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Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Jab Babita ko hi samajh nahi hai then why should HS look into PB?

And what I've understood is HS is better than the other men out there but he's not extraordinary. He's quite a normal human with limitations and let him just be that.

this is exactly why babita needs financial independence . If hs is like all men with flaws then babita cant give him darja of pati parmeshwar and forget herself in him and become too dependent on him. He could take her lightly if he is also like other men flawed. You have to use some of your mind too in relationships

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

@bold — And she is right.

Didn’t she say to Mini before uptan that even Imarti and Hanuman had arguments. Their marriage wasn’t perfect. There is no such thing as Perfevt Marriage. You fight, you argue and you evolve. In between you make memories and find moments of happiness.

Miya biwi ke jagdo mein padna bhi nahi chahiye. Surface level jagde is so common.

Babita and Hanuman will also fight and argue and evolve. Learn to balance and have memories and moments of happiness.

Haan lekin I thought NB jake samj hayengi dono ko, but I guess not. Thik hai its fine. Both need to realize and understand on their own though.

Now that Chachi is gone, Babita can focus on PB, but I guess she doesn't want to, and HS won't encourage her either... he might be like whatever you wish 🤔. I hope she doesn't give up on PB though, even for Mini's future she shouldn't. Kitne din khush rahegi housewife banke and pati ki seva karke?

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

He could think like that. He is traditional and typical in lot of ways. You grow up hearing and seeing things, That’s how your psyche gets built up. I see nothing wrong with it.

Good thing about him is though, he learns and tries to be progressive. I see him as better than many men out there. Much better person.
But certain traditional approach is difficult to do away with. Like Chachi. She is all for woman’s rights and fights against women abuse, encourages Babita to go to shop yet she was hell bent on making Babita to her seva.

she did say that she wouldnt have interfered if she knew they had a business and there were issues with babita staying home. she though babita was velli at home to seva hi karwa deti hu. chachi was sensible

Originally posted by: naq5

this is exactly why babita needs financial independence . If hs is like all men with flaws then babita cant give him darja of pati parmeshwar and forget herself in him and become too dependent on him. He could take her lightly if he is also like other men flawed. You have to use some of your mind too in relationships

Even if HS is embodiment of perfection, he shouldn’t be given place of pati parmeshwar.

No human should be given the place of God.

Originally posted by: naq5

this is exactly why babita needs financial independence . If hs is like all men with flaws then babita cant give him darja of pati parmeshwar and forget herself in him and become too dependent on him. He could take her lightly if he is also like other men flawed. You have to use some of your mind too in relationships

Well nobody is pati parmeshwar and HS is not any bhagwaan. I didn't mean it financially though. Babita doesn't have to think about that that way. Even if he does take her lightly he will never stop providing for her needs. He will sustain her in whatever capacity he can.

I mean that HS is not sarvavyaapi. He cannot sense problems not concerning him and right now he wouldn't care about PB cause that's not his area of concern.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Hu pann ej kau chu.

That doing seva doesn't mean submissiveness. It can also mean love for people who mean a lot to you.

But in this case, it's all for the best bahu tag. Different tangent 🤣

@bold — I know.

That tag line is hilarious. Nobody I know toils their life long for some tag of mahanta.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Haan lekin I thought NB jake samj hayengi dono ko, but I guess not. Thik hai its fine. Both need to realize and understand on their own though.

Now that Chachi is gone, Babita can focus on PB, but I guess she doesn't want to, and HS won't encourage her either... he might be like whatever you wish 🤔. I hope she doesn't give up on PB though, even for Mini's future she shouldn't. Kitne din khush rahegi housewife banke and pati ki seva karke?

babita has forgotten she had asked mini to reapply for photography course next year. Has she thought where will fees come from ya phir woh bhi HS ki responsibility. Has she asked him if he will be able to afford it otherwise she will continue working and not be housewife until mini completes her studies. She is completely forgetting the logistics. cant believe her to be so irresponsible after what she has seen in life before

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Jab Babita ko hi samajh nahi hai then why should HS look into PB?

And what I've understood is HS is better than the other men out there but he's not extraordinary. He's quite a normal human with limitations and let him just be that.

He shouldn’t. The argument was Babita’s attitude towards PB is wrong so how can Hanuman make her understand. Are but what can he make her understand? Woh Khud bhi toh clueless hai about PB. Even if he comes to know I don’t know how much PB matters to him. He might just say that thik hai.. aapko nahi jana dukan pe toh mat jao.

It’s not like he fell in love with Babita coz she was working. LOL no.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Well nobody is pati parmeshwar and HS is not any bhagwaan. I didn't mean it financially though. Babita doesn't have to think about that that way. Even if he does take her lightly he will never stop providing for her needs. He will sustain her in whatever capacity he can.

I mean that HS is not sarvavyaapi. He cannot sense problems not concerning him and right now he wouldn't care about PB cause that's not his area of concern.

not even when he himself has worked so hard to get PB running along with babita Mini NB & HS. does he have no attachment to what he has given his time for.

Agree babita herself dosent want it but if she wants will he be able to cooperate

i dint say HS is god but the way babita places him on a pedestal. And sustaining mini is also in question not only babita. And there is a difference between sustaining and fulfilling. once HS starts taking her lightly she will feel the pinch of her not being financially stable

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Haan lekin I thought NB jake samj hayengi dono ko, but I guess not. Thik hai its fine. Both need to realize and understand on their own though.

Now that Chachi is gone, Babita can focus on PB, but I guess she doesn't want to, and HS won't encourage her either... he might be like whatever you wish 🤔. I hope she doesn't give up on PB though, even for Mini's future she shouldn't. Kitne din khush rahegi housewife banke and pati ki seva karke?

Nahi karegi give up. That’s show’s main identity. That’s Babita and Mini’s identity.

Sabra rakho aap.