Originally posted by: ishra_bestluv
Wow just because your family doubts your intentions at the start of your marriage you will leave the house. If this happens then half of our country will fall apart, a lot of families live in joint family and there are issues irrespective but they just don’t walk out because of that. The reality that you are referring is not of every house, I agree that people do walkout but not everyone. And it’s absolutely up to the individual to choose, Rohit is happy with his family and Sona is trying to do everything to keep them happy. She will not hurt him by asking him to move out, and a lot of people do that even in the real world.
Sona has always had a perception of a perfect bahu in the face of Parvati and it’s absolutely normal for her to try and behave like one and that’s what the makers are trying to show here. With time and incidents Sona will realise that Parvati is fictional and in reality she can’t keep everyone happy every time but that does not mean she will give up on them. That’s a ridiculous theory. She will soon realise that she has to compromise and more importantly make others compromise if she were to lead a normal happy life. This is her journey and learning of the difference between the reel and real in laws.
PS. Sona is not foolishly believing them, she respects them and more importantly she respects the love Rohit has for them. It’s natural for her to do everything in her capacity to keep the ones important for Rohit to be happy.
Coming to Sippy’s yes it’s wrong of them to blame her outrightly but it’s what happens in reality, this is what always happens. One of their most sensitive issues is out in public, and from their perspective they have no reasons to doubt that Sona is responsible for it. Never forget that their vision of the issue is one dimensional, they know that they all including Sona decided on not sharing with Pooja, they decided to let it pass, they know Sona was giving an interview in the news the same afternoon. Next day out in the paper, circumstances are such that anybody will lose out, they will question her intentions, and why she did what she did. At this point of time it’s difficult for them to think beyond anything. However they should have given her an opportunity to prove herself, may be they will we shall see on Monday. She deserves this opportunity only because of her previous sacrifice with regards to Pooja. She is still new to them. This is what happens in reality.