Bigg Boss 13: Daily Discussion Thread- 25-11-2019 - Page 112

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

yes I agree, when Paras nominated Arti he just told her that she is confused, but Arti crosses the line and when Paras raises the issue about her unhygienic habits she was offended and what support did she expect in that argument?

Yes it was a nomination. Not a boxing match. Each has every right to nominate and give their reason. Aarti may be is on a high seeing paras getting bashed from all quarters. Thought chalo yahaan mein bhi score kar leti hoon.

Aarti bdowm has absolutely nothing to do with paras insults in my view . It is all to get sidd kaa attention. This was all a trigger. If not in this nomination task, this wld have come out in other task.

Originally posted by: kurkure26

Acha hai sid didn't involve himself in sana vs asim fight as both are closest to him

Its like sid wants to keep low profile for few days that's he has become friends with everyone except shefali and himanshi

Exactly. He has had enough of it I guess now. He cant make them like each other . But he himself like both. So he has given up. Lado ekdoosre se mujhe kyaa. Why to pick sides.

Originally posted by: Sakina3

Siddharth Shukla is a POS.

I don’t think Arti is in love with him, I think she just wants equality and respect in their friendship. She’s seen how he treats Shehnaz with respect and knows that he is capable of doing so, but he doesn’t bother to give her any respect - And due to becoming too attached before realising this, she has expectations - that he does for her what she does for him. So she gets affected when those expectations aren’t met.

If she has a history of anxiety - (and for some people anxiety is not something that goes away, it’s there for life, people use different methods to keep it under control. They can’t stay sheltered forever without experiencing stuff in life, they have to go out there, knowing that emotional turmoil or experiences may trigger an attack but that they’ll get through it, it’s an ongoing continuous battle) - then this is something that’s really got to her, that a friendship she’s given to, been loyal towards, has been so one-sided.

I hope she is able to completely cut away from him. I don’t believe for one second that when a friend is being so loyal to you and giving so much to the friendship, one doesn’t realise it. Shukla just wants to take it all without feeling any guilt or the need to reciprocate. It’s why when she questions him on an expectation, he doesn’t reflect but goes on a guilt-ridden attack.

Today, the behaviour of not going to comfort her, talk to her nicely or be there for her, was just inhumane - and what was even more ghatiya was that he seemed only interested in trying to shift the blame that he was the cause of it.

Hey Sakina! 🤗

I can't believe am saying this but - Shukla wasn't totally wrong. I personally felt Aarti was handling the fight with Paras just fine. They both were yelling and dishing out. So him intervening was really not necessary IMO. Not during the fight anyway.

But the guy really really really doesn't know how to console. I remember this one time I think it was Sana who was crying, he came and said "Chup Ho Ja. Mat Ro. I said Mat Ro." Like uske command pe rona band karde. This isn't something specific for Aarti. (That Dey wala fight task mein if am remembering correctly) Even once before when Aarti was crying in the washroom regarding not being Queen he'd just told "Itna kya ro rahi hain. Koi Rajya nahi milega. Sirf ek toilet milne wala hain"

In general the guy can't console. Can't empathise/sympathise maybe and that makes him uncomfortable with tears leading him to act all gruff and BS. That's probably what is coming across as insensitive. I don't say he shouldn't learn. Cause he needs to. But he's been consistently like this It's not a new development. The thing he could've done is walked off when he realised she was getting worked up and gone back later when she was more settled to talk. Not when everyone was crowding her during the night wala attack. Sometime before that. In the midst of the crying she was having difficulty forming words and continuing to argue. It was difficult to watch. And then the guy again took some "Dimaag" wala dig. So obviously the whole scene was just terrible.

But all in all, Aarti needs to take care of herself. Her expectations and well being can't be centred around one person. It's an immense amount of responsibility. And if someone is unwilling, putting them in such a position is just uncomfortable. Hope she got the help she required yesterday.

I remember last season when Shiv wanted to talk to a Psychiatrist and BB kept delaying and he tried to scale the wall to get out. For TRPs they exploit the contestants and delay help. That is messed up.

saw the full episode. Taking back my words about Aarti

Sabka EQ different hota hai. Aarti ko anxiety issue hai. Sid ko bhi anger management problem hai . There are reports that he had counseling. My guess is Sid can do only this much . He i think dont know how to handle someone when one is crying. Not a good quality but he is like that.

Woshayad khud rota nahi hai jyaada kabhi so he doesnt know ki aise situation mein kaise deal karte hain.

There are many ppl who are like that . That doesn't mean they are insensitive. Everyone has a diff approach .

Obv there will be exception like sana or even asim in some way. Cos he has a special connection. There are friends and best friends. Ppl are diff with diff ppl . And there is no logic in it. Kisi ke saath accha bond hai to wo alag ho jaata hain

What I see is aarti desperately trying to have that special bond which sid is not interested to have

Whatever said and done .. chemistry toh aag hai Sid S and Rashmi mein !

Originally posted by: Ashhima3

So she is committed and it’s not less than being engaged

It's her choice right. Srishti rode was also committed

Originally posted by: TeenRose1

Ofc not one thread..five threads minimum..fifteeen max!

She will be called vampire, Daayan and all of the worst names.

I will not go down to that level. It's not that I can't give worst names for Asim. But I haven't till now. I will definitely criticize him.

Lo ji . Himanshi ko bhi feelings aa rahi hain🤪. Now dont tell me asim pyaar mein nahi hai😆 . Kal shukla ne sahi bola tha.

ab ye game haibyaa real, pick ur choice.

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Originally posted by: TheLastCarnival

Hey Sakina! 🤗

I can't believe am saying this but - Shukla wasn't totally wrong. I personally felt Aarti was handling the fight with Paras just fine. They both were yelling and dishing out. So him intervening was really not necessary IMO. Not during the fight anyway.

But the guy really really really doesn't know how to console. I remember this one time I think it was Sana who was crying, he came and said "Chup Ho Ja. Mat Ro. I said Mat Ro." Like uske command pe rona band karde. This isn't something specific for Aarti. (That Dey wala fight task mein if am remembering correctly) Even once before when Aarti was crying in the washroom regarding not being Queen he'd just told "Itna kya ro rahi hain. Koi Rajya nahi milega. Sirf ek toilet milne wala hain"

In general the guy can't console. Can't empathise/sympathise maybe and that makes him uncomfortable with tears leading him to act all gruff and BS. That's probably what is coming across as insensitive. I don't say he shouldn't learn. Cause he needs to. But he's been consistently like this It's not a new development. The thing he could've done is walked off when he realised she was getting worked up and gone back later when she was more settled to talk. Not when everyone was crowding her during the night wala attack. Sometime before that. In the midst of the crying she was having difficulty forming words and continuing to argue. It was difficult to watch. And then the guy again took some "Dimaag" wala dig. So obviously the whole scene was just terrible.

But all in all, Aarti needs to take care of herself. Her expectations and well being can't be centred around one person. It's an immense amount of responsibility. And if someone is unwilling, putting them in such a position is just uncomfortable. Hope she got the help she required yesterday.

I remember last season when Shiv wanted to talk to a Psychiatrist and BB kept delaying and he tried to scale the wall to get out. For TRPs they exploit the contestants and delay help. That is messed up.