Who is at fault? Sid or Aarti - Page 5

Arti is at fault, when she clearly said she was playing solo why does she want Sid to fight for her. Before Sid had a different relationship with her when he fought against Dey but lately they have drifted apart so it seemed really weird that she made it all about Sid. The fight was not even that big and she very nicely gave it back to Paras ..not sure why she made it soo big and that too in episodes..attack before task and attack after task and very normal in the task of making that video

she is going nuts being stuck in the house and is in one sided love relationship. Sid has never given her any false hopes and in fact has never spoken politely also. Not sure why she is having anxiety attacks over such a small thing and for a guy who clearly doesn’t like her..

Good post Sabhayata. I think both are at fault. Aarti for behaving like her life depends on Sid's validation. And Siddharth for being such an insensitive, narcissistic prick.

Personally, I feel very bad for Aarti as panic attacks are not common. If she is genuinely having anxiety attacks, then she is having insecurities for a long time and yesterday was just the breakdown. She has I guess noticed Siddharth's non-appreciation for a long time and finally yesterday's conversation got her to that point. I guess she is weak in mind.

I try to give the benefit of doubt to Shukla group so much, try to like them but Everytime come up short. I just can't like them especially him and Sana.

Frankly speaking, Arti is more at fault here just cz of her expectations. Shukla has always treated her like this. Yesterday I felt Arti could have turned out to be a good player had she knew where to draw the line. Someone needs to make her understand where is she going wrong and how she should never compromise with her self respect. She should stop underestimating herself and needs to realize that she is quite strong & doesn't needs to depend on others so much. Shukla's behavior was inhumane . He came out to be insensitive . He could have just helped her in calming down instead of treating her like that at that particular moment as a friend at least, they are good friends, isn't it?

Both but this isn't first time happening with her. You do mistake once Learn from it. If you are doing it again and getting treated badly by the person again and again, then you are stupid, nothing else. He is not her husband, not boyfriend, not family member, then why she interferes in his matters. He said it straight away that don't interfere in his matters, then why she does all this. If it's love, then, siddharth is not the last man on this earth. She is behaving as abla Nari now. Girls should be strong and independent getting treated by a man like this, it's unacceptable. I am sorry, but I didn't feel bad for her. She is responsible for this. Losing your self respect again and again is not acceptable. Sid was right yesterday. He doesn't feel for her and said it on her face. That's it.

Obviously Arti.When Sid fights everyone complains and when he don't again everyone complains.So what will he do??

Aarti should stand for herself.After yesterday I did not like Sid at all

Those Friends who stood by him he is ditiching them for the other

people who are using him. Paras and Mahira know that by siding

with Sid they can go far. Hate Sid and Like Arti who is actually showing

who his true friends are.

From a long term view it's arti, no doubt she is a very loyal friend but she is very attached to sid and expects too much from him. Plus the jealousy from sana and sid giving asim and sana more priority over her. Everything has added up. I feel bad for Arti but there isn't much sid can do here.

I do think sid could have been nicer when she was crying but he says exactly what he feels irrespective of how the other person would feel about it because he doesn't keep things inside and it's better to be clear instead of building up false hopes that would hurt more later.

Sid has been this way forever and there was never a very strong bond between them like sid has with sana/asim.

Also Paras wasn't the reason this was Arti's buildup regarding sid that came out like this.

It’s aarti fault, she’s expecting Sid to fight her battles. All the women are independent whether it’s mahira, Devo, rashmi, sana have fought their own battles alone without a friend helping them. Aarti thinks Sid is a lover so she wants him to defend her

Arti. She has been treated so badly by a guy still her whole life revolves around him. Even that one sided love or liking is fine. But it is her misguided expectation that he will stand up for her making herself believe that he has been putting her down due to apnapan.

I really dont mind that Shukla didnt comfort her when she was crying the first time. She seems to have become a suffocating presence for him. He knows if he gives one sign she would cling to him at all times again.

Where he could have shown some empathy was when she left the bedroom. His 'maine kisiko god nehi li hai' or 'usko anxiety hai' is a very blunt way where he could have softened his stand. When he started arguing with Asim after Asim just told him what he knew, I kind of felt Asim understands the issue and wasnt blaming Shukla for his behaviour.

galti dono ka hain.

ek tarfa pyar is indeed painful. Aarti ko pata hai Sid dont love her, but she couldn't suppress her feelings for him. she cant demand love from him but she should not act as doormat of him. Sid ko pata hai Aarti is in love with him. you are not obliged to love her back, but at the same time you are not allowed to disrespect/mock her actions or feelings. afterall she's your friend and stands for you. instead of getting rude to her, have a conversation with her and tell her how you feel about her. like 'we are just friends, nothing else.' and being a human (I hope you are one) dont insult and/or mock someone's feelings and illness

and finally Sid should ask his romantic bachhi to shut her mouth.🤢