Originally posted by: 2019_AnushkaM
I am not sure about What Rudra was thinking or what his psychology was . Maybe he wanted to live a relationship where no one can control him through his emotions , he wanted the upper hand , he wanted stay in control , Anu was safeguard for him , his comfort zone , nothing with Anu could have go out of his according to him , he wouldn't have heart broken . He forget friendships r more delicate & complicated than relationships , friendships also have heart break. I truly believe you can live with a person without love . Whole love concept isn't really clear to me anyway 😆. If two people really understands each other , trust each other , maintain the loyalty , respect each other's pov , and have basic level affection a relationship work out fine .
But for that it's necessary that person's mind & heart is clean & he is actually ready for such relationship. No marriage is palctonic . But their r 100 husbands wives stays in a marriage without love because they r too used to each other & their company. In this case nothing such can happen. Because Anu & Rudra didn't have basic understanding or trust between each other . Secondly the guy was already was devoted to another woman how would he ever give chance to any other relationship. That's stupid to expect.
Same for Anayana. She believed in those thousands of arrange marriages where a guy & girl marry , stay together , learn to love each other . So she thought with time after marriage Rudra will learn to love her , or even he doesn't it really don't matter they will still stay together. She failed to understand the basic thing you can expect new beginning from something who is actually willing to start something new & give a chance to the relationship not from someone who is running away from a relationship. Worst shit a person can do is using another person as their rebound or escape from reality. Anu refused to see the basic things & refused to accept them. She let her heart overpower her thought process . She couldn't control her greed of getting her childhood love. She tried hard & hard but she didn't understood she was never enough.
You can't make a person love you who does not love you . I wish CVS handle this story more sensitively & properly. But they made a mockery out of it one sided love & their struggles . Made Anu melodramatic irritating.