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Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

That Veena beneath facade of modern classy woman is absolute crass ..Sona need not pamper her

That prenup also bcos of her .naren was saying prenup prenup but no one took it seriously .only after Veena said ok it happened

Originally posted by: Shanayass

that is one shitty couple!!! Both have downmarket thinking andr absolutely hypocrates, dillusional and spineless!!

Exactly ..now I hardly doubt she has guts to slap naren on EMA .if at all she knows truth

She will start crying and will shred the other woman in to pieces ..lucky that woman died

U know what me and my mom watching khkt .mom started saying which sane woman blames the other woman ...if not that pari there will be another gal .we should blame our married son or married husband

Only third rated cheap people blame on the other woman.my mom is 60 yr old

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

Exactly ..now I hardly doubt she has guts to slap naren on EMA .if at all she knows truth

She will start crying and will shred the other woman in to pieces ..lucky that woman died

U know what me and my mom watching khkt .mom started saying which sane woman blames the other woman ...if not that pari there will be another gal .we should blame our married son or married husband

Only third rated cheap people blame on the other woman.my mom is 60 yr old

I hope veena does smthg different but i doubt!

Originally posted by: Shanayass

thats very sweet!!!❤

I hope veena does smthg different but i doubt!

U know what ..forget about tv..in practical real life most of the women don't blame the other women my mom knows so many EMA affirs in our small rural place .

Mom says either they keep silent or blame their husbands

Only third rated cheapsters go and fight with other women logic is quite simple she says ok u make this other woman threatened and run away

What's the use

u r laadla will find another woman.with how many women u will fight

Good afternoon girls😃 !!!! Thanks for all opinions👍🏼

My, it looks like there was a raging fire storm here😲 I saw this briefly this AM, but had much, much bigger fish to fry🤔. So here I am, now. Generally, I don't like to get into the back and forth. I am somebody who believes in perceptions are perceptions and are largely shaped by our experiences and circumstances. So, I am not going to go into nitpicking every comment here.

But, there are these few things I wanted to tackle as most of you seemed irritated by my following comments.

1. About why I have an axe to grind about UNINVITING Suman. Here is an analogy. I would be horribly offended, if my chair told me, you are too much of an opinionated nut and therefore can create trouble, so can you please not come🤢 for a meeting? There is nothing that is untrue in her request, but I would still feel humiliated. Suman is not somebody who takes these things kindly, she will assume that Sona's hand was twisted by Sippys in uninviting her. She will take it personally even with a mere perception that she is being belittled. Even if it is your own daughter or your parent, tells you " don't come, you might create trouble" will that go well with anybody? It certainly won't with me🤢As it stands, Suman still thinks Sippys are fleecing and Veena Sippy is irate because of that accusation. Now, uninviting Suman is adding rocket fuel to fire😲

2. The most unfortunate event is Sona lacking the foresight that the secret had gotten out. Like I said, it gives us warm fuzzies that she had trusted and forgiven Ajeeth🤔Bahut khoob. But, this gambling put him in a position where he didn't care to sell an explosive family secret to a 3rd party and didn't think twice to put Sona in a dangerous situation with Kohl dude. He then went on to drink, blabber, almost would have been a road kill and then went on to blabber to Suman. So, as we can see there were wide reaching repercussions. Unfortunately, trusting somebody for willing himself out of an addiction won't cut it😒. OK, I can twist myself to admit, Sona is not a trained professional to know that addictions can't be willed or trusted away🤓. But what about the kohl dude? Even if everything else is peaceful, what stops the kohl dude from blackmailing again? My peeve is in the fact that Rohit was sleeping in her lap, this was when she didn't know about Ajeeth's involvement. Was his sleep important than letting him know about that this nefarious guy is in on the secret that can threaten everything? Or YK and Nishi if Rohit is unavailable? If you ask me what could they have done, I don't know the answer to it, but it would have been not solely on her.

3. Slapping Pari without letting her have an audience: this is very close to my heart. I am somebody who believes in giving everybody at least one chance to tell their story before they get crucified. There is always a second side to the story. Let me give an analogy to explain this better. In a week, there is at least once or twice, my support staff or my student will come and tell me " so and so in that room is very rude". If I go in as a raging bull, ready to pick a fight for insulting my student, I have lost the battle before it ever started. I can say with conviction that 90 % of the time, by the time I enter that room they are embarrassed and incredibly apologetic for their outburst. There is another back-story there, their pet is getting euthanized, they were in a MVA coming in or they have just signed off their parent to hospice😒, heartbreaking story which we would never have known if we never gave them the space. 10 % are simply unreasonable, boors😳 whom we can't please anyway. What I am saying is every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.

Here toh, we know Pari is a insensitive, selfish, mean girl who cares nothing about people around her. She can also get aggressive if she is pushed into a corner. Heck, we have seen how ballistic she had become with the dreaded Suman. With all the nonsense Veena spoke about hormones and all, I don't expect her to be respectful or cordial with Veena. It doesn't matter whether you are an older woman or not, if Veena can't maintain her decorum ( I cringe even to remember things she said to Pari ) then she can't expect any semblance of respect from Pari. Sona, on the other hand didn't know ( I don't remember if she walked in after this verbal diarrhea ), and expecting Pari to be respectful is not appropriate. That slap was totally uncalled for. She could have pulled Pari to a room, at least given Pari an audience, to keep that door open for a conversation with Pari. Now, Sona slammed that door shut on Pari's face to ever open for a conversation, she is pushed to a corner by her too. She is going to be a maniac which is what we are seeing🤢. What do we know what she told Suman? For crying out loud, Pari is Sona's sister. Doesn't she want to assess how this all came about and make amends/corrective action rather than jumping the gun? Doesn't she want to provide reassurance to her sister that she will listen with an open mind whatever her story is? Doesn't Sona factor in as Pari's support system?

4. People, generally nothing can offend me😃. Let me see if I can slide this in as gently as possible 😃I feel like I have seen everything, well almost everything ( I know I shouldn't challenge my fate😲 ). My opinions are mine alone shaped by my experiences and circumstances. You may tell me that you don't agree to my opinion. I don't expect everybody to agree to my opinion and I actually welcome that and ready to hear out other perspectives too. That is what makes every conversation/interaction richer. But please watch out against labeling - "you are biased", " you are harsh", " you are a basher", these are not acceptable💔. When some of you can have an opinion about a real person ( me, if you can believe I am real flesh and blood 😃), as a harsh, overly critical/bashing, biased person and are vocal about it, why can't I have an opinion about a fictional character Sona? Not that this changes anything from my end😃, I will still be the same.

People, I am not some character stamping authority. Why should anybody care about what I think and my gibberish?😔I am a n equivalent of one, please ignore if you don't like what I write, block my name off or shake your head and say " Mili is a nut and here she goes again", I won't take it personally.😃

Who knows, aisa kuch ho jaayein ki I start loving Sona and completely disconnect with Dr. Sippy. Till then, let us have the freedom to formulate our opinions, give each other space to express them😃

Have a great day !!! I am entering into a busy week, not sure when I will be able to watch Monday's and comment. I think more loudness to come😳

Originally posted by: vinnas

Mili ❤️ Discussions in Your Thread 😛Goes on 😲

So😳

@Varuni 😃 Like 👍🏼Your Points 👏

Chandu, thank you for this🤗. You never fail to amaze me, you know that. You don't know how many cups I had since this AM, we had to finalize some logistics for the next academic year. Phew!!!

Yes, it seems like a hurricane has just passed through😃 here.

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

U know what ..forget about tv..in practical real life most of the women don't blame the other women my mom knows so many EMA affirs in our small rural place .

Mom says either they keep silent or blame their husbands

Only third rated cheapsters go and fight with other women logic is quite simple she says ok u make this other woman threatened and run away

What's the use

u r laadla will find another woman.with how many women u will fight

Though extremely pathetic and wrong, veena actually represented the typical indian mentality..the country is surely changing but this thing stll exists!

I recently watched chappak and delhi crimes..quite good both r! I would suggest u to watch them..both deals with diff issues but represent the mentallity of the society..u will understand why i am saying a woman is the first one to think low or jump on another woman!( not everytime though..we females r superheros i believe and can be providers and supporters when requored too❤)

Originally posted by: mili9

Good afternoon girls😃 !!!! Thanks for all opinions👍🏼

My, it looks like there was a raging fire storm here😲 I saw this briefly this AM, but had much, much bigger fish to fry🤔. So here I am, now. Generally, I don't like to get into the back and forth. I am somebody who believes in perceptions are perceptions and are largely shaped by our experiences and circumstances. So, I am not going to go into nitpicking every comment here.

But, there are these few things I wanted to tackle as most of you seemed irritated by my following comments.

1. About why I have an axe to grind about UNINVITING Suman. Here is an analogy. I would be horribly offended, if my chair told me, you are too much of an opinionated nut and therefore can create trouble, so can you please not come🤢 for a meeting? There is nothing that is untrue in her request, but I would still feel humiliated. Suman is not somebody who takes these things kindly, she will assume that Sona's hand was twisted by Sippys in uninviting her. She will take it personally even with a mere perception that she is being belittled. Even if it is your own daughter or your parent, tells you " don't come, you might create trouble" will that go well with anybody? It certainly won't with me🤢As it stands, Suman still thinks Sippys are fleecing and Veena Sippy is irate because of that accusation. Now, uninviting Suman is adding rocket fuel to fire😲

2. The most unfortunate event is Sona lacking the foresight that the secret had gotten out. Like I said, it gives us warm fuzzies that she had trusted and forgiven Ajeeth🤔Bahut khoob. But, this gambling put him in a position where he didn't care to sell an explosive family secret to a 3rd party and didn't think twice to put Sona in a dangerous situation with Kohl dude. He then went on to drink, blabber, almost would have been a road kill and then went on to blabber to Suman. So, as we can see there were wide reaching repercussions. Unfortunately, trusting somebody for willing himself out of an addiction won't cut it😒. OK, I can twist myself to admit, Sona is not a trained professional to know that addictions can't be willed or trusted away🤓. But what about the kohl dude? Even if everything else is peaceful, what stops the kohl dude from blackmailing again? My peeve is in the fact that Rohit was sleeping in her lap, this was when she didn't know about Ajeeth's involvement. Was his sleep important than letting him know about that this nefarious guy is in on the secret that can threaten everything? Or YK and Nishi if Rohit is unavailable? If you ask me what could they have done, I don't know the answer to it, but it would have been not solely on her.

3. Slapping Pari without letting her have an audience: this is very close to my heart. I am somebody who believes in giving everybody at least one chance to tell their story before they get crucified. There is always a second side to the story. Let me give an analogy to explain this better. In a week, there is at least once or twice, my support staff or my student will come and tell me " so and so in that room is very rude". If I go in as a raging bull, ready to pick a fight for insulting my student, I have lost the battle before it ever started. I can say with conviction that 90 % of the time, by the time I enter that room they are embarrassed and incredibly apologetic for their outburst. There is another back-story there, their pet is getting euthanized, they were in a MVA coming in or they have just signed off their parent to hospice😒, heartbreaking story which we would never have known if we never gave them the space. 10 % are simply unreasonable, boors😳 whom we can't please anyway. What I am saying is every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.

Here toh, we know Pari is a insensitive, selfish, mean girl who cares nothing about people around her. She can also get aggressive if she is pushed into a corner. Heck, we have seen how ballistic she had become with the dreaded Suman. With all the nonsense Veena spoke about hormones and all, I don't expect her to be respectful or cordial with Veena. It doesn't matter whether you are an older woman or not, if Veena can't maintain her decorum ( I cringe even to remember things she said to Pari ) then she can't expect any semblance of respect from Pari. Sona, on the other hand didn't know ( I don't remember if she walked in after this verbal diarrhea ), and expecting Pari to be respectful is not appropriate. That slap was totally uncalled for. She could have pulled Pari to a room, at least given Pari an audience, to keep that door open for a conversation with Pari. Now, Sona slammed that door shut on Pari's face to ever open for a conversation, she is pushed to a corner by her too. She is going to be a maniac which is what we are seeing🤢. What do we know what she told Suman? For crying out loud, Pari is Sona's sister. Doesn't she want to assess how this all came about and make amends/corrective action rather than jumping the gun? Doesn't she want to provide reassurance to her sister that she will listen with an open mind whatever her story is? Doesn't Sona factor in as Pari's support system?

4. People, generally nothing can offend me😃. Let me see if I can slide this in as gently as possible 😃I feel like I have seen everything, well almost everything ( I know I shouldn't challenge my fate😲 ). My opinions are mine alone shaped by my experiences and circumstances. You may tell me that you don't agree to my opinion. I don't expect everybody to agree to my opinion and I actually welcome that and ready to hear out other perspectives too. That is what makes every conversation/interaction richer. But please watch out against labeling - "you are biased", " you are harsh", " you are a basher", these are not acceptable💔. When some of you can have an opinion about a real person ( me, if you can believe I am real flesh and blood 😃), as a harsh, overly critical/bashing, biased person and are vocal about it, why can't I have an opinion about a fictional character Sona? Not that this changes anything from my end😃, I will still be the same.

People, I am not some character stamping authority. Why should anybody care about what I think and my gibberish?😔I am a n equivalent of one, please ignore if you don't like what I write, block my name off or shake your head and say " Mili is a nut and here she goes again", I won't take it personally.😃

Who knows, aisa kuch ho jaayein ki I start loving Sona and completely disconnect with Dr. Sippy. Till then, let us have the freedom to formulate our opinions, give each other space to express them😃

Have a great day !!! I am entering into a busy week, not sure when I will be able to watch Monday's and comment. I think more loudness to come😳

I agree with u about uninviting suman .here sona did make s mistake .veena cheap words and then sona uninviting is like adding fuel to fire

Yes i agree with u .how can one trust a addict to take care of his addiction and secret is out in air .she could have explained it to rohit when he is sleeping on her lap .then Ajith matter not known it's such a grave serious issue ..that secret is out .how can she hide. Seriously is sleep that imp .here sona is called a dumbass for these incidents like this .how can one relate to her if she keeps doing things like resigning job ..and not informing rohit

But reg pari i dont agree . U r anology is not right pari has nothing to defend neither the accusation on pari is debatable it's not grey ..it's plain black and white ..i.e it is TRUTH and she did shame less act for passion sake ..raging hormones is not entirely a false accusation ..but veena HAS NO RIGHT to blast on pari ..it's ok if sona uttered those words and beat her with stick ofcourse in a room but not before veena

A selfish gal like pari can't or won't be support system to any one .so sona need not worry.if pari really mends her way she can understand why sona beat her and what mistake she did and then she will be a support system

.no need of hearing pari version ..come on what will her version ..bcos Rohan was after me i fell for him i didn't even care he was becoming a father ..so is it any thing defendable...it's.not like he mixed some thing in drink and seduced her nor he raped or blackmailed her

U have a right to have a not so good opinion on sona .even me it's the same .but i feel CV are going to butcher dr rohit soon ..and if sona realises her mistakes i might be batting for sona and blasting rohit

Originally posted by: Shanayass

if i talk about real life...women are the first one to put other women down (not specifically EMA) but generally in everything! I don't know about ur rural area but i am talking about an average perception! Ok..so i pive in delhi..a place which is consodered to be the modernisation centre of the country too..here we find ppl of all types..its like a mini india! But still ppl in delhi actually carry the same perception over things and at times can be quite judgemental too! If any wrongs happen the woman involved is the first one to be questioned! We live in a country where even when rape cases r registered the victim is questioned! So u think a woman having an EMA with a man would be spared! Hell no!

Though extremely pathetic and wrong, veena actually represented the typical indian mentality..the country is surely changing but this thing stll exists!

I recently watched chappak and delhi crimes..quite good both r! I would suggest u to watch them..both deals with diff issues but represent the mentallity of the society..u will understand why i am saying a woman is the first one to think low or jump on another woman!( not everytime though..we females r superheros i believe and can be providers and supporters when requored too❤)

Sorry to bring regional divide ..south is much much better ..in case of women rather than north we have much more freedom in and after marriage compare to average north .here parents advise not to marry northie guys since it's hard to accept the culture of northy MIL and north boys ..

i dont say people who blast on women in rape case exist but it's minority here .i stay in Hyderabad and my native place is a rural place

Even though a rural place i can assert u it's better than delhi in terms of mindset reg women ..i.e it's not a typical rural place shown in movies .

Originally posted by: Shanayass

if i talk about real life...women are the first one to put other women down (not specifically EMA) but generally in everything! I don't know about ur rural area but i am talking about an average perception! Ok..so i pive in delhi..a place which is consodered to be the modernisation centre of the country too..here we find ppl of all types..its like a mini india! But still ppl in delhi actually carry the same perception over things and at times can be quite judgemental too! If any wrongs happen the woman involved is the first one to be questioned! We live in a country where even when rape cases r registered the victim is questioned! So u think a woman having an EMA with a man would be spared! Hell no!

Though extremely pathetic and wrong, veena actually represented the typical indian mentality..the country is surely changing but this thing stll exists!

I recently watched chappak and delhi crimes..quite good both r! I would suggest u to watch them..both deals with diff issues but represent the mentallity of the society..u will understand why i am saying a woman is the first one to think low or jump on another woman!( not everytime though..we females r superheros i believe and can be providers and supporters when requored too❤)

I understand what u say .i dont have Netflix account .chappak movie i will watch .unfortunately some people mindset has yet to change .yes women r enemies of women ..

I heard version of another acid attack women ..in South warangal our own state area .that guy was after her saying all nonsense i love u and the gal rejected him she is a eng college bright student

He just poured acid on her .in society there was severe backlash against them and then govt encountered them in 2 days just like priyanka reddy alias disha case

But even when over whelming jantha are supporting her ..it seems in govt hospital which she was getting treatment some two guys were saying to her on face bcos of her those kids died so there's always a minority scums even here in South .

But difference is overwhelming majority is there just bcos of public pressure govt encountered them .just like in priyanka case

U should have watched videos in priyanka reddy murderrape .when those monsters were being taken to court in govt vehicles ..people in thousands went running in back of vehicles chanting we will kill them ..govt has to bring 6 vehickes so that public won't know in which vehicle they r such is public outburst

Initially they were I police station before going to court .thousands stormed the police station .govt afraid they will break the doors of police station and so they locked the police station from outside and bought extra police force

Bcos of this outrage govt encountered them the rapists