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Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

But that’s the journey. Use yehi to samajna hai. And she will by the end of it.

Ibb pura track toh ek episode mein khatam nahi ho sakta na.

Haan I guess thats where the show is heading now.

I would actually love it if Mini instead of giving pankh to her Babes, thinks about herself and her career and focuses on that now. NB already said she doesn't wanna give any gyaan to miya biwi 😆... toh let them figure it out themselves.

Instead of showing only flaws in Babita, if they balance out the flaws in other characters as well, it works the best. We all know HS has flaws too and has ego, but because Babita's was highlighted so much since the Imarti track, people end up feeling bad for HS. Aisa koi bechara nahi hai wohh 😆...

Chalo I hope to hear sorry from HS for yelling at her. Lets see.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

This is biggest LOL. That makes his apology insincere.

He is not very good in saying sorry and accepting his mistake.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Yes but HS is not that person. He doesn’t want to cripple Babita financially.

Earlier she was kirayedarni and he liked her from afar. Her working woman status didn’t affect him. He doesn’t have prior experience of wife as working woman either. Imarti was housewife.

So Hanuman doesn’t understand the seriousness and small things about having a working woman wife. But that’s the thing he has to learn and both have to grow together.

Marriage is a work in progress. It’s not a one day job. Eventually they will find a balance. Right now they are struggling but this is the part and parcel of being married.

right now the problem is babitas attitude. If she herself dosent want what will HS support her.

HS was wrong with his outburst but babita too hasnt been honest with him about PB issues. she dosent even accept that PB has issues

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Haan I guess thats where the show is heading now.

I would actually love it if Mini instead of giving pankh to her Babes, thinks about herself and her career and focuses on that now. NB already said she doesn't wanna give any gyaan to miya biwi 😆... toh let them figure it out themselves.

Instead of showing only flaws in Babita, if they balance out the flaws in other characters as well, it works the best. We all know HS has flaws too and has ego, but because Babita's was highlighted so much since the Imarti track, people end up feeling bad for HS. Aisa koi bechara nahi hai wohh 😆...

Chalo I hope to hear sorry from HS for yelling at her. Lets see.

yes the way he was so less bothered about mini after the cd incident and now todays incident also. Also he made imarti do seva of his shraabi baapu. Now why couldnt he hire a house help to do it. Is HS one of those men who think seva karna is a womans job.

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

Maybe somebody complained KK that Babita is not deserving partner for HS so instead of some development in Babita's character our clever Kk decided to ruin HS character to make Babita deserving partner for him😆

Ho sakta hai!!! They are probably like we want flawed couple.. not a perfect HS for imperfect Babita... so dono ko flawed bana dete hain.

Tbh, they have always deserved of each other since the beginning.

I was thinking people say why didn't HS marry any other simple woman with no emotional baggage instead of Babita... lekin how would that woman been able to understand Imarti's importance in HS's life, or his unconditional love for Imarti even after she's gone? Most women wouldn't have understood and wouldn't want to be in that situation. Only Babita can because she actually understands it, and respects it too. Dono ek dusre ke past ko samajhte hain and accept each other, which is why they deserve each other.

Originally posted by: naq5

right now the problem is babitas attitude. If she herself dosent want what will HS support her.

HS was wrong with his outburst but babita too hasnt been honest with him about PB issues. she dosent even accept that PB has issues

Hanuman or Babita, no one is serious about PB. Babita doesn’t want to go, Hanuman is like thik hai. Even he doesn’t understand the importance of PB. I don’t put Hanuman on high pedestal that he understands everything. No he doesn’t.

So both has to realize and come to understanding that how will they go about it.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

The argument was that Imarti ke sidha karo Hanuman.

So I said what did she do? Did the seva for him.

Kya ukhaad liya usne?

It’s not about headstrong or not. Sometimes you do things for your partner out of Love. Babita could also be doing things for HS out of love.

Hu pann ej kau chu.

That doing seva doesn't mean submissiveness. It can also mean love for people who mean a lot to you.

But in this case, it's all for the best bahu tag. Different tangent 🤣

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Haan I guess thats where the show is heading now.

I would actually love it if Mini instead of giving pankh to her Babes, thinks about herself and her career and focuses on that now. NB already said she doesn't wanna give any gyaan to miya biwi 😆... toh let them figure it out themselves.

Instead of showing only flaws in Babita, if they balance out the flaws in other characters as well, it works the best. We all know HS has flaws too and has ego, but because Babita's was highlighted so much since the Imarti track, people end up feeling bad for HS. Aisa koi bechara nahi hai wohh 😆...

Chalo I hope to hear sorry from HS for yelling at her. Lets see.

@bold — And she is right.

Didn’t she say to Mini before uptan that even Imarti and Hanuman had arguments. Their marriage wasn’t perfect. There is no such thing as Perfevt Marriage. You fight, you argue and you evolve. In between you make memories and find moments of happiness.

Miya biwi ke jagdo mein padna bhi nahi chahiye. Surface level jagde is so common.

Babita and Hanuman will also fight and argue and evolve. Learn to balance and have memories and moments of happiness.

Jab Babita ko hi samajh nahi hai then why should HS look into PB?

And what I've understood is HS is better than the other men out there but he's not extraordinary. He's quite a normal human with limitations and let him just be that.

Originally posted by: naq5

yes the way he was so less bothered about mini after the cd incident and now todays incident also. Also he made imarti do seva of his shraabi baapu. Now why couldnt he hire a house help to do it. Is HS one of those men who think seva karna is a womans job.

He could think like that. He is traditional and typical in lot of ways. You grow up hearing and seeing things, That’s how your psyche gets built up. I see nothing wrong with it.

Good thing about him is though, he learns and tries to be progressive. I see him as better than many men out there. Much better person.
But certain traditional approach is difficult to do away with. Like Chachi. She is all for woman’s rights and fights against women abuse, encourages Babita to go to shop yet she was hell bent on making Babita to her seva.