Will Kunal ever take personal responsibility? - Page 2

My only argument is forget abt responsibility .....have both these RV brothers sold their brains for free....there has to be one for Abir and one for Kunal which i hardly find in last few weeks of episodes....

-believed whatever their big ben says n threatens

-believed when mishti said she moved on with nishant

-believed when kuhu said she hates mishti

-believed when big ben asked him to run away from mandap

-believed when big ben threatens to unfold the birth truth

-now i believe they are going to become stalkers and go behind nishant mishti engagement n hence forth

what a lousy and convenient sloppy writing of characters abir n kunal ....they are neither true to their love their family their mother in short to themselves.....

it is called brain and even if it is fictional character in book or TV we as audience except them to think using their brains before reacting ....

sorry for d rant yaar .....

LOLL as expected, in today's epi, Kunal's first instinct was STILL to blame MISHTI and call HER a criminal🤪😆

But Parul's slap seems to have finally done the trick and woken his brain....being disowned by both his brother AND his mother in one day was jhatka enough for his otherwise non-existent brain😆.

Chalo bhai....der aaye, durust aaye.

Good for him that he finally took a decision of his own free will without being coerced by someone.....Meenu or Abir.

I still don't think Kunal regrets what all he's said to Mishti and how he's treated her....he just seems to have finally realized how all this endless sacrificing and choosing between his loved ones was tearing Abir apart so he wants to bring Mishti back for Abir's sake.....lol

Originally posted by: AreYaar

We can only hope. For once, Kunal looked devastated and hurt rather than looking to blame and hate Mishti like he did whenever Abir tried to correct him in the past.

Fundamentally, Kunal is a self absorbed coward. It will take some courage for him to begin to own up to his behavior. I guess he loves Abir in his own way so maybe that love for his brother will save him eventually. What Kunal actually needs to learn is empathy. To look beyond himself and truly understand his brother’s happiness.

True, it's time for kunal to behave like a mature man who have responsibility of handling his relationship with his wife and brother, they both have bear so much because of him, it's time for him to realize that he can't get pampered , he have to realize what grave mistakes he has committed

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOLL as expected, in today's epi, Kunal's first instinct was STILL to blame MISHTI and call HER a criminal🤪😆

But Parul's slap seems to have finally done the trick and woken his brain....being disowned by both his brother AND his mother in one day was jhatka enough for his otherwise non-existent brain😆.

Chalo bhai....der aaye, durust aaye.

Good for him that he finally took a decision of his own free will without being coerced by someone.....Meenu or Abir.

I still don't think Kunal regrets what all he's said to Mishti and how he's treated her....he just seems to have finally realized how all this endless sacrificing and choosing between his loved ones was tearing Abir apart so he wants to bring Mishti back for Abir's sake.....lol

@bold I don’t think Kunal regrets either. Him and his mom have always been after Misti ever since Mishti rejected him and now he has another reason. But this time I think Kunal should apologize to Nishant and then Misti should apologize to Kunal for telling him the secret at a bad time.

Originally posted by: kin8

@bold I don’t think Kunal regrets either. Him and his mom have always been after Misti ever since Mishti rejected him and now he has another reason. But this time I think Kunal should apologize to Nishant and then Misti should apologize to Kunal for telling him the secret at a bad time.

Mishti will have no issues with apologizing....she anyways instantly regretted telling him the secret at that time. Kunal will likely apologize to Nishant soon cuz he's also regretted this drink spiking incident a lot. Whether he ever apologizes to Mishti for the MANY other wrong things he's said and done to her remains to be seen....he might just declare a truce for now since he can see how much Abir needs Mishti😆

But I really enjoyed Abir deleting Kunal's "sorry" message from his phone😈😆.....good for you, Abir. Please don't give in as easily as you usually do to Kunal.😛

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Mishti will have no issues with apologizing....she anyways instantly regretted telling him the secret at that time. Kunal will likely apologize to Nishant soon cuz he's also regretted this drink spiking incident a lot. Whether he ever apologizes to Mishti for the MANY other wrong things he's said and done to her remains to be seen....he might just declare a truce for now since he can see how much Abir needs Mishti😆

But I really enjoyed Abir deleting Kunal's "sorry" message from his phone😈😆.....good for you, Abir. Please don't give in as easily as you usually do to Kunal.😛

Same here. I was really happy when he deleted that text. I was hoping Kunal would properly apologize to Abir in person.

And I’m kinda hoping that Mishti and Kunal can have a proper relationship in future. They should actually try to be friends.
I hope parul will reveal someday how during Mishti and Kunal’s courtship Benba tried to create problems. And brought Naman during Mishti-Kunal GD. Cause technically after that day Kunal started hating Mishti.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

That’s a basic ethics lesson Kunal needs to learn then. Yes, he has been a puppet in Meenu’s hands but he’s crossed the line in many other ways even when Meenu wasn’t putting words in his mouth. I quite remember his disgusting behavior with Mishti in the GD confrontation as well....which he is yet to realize or apologize for since he was too busy being jealous of Abir’s love for her.

So let’s see if he can finally manage some real self introspection about the kind of person he wants to be beyond this childish and self-absorbed love he has for his brother.

Would he have really told the truth on his own to Abir? I think he would have been too scared of Abir’s rightful disgust with him to be able to tell the truth. It was clear in this scene too coz Abir gave him a chance to tell the truth but he lied again cuz he didn’t want his image to be spoilt with Abir.

I also wonder if Kunal would have reacted differently if Abir’s anger had been to defend Mishti rather than this Nishant issue. Maybe Kunal wouldn’t have even felt guilt then. He’s always been blindly jealous of Mishti cuz he resents that she also has Abir’s love and affection. Kunal is fundamentally insecure about Abir. So it was helpful in this case that the issue wasn’t about Mishti and that is why Kunal listened 🤷‍♀️😂

It's not out of jealousy, it comes more from his Male ego , because mishti rejected him and then had a relationship with his brother, normally you so feel bad when a girl rejects you but selects your brother ...but mature people learn to move on , and since maturity lacks in kunal so he made it a revenge game combined with meenu's planning ... later yes there came a situation where he literally asked abir to choose, that was not out of jealousy but kunal wanted to use his last card to separate mishti from their lives

That's your perspective, we both are making assumptions on what he could have done, if he had time , my reasons for saying so were that he was already dealing with his birth truth ( which is not a small thing ) so after some 2 days he for the first time he decided to spy on meenu , he was doubting her intentions and didnt agree on her parivaar ke liye nonsense so I felt with time ...he would have realised his mistakes 😆

Anyways he was back to mishti ki wajah se for a moment but later realized, i know he has a lo g way to go but atleast he decided to keep his ego aside and help abir , took a stand against benba ...the path is long ( and it should be) , but he has selected a right one which is refreshing

Kunal can be a loyal brother, a friend that abir needs in his life !

👍🏼

How he stood by Abeer today, shows a lot of growth and courage. Now if only his 'mothers' stop lying to him, it'll help him a lot.

The problem is ppl expect too much maturity and accountability from the leads at times. Kuhu has been so vile to MIshti yet its somehow Mishti's fault for not understanding her problems/insecurities. Kunal has been such a brat yet its Abir's fault for not understanding why is a petulant child/brat. I mean I don't think Abir or Mishti are without faults. They mess up a lot. Some in character, some out of character. But to hold them accountable for things their siblings did just because they did not apparently get to the root of the problem is really twisted interpretation 😕

Originally posted by: Onyourface

It's not out of jealousy, it comes more from his Male ego , because mishti rejected him and then had a relationship with his brother, normally you so feel bad when a girl rejects you but selects your brother ...but mature people learn to move on , and since maturity lacks in kunal so he made it a revenge game combined with meenu's planning ... later yes there came a situation where he literally asked abir to choose, that was not out of jealousy but kunal wanted to use his last card to separate mishti from their lives

That's your perspective, we both are making assumptions on what he could have done, if he had time , my reasons for saying so were that he was already dealing with his birth truth ( which is not a small thing ) so after some 2 days he for the first time he decided to spy on meenu , he was doubting her intentions and didnt agree on her parivaar ke liye nonsense so I felt with time ...he would have realised his mistakes 😆

Anyways he was back to mishti ki wajah se for a moment but later realized, i know he has a lo g way to go but atleast he decided to keep his ego aside and help abir , took a stand against benba ...the path is long ( and it should be) , but he has selected a right one which is refreshing

Kunal can be a loyal brother, a friend that abir needs in his life !

👍🏼

LOL I already gave Kunal credit for showing some courage yesterday. I guess you didn’t read the rest of my posts in this thread 😆

That said, I still feel jealousy is part of the issue for Kunal. This is not just male ego. He is over possessive about Abir and finds it hard to share him. Each time he is told that Abir loves Mishti so much, or as much as he loves Kunal, the resentment is kind of obvious on Kunal’s face. It’s like a child is when they are told that their fav toy has to be shared with a friend. That is how Kunal is....his entire existence hinges around claiming he loves his brother the most and when he hears of someone else being mentioned as getting that much love from his brother, it pinches him.

There is no other excuse for calling Mishti criminal. His mind is poisoned by jealousy, that is why he always believes the worst about her by default.

Still, his love for Abir seems to be his path to redemption since he is now making that effort for Abir’s sake even if he still doesn’t realize his own mistakes regarding Mishti.

I don’t mind the path being long 😆....as long as there is some dhang ka movement. I give him credit for finally trying to make a decision on his own.

But I still want him to struggle to get forgiveness or he will have no value for it. He is a spoilt brat who gets too many things easily 🤷‍♀️