SidNaaz: Discussion Thread 5 - Page 95

VG is cherishing for SidNaaz and expressing his love for them when sid twisted her arm😆

Originally posted by: One-Of-A-Kind

VG is cherishing for SidNaaz and expressing his love for them when sid twisted her arm😆

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OK what I feel is the main reason of MU between Sidnaaz is that Both have expectations from each other. Right? We see it.

But does both of them say that to each other on face? No! Never! They never do That.

Sid has expectations from Sana that being Close to him, She will not talk to people he don't like. Like he wishes to be the Only one for her. But he doesn't say it clearly to her on her face.

Like he tells her but in circles and Sana from where I am seeing is clearly not getting it. He needs to be clear with her.

Similarly with Sana ,She expects that Sid understands that She isn't really jealous of mahira. She feels bad when she feels that He is giving mahira priority over her. She never says to him, I want to be your first priority. But she never says it to his face.

These two idiots can talk what they want from each other / How much they mean to each other /care for each other to the 3rd person. But not between themselves. Like what are they? And why I like them so much?

They have genuine communication problems, I have said that before and I am gonna say it again. They need to talk between themselves rather than to 3rd person. They need to solve this communication issue otherwise people will take advantage of it time and again.

Also Sid needs to listen Sana when she's saying something regarding what is the problem (Like I am not saying he doesn't listen to her) . Usually in their conversations, She starts to say something but isn't able to say it ,So what does she do? She keeps things inside and This keeps to pent-up inside her and she had breakdowns.

And problem with Sana is that She has a very Limited Vocabulary. Like You need to tell her word, she overuses it. For example, Once someone has put Jealous word in her mind, She overuses it, like in fights nd all, where she actually means insecure or something else. But she will Use jealous. Same is with word Attachment. She overuses it too .

Same is with ILY, main tujhse pyaar karti hoon .

Sid should enlargen her vocabulary and these two need to sort out their communication issues soon, to give us some good sleep.

Alright. My 2 cents.

Sid-Sana-Paras conversation: Sana tells both guys there’s attachment towards Paras and that would always be there. Her expressions are pretty straightforward in the conversation.
There’s surely and purely platonic love there and she misses the bestie time they used to have coz he is a happy go lucky kind. When Sid deflects it and goes to escapist avoidance of the issue at hand and laughingly asks her to go marry Paras then, she is quite composed there as in it’s not even a joke at this point. She notes the avoidance of discussion too. His walking away is also evidence of avoidance due to insecurities.

It takes a very strong guy to understand strong platonic friendships. Sana is hurt that they fight every day on irrelevant things and that he has trust issues and also that he doesn’t enough spend time with her. Obvious he spends time with his team too than just her unlike PaHira.

There is also no doubt there’s love, but can Sid keep up with her needs is a good question at this point. She’s a young girl. If he spent time with her earlier and then switched off due to whatever reasons, she is bound to be affected. Anyways, the bff hi 5 well describes the Sana Paras link. It’s platonic and she feels entertained in a housefull of boring people who do nothing but plot and scheme and fight day in and day out on everything from food to toilet to what not. That is what the Aarti Sana roti talk is on too.


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Evening/Night talk: Sid clarifies his issue was never with her speaking to anyone but that she would be used by them. He’s not happy he specifies. And is sort of done. Sana tries manaoing later, but she is equally tired with all the drama. He says he will sleep only on the other side of the bed or outside! 😳 He’s still bloody cross over Vishal. I laughed at this point. Sorry guys 😆

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Sana- Sid- Aarti morning conversation: This after a morning shot of them in each other’s arms. Feels like they did make up. She’s back to hugging him floppily in the garden area. And he hugs her back too cheerfully 😳 And then there’s an arm twisting of sorts to get her to stop her teasing him with Aarti. Felt overboard. It’s not fine when there’s pain involved. Don’t go that far, dude. You don’t want to come out wrong after your fine position on gender equality.

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All well seemingly at Astrologer scene and Sana’s in high spirits and cuts fun interjections too. Sid’s happy and laughing too 😳

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I am not sure what to make out of all this. Have both realised their core issues? Resolved them? No idea. But they’re smiling. Guess that’s enough for now. USUDs if provided may lend us better sense of how things improved between them.

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Alright. My 2 cents.

Sid-Sana-Paras conversation: Sana tells both guys there’s attachment towards Paras and that would always be there. Her expressions are pretty straightforward in the conversation.
There’s surely and purely platonic love there and she misses the bestie time they used to have coz he is a happy go lucky kind. When Sid deflects it and goes to escapist avoidance of the issue at hand and laughingly asks her to go marry Paras then, she is quite composed there as in it’s not even a joke at this point. She notes the avoidance of discussion too. His walking away is also evidence of avoidance due to insecurities.

It takes a very strong guy to understand strong platonic friendships. Sana is hurt that they fight every day on irrelevant things and that he has trust issues and also that he doesn’t enough spend time with her. Obvious he spends time with his team too than just her unlike PaHira.

There is also no doubt there’s love, but can Sid keep up with her needs is a good question at this point. She’s a young girl. If he spent time with her earlier and then switched off due to whatever reasons, she is bound to be affected. Anyways, the bff hi 5 well describes the Sana Paras link. It’s platonic and she feels entertained in a housefull of boring people who do nothing but plot and scheme and fight day in and day out on everything from food to toilet to what not. That is what the Aarti Sana roti talk is on too.


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Evening/Night talk: Sid clarifies his issue was never with her speaking to anyone but that she would be used by them. He’s not happy he specifies. And is sort of done. Sana tries manaoing later, but she is equally tired with all the drama. He says he will sleep only on the other side of the bed or outside! 😳 He’s still bloody cross over Vishal. I laughed at this point. Sorry guys 😆

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Sana- Sid- Aarti morning conversation: This after a morning shot of them in each other’s arms. Feels like they did make up. She’s back to hugging him floppily. And he hugs her back too cheerfully 😳 And then there’s an arm twisting of sorts to get her to stop her teasing him with Aarti. Felt overboard. It’s not fine when there’s pain involved. Don’t go that far, dude. You don’t want to come out wrong after your fine position on gender equality.

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All well seemingly at Astrologer scene and Sana’s in high spirits and cuts fun interjections too. Sid’s happy and laughing too 😳

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I am not sure what to make out of all this. Have both realised their core issues? Resolved them? No idea. But they’re smiling. Guess that’s enough for now. USUDs if provided may lend us better sense of how things improved between them.

Uma you missed their husband wife convo, she would leave her husband the day he will not pamper her! Not even a day and he replies back saying Marry a servant, still better hire a husband who will do it as task for you 🤦🏻‍♀️
their references are only husband wife words! Not even bf gf

Originally posted by: sandy786

OK what I feel is the main reason of MU between Sidnaaz is that Both have expectations from each other. Right? We see it.

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Sid should enlargen her vocabulary and these two need to sort out their communication issues soon, to give us some good sleep.

Did Sid say that naam tera leti hai, chipakti mujhse hai, to Paras.

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

Uma you missed their husband wife convo, she would leave her husband the day he will not pamper her! Not even a day and he replies back saying Marry a servant, still better hire a husband who will do it as task for you 🤦🏻‍♀️
their references are only husband wife words! Not even bf gf