Suman & Sona talk about Sex Education - Kudos to Sandip Sinkand.. - Page 4

Originally posted by: jasminerahul

I didn't say that girls as not aware of it in this era.in India in most of the schools sex education is not given.but its also true that in some schools they take class on not to get intimate with boys in teenage.bcz in India still most of the parents hesitate to discuss such things with their daughters.so they can't tell it easily at home like you said

I don't think any parent hesitates in India ..to tell gals not go with boys

Father's say to boys and mom says to gals it's common .it has nothing to do with sex .they just say ..u have come to age ...don't roam with boys

.even 40 years before ..u f speaking now lol

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

I don't think any parent hesitates in India ..to tell gals not go with boys

Father's say to boys and mom says to gals it's common .it has nothing to do with sex .they just say ..u have come to age ...don't roam with boys

.even 40 years before ..u f speaking now lol

U need to understand that just because you have one perspective the other person will also have the same perspective..

In India there are lot of conservative families who don't allow girls to go out with guys.. Or to even talk to them... Just because you don't think that doesn't turn the reality upside down.. Sections of our society especially in the eastern belt and haryana and Rajasthan.. Girls are still being treated as objects rather than humans..

Sex education is not available to everyone in rural areas.. Apart from families who earn decent enough.. Even after having phones... They know about sex and all but the right information and right knowledge is not provided to them.... Many teachers skip that bio chapter asking them to read it by themselves..

Sex education is still NOT common in India.. Just because we live in cities and have a wider access to information.. That doesn't mean it's the same with entire country....

Ps: I think u should learn to accept others opinions instead of just going on and on.... ( I may sound very rude and I am really sorry for that) u maybe right in your place but try and have a look from others perspective too.. They aren't wrong either

Originally posted by: sohit-mishbir

U need to understand that just because you have one perspective the other person will also have the same perspective..

In India there are lot of conservative families who don't allow girls to go out with guys.. Or to even talk to them... Just because you don't think that doesn't turn the reality upside down.. Sections of our society especially in the eastern belt and haryana and Rajasthan.. Girls are still being treated as objects rather than humans..

Sex education is not available to everyone in rural areas.. Apart from families who earn decent enough.. Even after having phones... They know about sex and all but the right information and right knowledge is not provided to them.... Many teachers skip that bio chapter asking them to read it by themselves..

Sex education is still NOT common in India.. Just because we live in cities and have a wider access to information.. That doesn't mean it's the same with entire country....

Ps: I think u should learn to accept others opinions instead of just going on and on.... ( I may sound very rude and I am really sorry for that) u maybe right in your place but try and have a look from others perspective too.. They aren't wrong either

I am not saying sex education is taught commonly in schools ..all over India ..I already mentioned In one of my post ..closely guarded societies gals getting married at 16or 17 ..they need sex education from mother or who ever

What I am saying is this joke Mumbai tv star 29 yr old sex education ..potraying her as virgin .never kissed never touched by 4 years bf about to get married .is an unhealthy potrayal and damn unrealistic ..

Well I think the issue is not about sonakshi knowing anything about it or not , the thing is , before marriage, it's a good thing that a mother opened up about this thing to her daughter...that was a good message sent..that parents discuss these things ..they must.. at the right age and the right time..

yes.parents tell their daughters not to go with boys.but most of the parents do not tell openly that they should not have sex with their boy friends openly.but in such classes in school they tell that openly through various incidents

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

I don't think any parent hesitates in India ..to tell gals not go with boys

Father's say to boys and mom says to gals it's common .it has nothing to do with sex .they just say ..u have come to age ...don't roam with boys

.even 40 years before ..u f speaking now lol

completely agree with you.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Well I think the issue is not about sonakshi knowing anything about it or not , the thing is , before marriage, it's a good thing that a mother opened up about this thing to her daughter...that was a good message sent..that parents discuss these things ..they must.. at the right age and the right time..

completely agree with you

Originally posted by: sohit-mishbir

U need to understand that just because you have one perspective the other person will also have the same perspective..

In India there are lot of conservative families who don't allow girls to go out with guys.. Or to even talk to them... Just because you don't think that doesn't turn the reality upside down.. Sections of our society especially in the eastern belt and haryana and Rajasthan.. Girls are still being treated as objects rather than humans..

Sex education is not available to everyone in rural areas.. Apart from families who earn decent enough.. Even after having phones... They know about sex and all but the right information and right knowledge is not provided to them.... Many teachers skip that bio chapter asking them to read it by themselves..

Sex education is still NOT common in India.. Just because we live in cities and have a wider access to information.. That doesn't mean it's the same with entire country....

Ps: I think u should learn to accept others opinions instead of just going on and on.... ( I may sound very rude and I am really sorry for that) u maybe right in your place but try and have a look from others perspective too.. They aren't wrong either

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014

I am not saying sex education is taught commonly in schools ..all over India ..I already mentioned In one of my post ..closely guarded societies gals getting married at 16or 17 ..they need sex education from mother or who ever

What I am saying is this joke Mumbai tv star 29 yr old sex education ..potraying her as virgin .never kissed never touched by 4 years bf about to get married .is an unhealthy potrayal and damn unrealistic ..

It is not about sonakshi getting educated.. It's about a mother opening to her kid about such matters which most parents don't do.. It was an initiative to initiate the conversation between a parents and children about sex because no one other than them can give the right information first..

Secondly it is a GIRLS' WISH if she wishes to stay virgin before marriage.. Let it be any kind of close relationship... It is her damn wish and IT IS NOT UNHEALTHY OR UNREALISTIC.. there people for whom emotions and connectivity to soul matters and it is ok if she doesn't want to do anything before marriage.. I mean why can't someone respect a girls wish.. Now that's called consent.. Stopping when when your girl says no for that matter be it a boy or girl.. Ur partners' consent should be the top priority..

U know deepika and ranveer never stayed in a live in relationship... It was confessed by her itself.. What deepika rightly said nd I agree with her cent per cent is if you do everything before marriage what would be left to explore between each other after marriage . .

Why can't you take time to know your partner emotionally so well.. And understanding them and developing an unbreakable trust and belief

Does having a physical relationship only measures the depth of a relationship.??!!. Then I strongly will go against it.. Love, trust, respect should be the first in every relationship and that is depth of any relationship..

Originally posted by: sohit-mishbir

It is not about sonakshi getting educated.. It's about a mother opening to her kid about such matters which most parents don't do.. It was an initiative to initiate the conversation between a parents and children about sex because no one other than them can give the right information first..

Secondly it is a GIRLS' WISH if she wishes to stay virgin before marriage.. Let it be any kind of close relationship... It is her damn wish and IT IS NOT UNHEALTHY OR UNREALISTIC.. there people for whom emotions and connectivity to soul matters and it is ok if she doesn't want to do anything before marriage.. I mean why can't someone respect a girls wish.. Now that's called consent.. Stopping when when your girl says no for that matter be it a boy or girl.. Ur partners' consent should be the top priority..

U know deepika and ranveer never stayed in a live in relationship... It was confessed by her itself.. What deepika rightly said nd I agree with her cent per cent is if you do everything before marriage what would be left to explore between each other after marriage . .

Why can't you take time to know your partner emotionally so well.. And understanding them and developing an unbreakable trust and belief

Does having a physical relationship only measures the depth of a relationship.??!!. Then I strongly will go against it.. Love, trust, respect should be the first in every relationship and that is depth of any relationship..

lol n iif u really think rs n dp didnt hv sex before marriage ever😂😂😂😂😂idk how to even say anything to u then

Originally posted by: Charaiveti

lol calm down. NOONE SAID ia girl has to have sex. The outroar is against the show showing the stereptypical potrayal of women while being bold about rohit n raima. Indian tv as a whole lacks any female lead that owns her sexuality. The one n only presentation is the demure innocent one. If there was a balance bewteen the two types of characters noone would hv said anything.But sexually active women have only one representation on indian tv,the evil vamp bcz how dare a woman be sexual🤪 and yes a 29 year old mumbai girl on tv industry being virgin is unrealistic in a sense, doesnt mean no virgin girls exist but yeah they r rare.

lol n iif u really think rs n dp didnt hv sex before marriage ever😂😂😂😂😂idk how to even say anything to u then

Maybe may not be I am just trusting deepika's words.. Maybe you right too..

But all I meant to say is physical relationship doesn't ONLY define a relationship .. I feel it should not be a measure to be in love or to be out of love.. I mean allowing your own body and soul to be touched by other better half is a very pious act and it is pure... It's should be only love when u get together in this act nd not just mere attraction or infactuation ... That love which you should not regret later.. A love which u can always cherish.. Don't make it look like vulgarity or something dirty because it isn't... Physical relationship isn't everything.. That's all I wanted to say

To be loved or to love is unconditional it shouldn't be bounded by worldly plesures..

Can't really say what the show wanted to potray.. All I saw was a positive step towards starting a conversation between a parent and child regarding a sensitive topic like sex...

Ps: I know I went little too extra with my previous post.. But with everyone these days defining relationship on the physical and sexual appeal just erks me out..