why it hapens to me

hellow all
i generlly visit this section
and this is my second topic
...
first one was wen i was in very much problem with my ex bf.. i was trying to hold the relation ship
but i failed.. in that relationship

he was sweet simple but i was not his kinda gurl
we r now frends....

but wen he was in my life i have only one frend who knws me..my problem
he is in my colg...
my batch mate...

i told him every thing about my ex bf.
and he was just there for me every time
when i had a brudal breakup.. he was there for me..
i stopped living in dreams starts hating my life..but he was the one who make me come back in life..

when i got my bf.. meine apne frend ko masti me propose kia tha.he said no becoz he loves someone else..
i said ok


but then jab mera breakup huua
and he was close to me.. i got lil bit feelings for him..but scared to tell him...

on my bday he was the one who wished me firstly.. at 12am.. my bf didnt wished me at 12...
it always happens to me... ki jab meine apne boy frend ko expect karti thi but oske jgha mera frend hota tha..

new year pe bhi jab i want to wish my bf first.. but dont knw its a mircal ki meine osse morning me phne karke wish kia... he was the first one i wished....


my frends thought ki mein osse pyaar karne lgi hu so they started teasing me for him


on rose day
i thought ki woh mujhe yellow rose dega becoz i m his gud frend.. but he gave me red rose...
i felt sppl that time.. becoz osne apni sari frends ko yellow rose dia tha...

after rose day
i gave him pink rose on choclate day...
on choclate day we all frends spend our full day in park...
whole day he was trying to sit beside me..
trying to hold my hand..
and on dat day he gave me red heart ballon...

after that i decide to forget my ex bf.. and try to be his gf ... my best frend trying her best to convence him...

one day in frustration he said yes.. i was shocked..but i knew that he was not saying by his heart..
he calls me in same park we was taking about this realtion ship
he said that i cant be ur bf becoz i love my old love
i said be my frend i will give u my love
he said i dont want to ruin ur life...
then i was cross questioning him
and baaton batton me osne bata dia ki he loves me...
jis jis spl time me osne kia woh sab sach tha.. he got feelings for me...
but he cant be mine...
and after say this he went out frm the park..
oske baad oska brother aay mere pass and he said he is already enagaged thats y hes not saying yes... 😭
that was the moment ki mein oss time aapne aap ko kaise samhala..
i wasnt cryiing that time.. he came back in park and i contiously staring at him....


now a days..
we spend moment with each other as a frend..
but jo hua oske baad i broke down..
he was infront of me.. i cant forget that time
meine osse dur rehna shuru kar dia..
we was bestest buddies jo colg me ek dusre ke bina nhi rehte the woh aaj alag alag rehte hia..
we stopped had lunch with each other..
stopped had fun with each other..

mein osse baat karna chati ho
fir se hasna chati ho
bolna chati ho
but i dont have gutts now...
mein apne exbf ko aise bula pai becoz we wasnt frm same place town..i was in delhi
and he was in ludhiana...
soo it was ok type ki jo hua osse bula pai...
but now
kaise ab karo yeh sab
kaise baat karo
plzz helpp me out
i want to talk to him

i think u should post this in advise corner😛

anyways write a letter 😉 or send him an e-mail 😆 datz da easiest way 😆

well it's ok to be sad.
do give urself time to cry about this, to be sad about this. get it out of ur system...when ppl say "oh don't cry"...it doesn't work. you need to get it out of ur system.

so he's already engaged...well you have to talk to him about the situation first.

Does he have the guts to break off the engagement? Then and only then should you move forward or dwell on this guy.

But whatever the case is, it seems as if both you guys are hurting, so it would be best to cry/talk about this together...and see what you guys can do.
If he can't break the engagement, then you guys should part ways. Because it may become difficult int he future as both you share the same feelings.
Time heals all.

Just flow with the time...i'm sure there's something there in your destiny. maybe it's him, maybe it's someone else. but don't lose hope.

actually i am really sad after reading this story. do you have his email or phone number? if he loves you than i think he should break off the engagement. i mean if he is not gonna be happy with the other girl why you guys are ruining three peoples lives? he should come to you instead marrying someone else and love you. wht you think i hope it did help. if you need more help than just PM me i'll try to help you. for this i might give you more advice on this pretty soon. GOOD LUCK

i think that you should talk to him because in the en some one is going to get really hurt and that's not fair for the other person, send him a eamil

i think u should hv told him that u love him if cant say by face u should hv given him a card .. bc he thinks that u just think him as a good friend...

Originally posted by: *Simran*

i think u should hv told him that u love him if cant say by face u should hv given him a card .. bc he thinks that u just think him as a good friend...

😕 i told u naa..
i told him everything i told him i love him
he said he loves me
but cant go against his parents beco they r the one who bring him in this world...
he cant cheat with his parents..


and i m saying
ki iwant to be his best frend again.. do that fun that we had before when we were best frends,,
but ater all these things i dont have gutts to tell him come back... 😭 😭 😭

Originally posted by: bestbestof1966

actually i am really sad after reading this story. do you have his email or phone number? if he loves you than i think he should break off the engagement. i mean if he is not gonna be happy with the other girl why you guys are ruining three peoples lives? he should come to you instead marrying someone else and love you. wht you think i hope it did help. if you need more help than just PM me i'll try to help you. for this i might give you more advice on this pretty soon. GOOD LUCK

yaar i cant do anything becoz he trust me more than him self..he think i m the one who make his life beautiful...he said we have 3 long year in which where we can spend our wonderful moments... so we can all remember that.. by happiness

and about that gurl...she is sweet.
yaar i dont want to break their house...
i just want ki hum dono baatein karna shuru kar de.. becoz he is the one where i share all the problem...
u knw
he is not coming colg after holi.. becoz he haing exams after that..
i meseged me last night ki tum to mujhe bhul joage... he said ki ache doston ko nhi bhula jata...
i said ki mein to dost nhi ho parai ho..
he said but still u r my heart beat and my spl frend...