Okay I wil try to explain my reasoning!!! Please bear with me!!!😊 Here goes.....
Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight
mini i'm only comparing the reasoning of both situation... if she can do things for kuhu n her life why cant abir do this for kunal... thats what i said...
Abir has every right to do anything for Kunal. But my point is mishti didnt chose Kuhu ....she stepped back for the time being. But Abir in reality chose Kunal's pain over Mishti's.
mini actually she decided not to confess to abir n gave up first n chose kuhu n expected abir to understand her n come for her... after doing the haldi khaand and seeing abir trust on her even after that she regretted n wanted to give that one percent chance right... she realized only after doing everything... i only took the choosing part there that is to explain that the reason for break up is comparatively logical than the haldi fiasco... coming to humiliation there it was about family n mishti and here its about mishti n abir...
I agree, Mishti pulling the stunt was stupid and unreasonable and Abir had a better reason. Also its true she was hopeful only after Abir came to her for explaination. But she relented to him is my pt here whereas Abir was obstinate.
But Abir also should know that the truth will come out one day and it is inevitable......so him choosing Kunal over something which is not even guranteed to wrk is something which pricks me!!!
and coming back mish expected to get back she wanted to take chance only after the shaadi happened right... its a short term thing n she expected him to somehow find truth n come for her.. and it was totally in abirs hand to come or not..
That we dnt know......maybe after coming back she would have talked to Abir...plus she left a letter with Jugnu (whats in that letter is still a mystery). The shaadi was priority for her at that time.....cant blame her.....since for Abir also the shaadi was priority ....he stalled his relationship so that Kuku shaadi happens first......they are both similar in that!!!
here its about kunal secret which abir is trying to guard whole life so why will he want to take up the chance.. he wants to let go of mishti entirely not to get back after sometime... its a long term thing so he will not want to go back n he is firm in his decision... it can be solved only if mishti gets to know about the truth about what meenu did n kunal parul thing...
Exactly my point.....him protecting Kunal is temporary....he can only stall Meenakshi for some time ......the truth will come out ..its inevitable. Him letting go of Mishti for something which is not even guarateed is pretty stupid.
Plus the way he broke up with her was kind of distasteful. It could have backfired bigtime.....the thing is everyone takes it for granted that Mishti is strong and could take anything. Just imagine....suppose Mishti's strength is just a front she projects and if Abir's words would have seriously messed her up and if she had done something seriously harmful to herself. Would Abir's reasons suffice for whatever damage he would have done?
The truth would have been so much better!!
The thing is Abir seriously messed up this time and he didn't really think through his decison and the consequences
i dont want mishti to fight with abir to give relationship a second chance .. finding the truth is what is important... the understanding on why abir did this is important.. and then she can make it hard for abir to get back is ok with me.. but abir running behind her before truth is known or mish taunting abir before understanding why he did i dont want both..
What I meant when I said I want Mishti to fight is.....I want her to compel Abir fo tell the truth....not begging for their relationship.....exactly what you have written!!👍🏼
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