Paras knows how to make enemies into friends and Shukla the opposite - Page 4

Originally posted by: sunshine333

Yea it really sucks to give up on a fave but I can’t look past this glaring flaw anymore. Specially when keeping myself in Artis shoes I feel really bad for her.

Yeah i don't know why Aarti puts up wid it. If they are actually dt gud frnds she should stand tell him off when he insults her . Aarti really needs to stand up for herself.

Originally posted by: sahisri

1.See voot unseen where he said to sana that he was with rashmi only for game.this is after ttf

2.during ttf he n mahira bitching about rashmi

3.during last WKW he told to sana that she is his second preference but he said to rashmi promising on his mother that sh eis second preference after mahira

4.Paras wants himanshi and sana issue to settle and play the game without dragging outside issues then why he didnt told to rashmi same instead asking her to cry or bring shukla past issues out??

Paras is just using friends be it mahira,sana or anyone else....he might not be rude on face but he is back bitching about them

Shukla is arrogant to everyone even to his frnds it is clearly visible....fake bond I felt only with sana....shukla expects everyone to listen to him

Bang on points 👍 ..

only one thing ..I personally felt from Shukla side* he actually genuinely felt close bond with Sana just like Asim... from Sanas side I don’t know anymore.

Paras ne ek gandha selfish game khela hai..

Sid ne hamesha stand by kiya for Shenaz.. always played for Arti and Asim..wo lunch task mein.. Sid could have asked Arti to deliver lunches to him.. but no.. he withdrew from game .. Sid ne kaha Arti n Sana ki to deliver sab lunches to Asim..

even rose task.. wo bhi Arti aur Asim ke liye khela..

even saanp seedi bhi dostho ke liye khela..

ab ye sab mein Sid ne benefit tho nahi kiya

friends ko ye sab yaad nahi hai tho Sid ki kya galathi..

agar mahan hai tho preach karna chahiye.. na Paras mahan hai na Asim mahan hai..

Originally posted by: bbsai

off topic comment here..

IMO...Asim kudh does not know how to talk.. ye kya sikhayega Sid ko kaise talk/behave kare..

While Shulka sat at dining table to help Asim with Arhan n Paras... all Asim could think of was telling Shenaz ki wo kaise uske friendship deserve nahi karthi.. in that goes n includes Shukla n Arti..

Asim got enough feedback from outside.. he thinks he is winner already.. so ek right moment dhek ke dosth pe chad gaya first..Asim knows Sid is strong.. tho abb Shukla pe chad raha hai..

Shukla better play alone..

today's episode Asim rude tha first..Paras Mahira bhi has rahe the.. then Sid ne Arti pe vent out kiya.. then in apologetic manner he told Arti to go ahead with her POV...

@TM... BB game dosth/rishta bana ne ki jagah nahi hai..last season behan hi bada dhoka de di Sreesanth ko..

I am not saying Asim's behaviour is gud. But den none of his frnds tell him dt.....how the hell is he supposed to know where he is wrong ??? He thinks anyone who says anything wrong about him is his enemy . He treats Sid like a big bro. .....den Sid should tell him when he is wrong.....but instead he jumps in and fyts .

You can't seriously say that Shukla is doing everything right. He may be the strongest player in the house but he needs to treat his fellow human beings as equals.

About the dining table thing. Yes Asim was at fault. But did Shukla tell him dt ??? No . When you don't object den it means you agree to it.

And No Shukla was not at all apologetic to Aarti. It was sarcastic . I don't support Aarti wholeheartedly in this either.....cause she needs to stand up for herself. Whatever the reason Shukla Ji had ......it was wrong of him to be dt disrespectful to someone who shows you nothing but respect.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I am not saying Asim's behaviour is gud. But den none of his frnds tell him dt.....how the hell is he supposed to know where he is wrong ??? He thinks anyone who says anything wrong about him is his enemy . He treats Sid like a big bro. .....den Sid should tell him when he is wrong.....but instead he jumps in and fyts .

You can't seriously say that Shukla is doing everything right. He may be the strongest player in the house but he needs to treat his fellow human beings as equals.

About the dining table thing. Yes Asim was at fault. But did Shukla tell him dt ??? No . When you don't object den it means you agree to it.

And No Shukla was not at all apologetic to Aarti. It was sarcastic . I don't support Aarti wholeheartedly in this either.....cause she needs to stand up for herself. Whatever the reason Shukla Ji had ......it was wrong of him to be dt disrespectful to someone who shows you nothing but respect.

at dining table.. Shukla ne 2 baar kaha tha Asim ko ki "waha math jao" (meaning wo topic pe math jao)

Asim could tell Shukla.. but not where Paras and Mahira audience hai.. jab Asim ki baari aayi tho Shukla humesha sab se door leke jaake bol tha hai..

Shukla ka faults hai.. par no way that can be used to justify Paras n Asim.

hope Salman wkend pe Shukla to lecture de for his good..

edit: corrected typo

Originally posted by: sunshine333

I see what you are saying and I agree in parts.. I realize no human is perfect but my problem is the thing thats wrong with him is just absolutely unacceptable for me. If someone is genuinely caring, protective, honest with me but constantly disrespects me I will be sad but have to cut that person off (except in case of a family member because with family you have to suck it up no matter what). I would find a friend who has other “acceptable” minuses that I personally can deal with better.
You can find quality friends who don’t disrespect you. Like Arti shouldn’t HAVE to stand up to shukla constantly. She has pointed it out to him so many times directly/indirectly to not be so harsh with her but he continues to do so.

If I know my “friend” keeps on repeating HURTFUL behavior then he is not really my friend is he. Even if he cares and is there is for me, for me it is emotionally damaging, suffocating and toxic to me to continue the friendship. Respect is a non negotiable in any relationship specially in ones which are not bound by blood and there is a way out.

I have a slightly diff take. Respect is subjective . We see it from our POV. Two ppl have their own version of respect and its between them . What behaviour they want to ignore. What to take as hurt

See it is very easy to make fship, break them . It's very difficult to.maintain it.

And I always value fship above anyone else. That's the only relation u make out of choice. And I believe once u have made a choice knowing what and how a person is, go through it and stick.

Shukla aisa hi tha shuru se sabko pata hai. Aarti to usse baahar se jaante hai

No where saying what sid does is good. But that doesnt mean he shouldn't or cant have friends . Real friends stick together . Cos they know ur both sides.

Originally posted by: bbsai

at dining table.. Shukla ne 2 baar kaha tha Asim ko ki "waha math jao" (meaning wo topic pe math jao)

Asim could tell Shukla.. but not where Paras and Mahira audience hai.. jab Asim ki baari aayi tho Shukla humesha sab se door leke jaake bol tha hai..

Shukla ka faults hai.. par no why that can be used to justify Paras n Asim.

hope Salman wkend pe Shukla to lecture de for his good..

First toh I never justified Paras or Asim.i just said I liked dt Asim told him where he was going wrong. Galat kare toh bash karte Hain .....toh Sahi kaam pe thodi tarif toh Banti hai.

Paras toh.....I never justified him. Thing is he isn't aggressive and he keeps his cool. Probably one of the reason.....ders not much hatred for him.

@ bold : Maine pehle bhi Kaha hai I need subtitles for Shukla Ji🤔. Jokes apart .....I don't know if he actually meant dt...may be he did.....but the way he speaks doesn't convey it. It felt kind of mocking to me.....but dts just my perception I guess .

Both of them using others on d name of friendship.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

First toh I never justified Paras or Asim.i just said I liked dt Asim told him where he was going wrong. Galat kare toh bash karte Hain .....toh Sahi kaam pe thodi tarif toh Banti hai.

Paras toh.....I never justified him. Thing is he isn't aggressive and he keeps his cool. Probably one of the reason.....ders not much hatred for him.

@ bold : Maine pehle bhi Kaha hai I need subtitles for Shukla Ji🤔. Jokes apart .....I don't know if he actually meant dt...may be he did.....but the way he speaks doesn't convey it. It felt kind of mocking to me.....but dts just my perception I guess .

pata hai ki aap Paras ya Asim ko support nahi kiya.. that is why I wrote off topic..only quoted ur post kyu ki Asim ka topic tha waha ..

Asim ki correction galat nahi hai.. par wo kaha kar raha hai.. kisko display kar raha hai.. wo galat hai..

again .. IMO.. Asim knows his popularity outside...he definitely hyper now..Asim knows Sid's popularity.. some how.. Asim ka game is all about mard bann aur dominate.. he is trying that with Shukla....

Originally posted by: intruderfast

I have a slightly diff take. Respect is subjective . We see it from our POV. Two ppl have their own version of respect and its between them . What behaviour they want to ignore. What to take as hurt

See it is very easy to make fship, break them . It's very difficult to.maintain it.

And I always value fship above anyone else. That's the only relation u make out of choice. And I believe once u have made a choice knowing what and how a person is, go through it and stick.

Shukla aisa hi tha shuru se sabko pata hai. Aarti to usse baahar se jaante hai

No where saying what sid does is good. But that doesnt mean he shouldn't or cant have friends . Real friends stick together . Cos they know ur both sides.

Sorry for intruding.

I agree people choose their friends knowing everything about them . I'm not saying Shukla can't hv frnds or Aarti shouldn't be frnds wid him.

But I believe if you are true frnds then you hv got every ryt to stand up to your frnds when they are wrong. True frnds tell their friends where and when they are wrong.......dts the only way they will know where they are going wrong. Frndshp doesn't mean you only agree wid frnds.........you disagree and fyt....but at the end of the day frndshp remains.