Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus
Don't mind me speaking my mind here....
to be honest, I would have preferred to have Nannu's slap edited rather than BP. Abir getting punished by BP makes way more sense than Nishant.
*runs before I get mobbed*
just hear me out...
Although BP slapping Abir would defs be out of character...but still understandable because BP's mind is already going nuts with Meenu's dhamki and this shaadi fever jks apart, A slap from an elder like BP doesn't always equate to hatred. Like the great Amitabh bachan explains in K3G "badon ka gussa khabhi khabhi Badon ka pyar hai"
BP love(d) Abir like his son and so his gussa is totally justified. Nishant on the other hand, doesn't have that right to slap Abir. Nishant is not qualified for that kind of behaviour
- BP and Abir have a much more longer and deeper bond than Abir- Nishant.
- BP and Abir always respected and admired one another so deeply that they didn't have to directly talk or express their fatherly-son love. Their actions spoke for themselves. That's why BP supported Abir whole-heartedly when Abir spoke truthfully from his heart, when expressing his love and respect for Mishti (that unforgettable episode BP-ABIR convo at mah house
). BP entrusted Mishti's future life into Abir's hand, believing that Abir will stick to his words (like all fathers do).
-So when Abir suddenly broke the mishbir rishta. BP's trust, bond and respect for Abir took a big hit. Yes, ofcourse BP knows that Abir as a genuine person would never do such a thing, but BP's primary priority is his beti, Mishti. Which is why, he felt it was more important to deal with Mishti's heartbreak first, by sending her away to London. I guess because the rishta broke solely on the basis of Abir's words, BP decided that it was Abir's responsbility to speak up for explanation, rather than BP going to ask what went wrong.
-After the leap, BP has seen Abir again breaking Mishti's heart in the market. So in BP's eyes, Abir has not regretted the break-up. And with now Abir suddenly showing up to every marriage function, and trying to mend the issues, irritates BP (rightly so) because Abir was absent for the last 3 months. He didn't bother meeting or seeing the mah family after the break-up.
But now he's back trying to gain chances to fight back when Mishti is (getting) engaged, and Abir is not being straightforward about why he's back, what he's fighting for and not directly apologising to BP. So in BP's eyes, Abir is unnecessarily causing problems and issues (BP doesn't know that Abir still loves Mishti, that he unwillingly broke the rishta, and that Abir is regretful).
-BP is not wrong in his protectiveness and care for Mishti to not be hurt by Abir again and again. But like ALL parents, even BP makes mistakes in the name of looking out for their children. And that's what is happening here. BP is blinded by his protectiveness for Mishti and anger/disappointment on Abir...that BP has stopped giving chances to allow Abir to talk. And yes, he is worried about Meenu's dhamki because Abir has failed to show BP that he will confront and deal with his mother, in regards to Mishti's future. The biggest mistake BP is doing..is rushing for this nishmish marriage. As a father, this is the worst decision he's made, to rush and practically force Mishti to agree for this rishta, and turning a blind eye to Mishti's struggles. He can see Mishti is in deep pain and distress, but doesn't address it directly. BP believes that pushing Mishti away from Abir and into a marriage, will help her move on forever. That's his mistake.
-So all I'm trying to say is BP was more appropriate to slap Abir, than Nishant. Given BP and Abir past and current relationship status, Nishant does't fit into that category to deserve raising his hand against Abir So I wished the makers edited Nishant's slap and maybe kept BP's slap instead. Besides, Nannu already had a go at Abir yesterday with the push/shove - that was enough. Nishant's slap today was unnecessary.
That's all. Hopefully I made some sense. Thanks for reading (if you got this far
).
Don't hate me y'all. I don't support BP and his decision to force Mishti into the marriage. But I'm just trying to explain why BP is behaving like so and giving my opinion on the slap drama
What do you guys think?
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