She was trying so hard to be a good Captain but no one was listening to her. It seemed like they were purposely doing it to annoy her. This is what happens when you blame the Captain for the mistakes of HMs. Bigg Boss blamed Himanshi for not being a good Captain when it was the mistake of HMs to not listen to her, just because their damaad Thukla didn't become Captain.
Now everyone thinks that they will face no repercussions for not listening to the Captain because if Bigg Boss blames the HMs than the Captain this time, then he will come across as a hypocrite.
Shehnaaz is not a part of any group in the 🏠 and also everyone treats her like a kid. That's why they must be finding it embarrassing to take orders from her.