Who is at fault? Sid or Aarti - Page 6

I don't think it was Sid's fault...Paras ne arti se argument ki...toh arti be bhi ache se jawab Diya...toh tumhari apsi fight mein Sid kyu aye.

Originally posted by: hasini009

galti dono ka hain.

ek tarfa pyar is indeed painful. Aarti ko pata hai Sid dont love her, but she couldn't suppress her feelings for him. she cant demand love from him but she should not act as doormat of him. Sid ko pata hai Aarti is in love with him. you are not obliged to love her back, but at the same time you are not allowed to disrespect/mock her actions or feelings. afterall she's your friend and stands for you. instead of getting rude to her, have a conversation with her and tell her how you feel about her. like 'we are just friends, nothing else.' and being a human (I hope you are one) dont insult and/or mock someone's feelings and illness

and finally Sid should ask his romantic bachhi to shut her mouth.🤢

what did she say?

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Her love can be one sided and it is her fault for letting it effect her so much. But still Sid is coming out as an insensitive jerk.

Well, he has been insensitive, whatelse can we expect from him.

My two cents on anxiety - people get anxious when they are too worried about their future unnecessarily and too depressed when they worry about things that already happened, so essentially solution for both issues is to live in the moment, besides you are responsible for your happiness, no one else is.

Personally, I dislike SIddharth Shukla, but I won’t really blame him here, as he has never reciprocated to Aartis feelings for him.

Originally posted by: Priya9.

Well, he has been insensitive, whatelse can we expect from him.

My two cents on anxiety - people get anxious when they are too worried about their future unnecessarily and too depressed when they worry about things that already happened, so essentially solution for both issues is to live in the moment, besides you are responsible for your happiness, no one else is.

Personally, I dislike SIddharth Shukla, but I won’t really blame him here, as he has never reciprocated to Aartis feelings for him.

I totally agree but everyone is missing one thing that Arti is anxiety patient, she revealed in one video that she wanted to commit suicide plus she doesn’t have mother, I think she was one when her mother died, so Arti is I think mentally and emotionally not strong enough to take these things

Originally posted by: komal110

I totally agree but everyone is missing one thing that Arti is anxiety patient, she revealed in one video that she wanted to commit suicide plus she doesn’t have mother, I think she was one when her mother died, so Arti is I think mentally and emotionally not strong enough to take these things

Sure but, narcissistic people are mentally ill too, she atleast has an insight into her problems, whereas SIddharth Shukla doesn’t, I haven’t really seen him behave well as a decent human too, so why have expectations from him, is my only point, he was inflicting trauma on Aarthi, it’s like discussing malaria with a mosquito- sorry just remembered this quote on WhatsApp

Aarti should have stayed away fromSS THE moment she sensed he was disrespectful towards her.

It’s just because men don’t like easy girls. They want there to be some sort of challenge

Originally posted by: dondy

It’s just because men don’t like easy girls. They want there to be some sort of challenge

Yes, you are right, the challenge/confidence comes when one is independent and self sufficient. unfortunately she hasn’t really exhibited independent attitude with SS.

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird

From trending everywhere for his romantic Sidra videos to how this 6 footer is in reality.

What a contradiction in one episode.

Thanks for making that romantic imagine of Shukla for camera with rashmi and show how that assh*** is in reality in one episode itself.

Thank you big boss.

Very well said, BB is actually caught trying to make a saint out of a monster by this romantic fiction. Got you BB😆😉

When he use to jump in the fights for his friends, people were like why the hell is he jumping in, when he is doing the opposite even then people have problem. If Arti can go and sit with people whom he don't like than even he can do the same. He went there and he was asked to go out so that's what he did. Yes Sid should have handled her properly like he did with Sana but entirely blaming him is wrong, He use to take a stand for Asim also but now he don't and same is with Arti, the guy got an warning yaar and was asked to refrain from fighting, give him a break.

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

When he went to the room, he was asked to leave and he was blamed for her illness, what he should do? Go again? He went when she was crying and she complained you didn’t support and he said it was nomination and even you said few things to him and you handled him so why should I interfere? Later he went in the night and everyone said go out of the room! Pls watch completely before blaming one person

First when she was crying, he went to her outside, she complained - with haq of a friend - ki tumne meri side nahi li then Sid went into his typical-Sid mode of speaking over a person not allowing her to speak. It was about her pain and her emotions. A true friend and a person with heart would have understood her pain. It was not about the game at that point but about hurt feelings and loneliness.

He was sitting on bed right across from her when he was told ki uski pulse rate increase ho gaya hai. Dushman also gets better treatment and not lines like maine kisi ko god nahi liya.

Arti is at fault for being so dependent and trusting on this man and bond where none existed from his side. And Paras is onetime common enemy. Sid may have cleverly discarded old friends and moved on but silly Arti was expecting some loyalty.

See, we may differ on what we saw and how we perceive it. Logic or no logic but I only saw the human dimension of it. And Arti crying was more a cry for help and her already tenuous mental state was evident. Sid not responding to that cry - and not the crying - was height of callousness