he is and its not just Himanshi effect yeah her being there aggravated the matter but nothing more
For instance when Madhurima got evicted & Vishal was being accused-supported accordingly by all HMs, Asim got super hyper in trying to convince Vishal ki Paras is trying to take advantage of the situation and was insecure about losing Vishal's friendship coz he had been blunt about it and not cajoling. Vishal understood him and assured him, "Nothing can come between us bro", similarly I can say very confidently that Rashami understood him & isn't pissed off at him
But is it just insecurity to loose people he care about or the fear of getting misunderstood by his near n dear ones yes till large extent. There's one more reason to it, we always applaud Asim's dheetness
& mental strength like how he doesn't let all the bullying, bashing & WKV feedback affect him, but its bound to take a toll on him and the outburst is bound to happen in some way.
The common thread in both incidents (Vishal wala ya Rashami wala) was Asik being held entirely responsible for destroying Himanshi's relationship, kal toh hadd bhi paar ho gyi when Sallu actually told Asim ki tumne uski zindagi barbaad kardi like what even, plus the way he insulted Himanshi, Asim was brimming the fact that usko baat bina baat har baat ka justification dena padta hai toh wo usi mode mein tha IMO, ki yahan bhi stance clear karde & atleast ek baar toh Himanshi ko defend kar paaye, where he went wrong was tone & jumpiness baaki explanation mein toh waise bhi koi sense nahi tha
Quoting Rashami's statement regarding Asim, "Woh aise hi baat karta hai excited hoke", so sure he's hyper, but viperđ nahi haiđ
Having said I understand why he's being bashed but big deal coz after witnessing Rashami acting like a manipulative double dholki with Asim, his fans & neutrals (including myself) ne pakad ke bohot dhoya tha Rashami ko, so its all good, yeah intensity & extent varies due to the relevance of the contestantđ