SidNaaz :Discussion Thread 16: Love Aaj Kal.. - Page 112

Originally posted by: lovepooo

Jis bhi qajah se ho but nominations hoga yepiii😆

Torture ya sacrifice tadk lao koi 🤣

Kya farak parta hai.. how does task or nomination matter? We know the weak ones already.. We also know k Sid, Asim, Sana and Rashmi are in top 5😆

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Thanks for sharing that.

I have wondered several times whether that is what this is several times. His actions post last WKV and Hina have been marked. His strong reticence makes him very tough to analyze and unravel. That best time with you talk struck me as deep, like he was closing off. To remind her that he was too old for her didn’t strike me as wise for a guy in love. It could be taken as defence mechanism and insecurities speaking too though. And to then fling Paras umpteen times at a girl who’s in love with him and continuing to flirt randomly with whichever girl is close to her and throw taunts and barbs which would automatically distance any sane girl in love. And to then remain mum on commitment too. All of this would usually point in one direction alone. Distance and detach.

But, what does he really want is the question. Is he detaching coz he is too far in or coz he is done with it? Commitment phobia, yes. Yesterday’s statement on what seems like couples etc could be a hint perhaps. Not sure. This can also be the language of a deeply wounded tiger- one that refuses to heal too, if you know what I mean, so strong are his walls. So, self-hurt through hurting the one you love becomes communication. It’s toxic either way for Sana. That I know.

And yet, he tells her he misses her at bed, calls her sweetheart authoritatively, hugs her out of nowhere, asks for a head massage, says he is her woh wala dost ( what is that? Friends with benefits?) tries to get Sana in from arguing to Rashmi ... am not sure. Was he ensuring Rashmi wouldn’t play victim card for his own game’s sake? Anyway, the frequency of his self initiated moments with her have majorly dwindled. Yes, he has supported her when she was ostracized at WKV and throughout the show... he has a big heart. Will always be thankful for that. But if he could support Rashmi and Mahira too... he alone knows what’s within him. Anyway, one thing I do know is but for Sana’s initiation, we would have had hardly any Sidnaaz moments at all this fortnight.

And yet, one hopes, because the desire to see love never withers. One hopes the decoded words which fans identified from him to his mom at FW are true and that goes for Salman’s words too about FW yesterday. It’s a spark of hope. And I happened to like Siddharth too along the way. And as much I am sitting on a fence frustrated at my own trust deficit in him, I want both of them to find each other again coz this couple strikes so close home that it hurts not to see them happy.

Noooooo Uma !! Kya ho raha hai bhai !!! You still dont beleive that mom thing ??? Salman also hinted yesterday . ANd ssid ke behaviour me he i thinking . But he cant keep away.

In fact I agree jitna sid ne sna ko manaya hai shayad hi kisine manaya ho . He shows utmost care towards her .

WHAT IS WRONG HERE ????? SO TENSE AND SHAKY EVERYONE ?? WHYYYYYYY ?

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Was it mine? I thought I was presenting how he was confusing me... shall I delete mine?

No.. I am not pointing anyone but saying for everyone..

Criticize Sid and Sana all you guys want but do not trivialize their bond like this

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Kya farak parta hai.. how does task or nomination matter? We know the weak ones already.. We also know k Sid, Asim, Sana and Rashmi are in top 5😆

No i want strong one toh nominated 😈

Bhale usko SR bhej de

Tab toh darr aayega inko

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Kya farak parta hai.. how does task or nomination matter? We know the weak ones already.. We also know k Sid, Asim, Sana and Rashmi are in top 5😆

but Asim should be punished too

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

sorry until unless Sana isn’t sorry for her behaviour, it won’t be good for him to go back to her either, she has to realise that she hurts him and you cannot take your partner for granted

She will . See they have to cross these hurdles na ???

ANd if they dont gel it will be good they remain friends . But we have to give them time . Its reality not a tv show .

If they decide to just remain friends that will also be fine , if they get into a relationship great .

They are individuals . Lets be fair to both . Both are investing emotions there .

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

Noooooo Uma !! Kya ho raha hai bhai !!! You still dont beleive that mom thing ??? Salman also hinted yesterday . ANd ssid ke behaviour me he i thinking . But he cant keep away.

In fact I agree jitna sid ne sna ko manaya hai shayad hi kisine manaya ho . He shows utmost care towards her .

WHAT IS WRONG HERE ????? SO TENSE AND SHAKY EVERYONE ?? WHYYYYYYY ?

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

but Jyoti, Like we expect Sid to confess or explain, why don’t we expect Sana to clear the stance too! And not every time relationships can be taken for granted! What I feel bad is, when you look back, not once she realised that Sid is hurt in the process, her only concern has been Sid hurts her and doesn’t stand for her! But I don’t care as long as Sid gave in and will be ok even if he gives into her in the future too

But when he said he doesn’t want to see Sana in his kal, it had lot of pain and Sana did cross a line and Sana being justified in this thread and expecting Sid to understand as he hasn’t confessed was the last thing I would like to hear!
From last two weeks for not a small mistake of his, he has been hurt by her, questioned by her but never realise that he was hurt 🙄! It’s very upsetting

Sid loves her and he wasn’t mincing words yesterday! He is scared of being hurt outside and how will you confess to you a girl who said, it’s ok I don’t need anyone, I got my attention from GG as BB sent him and after that about I care none and see none and I see only trophy

I wanted her to concentrate on the game from day one, no one asked her to speak those words what she said to Sid! Glad her father asked her to concentrate on the game! But was the timing right to say that? How did you suddenly realise that you know it all?
No doubt she will he sulking now after that! But the major test of your love is then when u have everything and you still need him

Anyways many will disagree but Sana was nowhere right nor her actions were

I agree ..I m noway saying sana is right ..that whole gautam thing was in bad light and it makes sana look bad and desperate especially after salman called it scandalous ..

So the whole debate of sid playing victim card by hurting sana with words does not fit here at all when salman only is doing that job by showing sana wrong ...Thats what sid not liking that sana is coming out looking bad bec of all this ..his kal thing was deliberate to hurt sana so that she realises where she is going wrong and coming out looking bad ..

When sana told him about slaps and salman comparing him to madhu , sid brushed it off inmediately in anger and said go now he dont want to hear anything whereas if he want he could hv pulled out a vishal here bec of those slaps knowing how sana is equally popular now ..

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

who says they are not in love ??? Sid is completely in her control

They have that domestic vibe to that whole scene .

https://www.voot.com/shows/bigg-boss/13/839463/meri-tareef-kar-sidharth/903744

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Bec sid is looking fr serious commitment and not just phone calls or else why will he bring the age talk if sana just expects phone calls fm him ..

He did age talk to chk if she was serious about commitment ..but her reply was not that type of love ..

You may be right, I could be right, or we could both be wrong 🤣

Who knows, all I know is that their relationship seems genuine and I see love. I didn’t mean to offend anyone by saying that Sid’s taunts are a defense mechanism. I’m sorry if I did 😔