Babita's Patiala Babes Restaurant - E24 Segment - Page 5

Originally posted by: LTLFan

Now they are financially independent. Modelling se lakhs kamate hai.😆 So mini thinks its ok to leave them. 4.5 yrs ki kid ko aaya ke pass chodenge bec show is different and realistic.

I don't know why they keep insisting on half sister like not a sister. Same mother ki daughter se no attachment. Ok. But feels no responsibility? Arranging aaya means responsibility over? Is it even safe for a child? Doesn't a child that young need a legal guardian? Beeji dadu are not technically relatives even, not even half.

Different dikhane ke chakkar me kuch bhi kar rahe hai.

Yeh abhi bhi modeling kar re hai? 😲

Putting that aside, so what, Minnie thinks that's all they need? Paisa hi sab kuch hai? More than money, what they need is emotional connections, and mental support. In a way, thank goodness that they have Arya in their lives, otherwise it would have been so hollow and empty.

This was another thing that I didn't understand. Does Minnie actually think her responsibilities will end once she has given Arya off to a maid? What about Arya's education? Who's going to take up the responsibility for that? Or being there for her mentally and emotionally? Arya's now an orphan. She's 100% going to be bullied by someone over this when she goes to school. Moreover, ek behan ho kar bhi nahi hai. Imagine what will go through her when she grows up and learns that they both are step sisters. Minnie ne toh typical step families ki tarah kaam kiya na? Parents nayi hai toh kyun rahoon mein tumhare saath?

And who is Arya's legal guardian? It has to be Minnie since she's the only whom Hanita would have trusted Arya with. Yes, it's a lot to ask a 23 year old to be wholly responsible for a five year old. But this is her sister, whether she likes it or not, she's gonna have to step up to the task. If she can't, then loll, I guess that's that.

Originally posted by: Jonsen

Bechara sab kuch kia babita ne aur restaurant explore kara rhi h mini . Mini said hamari saalo ko mehnat rang layi 😎. Btw beautiful interior 👍🏼

Hamari mehnat?? Hamari??? Umm, what?? Minnie ne kya kiya jo yeh credit le ri hai. Get mad at Babes and then leave for Australia? When she comes home, not talk to her mother properly or pick up her calls? But yes, saari mehnat kare Babita, lekin credit Minnie ko hi milna chahiye. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Roopb

It is indeed confusing...

Imarti’s track was during Eid (eid was Aug. 14) NB mentioned that she couldn’t celebrate Eid due to HS ‘s case... and marriage happened end of Aug or in beginning of Sept. after marriage - there was tracks for navratri when hanita planted barley seeds (navratri started sept. 29 and ended Oct. 07) kareachauth (Oct. 17) then dhanteras (Oct. 25) Diwali (Oct. 27)... so mini left after Diwali or may be in Nov

so they were married for approximately 3 months (+/-) when mini left...

if mini left in Nov and came back exactly after 5 years so it should be Nov. when she came back..

So if Aarya is 4.5 years old then babita got pregnant after mini left for Australia....

Loll, iss show ke liye itna dimaag lagane ki zaroorat ni hai. Sab end mein fail hi hone wala hai.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Hamari mehnat?? Hamari??? Umm, what?? Minnie ne kya kiya jo yeh credit le ri hai. Get mad at Babes and then leave for Australia? When she comes home, not talk to her mother properly or pick up her calls? But yes, saari mehnat kare Babita, lekin credit Minnie ko hi milna chahiye. 👍🏼

Kuch nhi bachi josh m aa gyi hogi  🤪 waise bhi jo bhi bolo akele show promote krne ka pressure bhi hota h. Hai toh abhi ashnor choti hi.

Originally posted by: deefy89

I personally saw it more as her wanting to escape due to the memories patiala holds and because those memories aren’t pleasant, they’re not memories she wants to remember. I can understand this. Let’s not forget that she’s still in grief mode also. Is it any surprise she just wants to run away from it all? I don’t think so

Btw babita was being selfish imo. She was selfish in stopping her seeing her own grandparents due to her fear that they may say she’s a bad mother or only focused on her marriage.

I understand the desire to escape, but in this situation, it's not the correct thing to do. If Arya wasn't in the picture, then I wouldn't object to her wanting to leave. Some memories are far too painful and it's best to take a little break to compose oneself and gain a little perspective. However, Arya is there and she has to be taken into consideration. It just won't be right for Minnie to simply leave whilst abandoning that small bacchi.

Post marriage, Babita did so many things that made no sense to me. The whole Khurana fiasco, being suspicious of Mickey, completely giving up on her business and "devoting" herself to HS' love - they all went completely against what she stood for initially.

Still, if we want to stay within the realm of the show, even then it doesn't make sense. When she moved out, she still cared enough about them to go back to the house when Beeji fell ill. She didn't have to advise Dadu but she did when he wanted to go to Haridwar while leaving Beeji behind. Moreover she even baked them a cake and went to them to reconcile their broken relationship with Minnie so that it helped her daughter to come out of depression. Yes, the Khuranas were horrible to her but were they so bad that they she harbors absolutely zero affections for them? Was it still her "helplessness" that made her do all the aforementioned things?

Beeji was vicious to her and Dadu wronged her by keeping quiet the whole time. If Babita didn't want a repeat of that in her newly married life, then it is her choice and she was right to ask for such a thing. If she didn't want Minnie to meet them then she was right to ask for it too. If Minnie objected to it, then she should have put forth her case in a better manner than just calling her mother selfish. As it is, the Khuranas don't really care for Babita save for the fact that she's their connection to Minnie. That's the only value that she holds in their life. If Babita doesn't want to associate herself or keep such people in her life, then she should go for it. If she doesn't want her child to mingle with people who hold such mentality then again, she has the right to ask for it. Wanting your child to not speak to people who humiliated or abused, I don't see that as being selfish.

Originally posted by: Jonsen

Kuch nhi bachi josh m aa gyi hogi  🤪 waise bhi jo bhi bolo akele show promote krne ka pressure bhi hota h. Hai toh abhi ashnor choti hi.

Ashnoor said this? I thought it was Minnie. Either way, ab show ko kissi bhi halat mein promote toh karna hi parega na.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I understand the desire to escape, but in this situation, it's not the correct thing to do. If Arya wasn't in the picture, then I wouldn't object to her wanting to leave. Some memories are far too painful and it's best to take a little break to compose oneself and gain a little perspective. However, Arya is there and she has to be taken into consideration. It just won't be right for Minnie to simply leave whilst abandoning that small bacchi.

Post marriage, Babita did so many things that made no sense to me. The whole Khurana fiasco, being suspicious of Mickey, completely giving up on her business and "devoting" herself to HS' love - they all went completely against what she stood for initially.

Still, if we want to stay within the realm of the show, even then it doesn't make sense. When she moved out, she still cared enough about them to go back to the house when Beeji fell ill. She didn't have to advise Dadu but she did when he wanted to go to Haridwar while leaving Beeji behind. Moreover she even baked them a cake and went to them to reconcile their broken relationship with Minnie so that it helped her daughter to come out of depression. Yes, the Khuranas were horrible to her but were they so bad that they she harbors absolutely zero affections for them? Was it still her "helplessness" that made her do all the aforementioned things?

Beeji was vicious to her and Dadu wronged her by keeping quiet the whole time. If Babita didn't want a repeat of that in her newly married life, then it is her choice and she was right to ask for such a thing. If she didn't want Minnie to meet them then she was right to ask for it too. If Minnie objected to it, then she should have put forth her case in a better manner than just calling her mother selfish. As it is, the Khuranas don't really care for Babita save for the fact that she's their connection to Minnie. That's the only value that she holds in their life. If Babita doesn't want to associate herself or keep such people in her life, then she should go for it. If she doesn't want her child to mingle with people who hold such mentality then again, she has the right to ask for it. Wanting your child to not speak to people who humiliated or abused, I don't see that as being selfish.

I’m sure she will realise that it’s the wrong thing to do to leave Arya. We know that she chooses to stay anyways. I guess we are just seeing the process of what lead to that change?

Just to touch on your point about the grandparents. Yes you’re spot on that it’s babitas choice however the choice she made wasn’t in the best interest of the kid in question. They may have been awful in-laws to babita and she has a right to dislike them but they were good grandparents to mini and we seen how being away from them contributed to her depression and how associating with them again helped with her depression. This is a common issue with broken homes where kids are pushed to and fro and expected to have the same feelings that the parents have. We aren’t talking about a child who’s susceptible to influence here that babita had reason to worry. If anyone spoke a bad word about her babes she wouldn’t stand for it. At 18 it’s mini’s choice whether she wants to mingle with her grandparents or not. It’s not like they were evil ppl.

What we’ve learned from both the mother and daughter is that they’re both emotional af and just blurt things out in haste. Even tho mini speaks about speak practical and that she too has an emotional knee jerk reaction and just speaks without thinking. In the same breath babita should of put forth her reasons for her not wanting mini to associate with her grandparents however she didn’t. Who knows? A conversation could of arose and her insecurities could of been settled. It all boils down to babita not wanting traces of her old life and preferring to settle into this new life (which is her right) however not understanding that mini doesn’t feel the same (rightly so because it’s not her x family like it’s babitas x family).

This is a common problem post divorces/2nd marriages and it’s only a problem when the choices are being made selfishly instead of in the best interest of the kid (like burning HER FATHERS letter also)

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, iss show ke liye itna dimaag lagane ki zaroorat ni hai. Sab end mein fail hi hone wala hai.

Hahah... I remember the dates by heart because I was waiting for the hanita moments for these tracks but kk ruined everything...

Deefy89

Lol.

They started to favour Mini from way back around 150 episodes and here Paridth quite rightly has every right to get angry as they did not honour the agreement that they promised Paridth, who rightly had said that She played the role because it was different and interesting but they did not full it to the full potential and had the PH been honest with her she would have stepped down herself but even in this they cheated her and started to butcher her Character and than suddenly axe her, which is very unprofessional and than her with Ashnoor who was aware all along of this issues, and in trying to be smart shot themselves in the foot as well.

No way is this Season 2 but the serial is carrying on as normal but with references everthing time to HS and Babita and the same dialogues said by Arya, is so stupid as which Child speaks like that. They keep in showing HS and Babita why, even in flash backs its all about Bacheri Mini. Why

There is no story at all and now a repeat of Bacheri Mini who is going to give up her dreams for Arya, history repeats.

Big yawn. Bacheri Mini is still a sulky brat and no way does she look like 23 years, It will be cringeworthy and sick to see her romance at this age.

Its this that the fans are upset with RS and KK to come clean about all this mess.

Originally posted by: LTLFan

Now they are financially independent. Modelling se lakhs kamate hai.😆 So mini thinks its ok to leave them. 4.5 yrs ki kid ko aaya ke pass chodenge bec show is different and realistic.

I don't know why they keep insisting on half sister like not a sister. Same mother ki daughter se no attachment. Ok. But feels no responsibility? Arranging aaya means responsibility over? Is it even safe for a child? Doesn't a child that young need a legal guardian? Beeji dadu are not technically relatives even, not even half.

Different dikhane ke chakkar me kuch bhi kar rahe hai.

'But from a different planet🤣