The person Shehnaz is now

Arguably it is believed that a person who he is now largely depends on his childhood and his mental development during that time.

I think it would have been better if Shehnaz's brother met her instead of her father.

From her convo (show & USUD), it clearly seems like she is closer to her brother than her father. Her brother does kisses and hugs. I think she has developed this habit from him. According to her, her mother hit herself more than once and she found that cool. So, she did that watching from her.

Again from her convo (show & USUD), it is heard that she has spent a considerable amount of time of her schooling in hostel. I guess she needs constant attention and pampering because she may have lacked that in her earlier life because of her being in hostel.

It doesn't look like she dislikes or disrespects her father but it certainly looks like that she has complaints with her father. From her convo (show & USUD) it is heard that her father was in Germany for 17 years and according to her he didn't have major role in her growing up as he was away. The complaint may well have been because of this.

She is bad with words and mazak mazak mein woh kuch bhi bol deti hain. I do believe Shehnaz should have been much careful earlier while talking about her father. Because people can take that as her weakness and use that later against her. But Sid should not have said that about her joh maa baap k sage nahi hote hai woh kisike bhi sage nahi hote hai. It is not right. He told it from his life experience. These are extremely harsh words and it will offend and hurt anyone.

It may not be related to this post but I think it is a social problem that people tend to avoid someone in everything if he has any sort of issues with his parents. I think it's not right. Not everyone is lucky enough to get parents affection and in worse cases (not related to here) some child have bad parents. It's not the child's fault that they didn't get their parents affection for some reason or their parents were bad. It is often perceived that that child will be bad or they have higher chance of being bad in the future because of that. It is not always true. A good person can also be deprived of parents affection or in worst cases have bad parents.

No offense to anyone.

Opinions ?

I completely agree with you. It’s even different based on a relationship between the oldest kid and the youngest kid with their parents . The connection maybe stronger and one child will feel a disconnect and have anger or resentment .

for example, in Canada parents have to work so a common thing is that parents aren’t present in the growing up process so kids sometimes feel a lack of parents involvement

mall of this impacts the personality development . The connection I have with my parents is different that the type my cousin had, she grew really bitter with her parents and you can hear it

Shukla's words were extremely hurtful. If someone trusts you enough to be vulnerable and share their personal stories with you, it is your duty to not use it as their weakness even when things get bitter.

Shukla just showed that he is a vile person by nature. Cares about no one.

He had no right to use that line. Hai kaun yeh? I can totally sympathize with her. That she has to hear it from someone she has stood by all through out. It is one thing to hear such things from someone you dislike, but someone close to you, saying shit like that? One goes into a state of shock, this is followed by sense of shame that I shared this story with them, this ends with people building walls around them and not trusting anybody.

this world is a lonely place as it. Why can't people just be nice? Gosh. I honestly felt bad for her today.

Eff this guy. I want her to make his life hell now.

I hope she shows him his aukaat now instead of forgiving him as she always does.

This post is bang on TM..

Fully agree with you..