Expecting Too Much - Aa Jao Saarey - Full Update Page 1 - Page 13

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Babita is over compensating.. somewhere she still believes that her marriage with Ashok broke apart due to some kami in her.. she is living with her husband after a long time and she seems to be bending over even more than the first time..

As for Hanuman, he is a typical male so not surprised to be honest😆

I'm not getting good vibes from the promo.

Just viewed it again, it says that Maa beti ka rishta jo tha misaal, kya woh reh jaayega ek sawaal.

I've a feeling that Mini will drift away from Babita now in a real serious sense.

Loll, yeh deserving wala mamla kahan se aa gaya?

Who doesn't get into a fight in families? Ek baar kuch keh diya toh ab undeserving ho gaya? If that's the case, then both Babita and HS had yelled at Minnie. Are they both undeserving of being her parents? Babita yelled at HS so many times? Is she undeserving of being his wife? HS yelled at Babita before too, is he undeserving of being her husband?

Like Chachiji said, choti si baat thi. Don't make it any bigger than it already is. And Babita going to the shop for a few hours doesn't cancel out the seva that she did the entire day yesterday.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Why shouldn't Babita have expected to be appreciated for her seva that she did for Khuranas and Ashok? Its normal for anyone to expect appreciation and love in return. Its a different thing that she was delusional she was doing all that seva and crap for Ashok and for love.

HS is different than Ashok. Babita very much realizes this. He does give her the love and attention that she wants and deserves as his wife. She is also trying to over-compensate for her failed marriage. She wants to do anything and everything to appease HS at this point.

She is definitely going the wrong path in the process and loosing her identity. Also, Saroj constantly saying isse jane mat dena, sambhalke chalna is not helping. An honest conversation between HS and Babita is needed pronto so they understand what their expectations are from each other.

@bold — Exactly. Every bahu or lady or person out there toiling herself to do for others, should be appreciated. What kind of a twisted new gen terminology is this that jisne seva ki usi ko gaali.

Bhai aapka time and aapki mindset is different. Earlier all girls were told by their parents to do seva and work in sasural. Sahen karo and let go was the thing hammered in the head. How do you expect different generation’s mindset to be like yours?

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

the first time Hanuman’s under the radar and comes out deserving part.

I bet nobody bets an eyelid when Babita is called undeserving of Hanuman and that she emotionally abuses HS and Mini. Now that kinda extreme I read every other day in the forum. woh sab chalta hai. Bhai HS ko kuch Mat kehna. 😆

Though I agree with you. They both deserve each other. Thru your post I was ranting about the extremes I read and eye roll.

This X 10000

Babita gets raked over the coals for every action or inaction. HS has a halo which is not allowed to be tarnished. The point is.. people constantly ask what did HS see in Babita to marry her. Well.. it is coming out that HS may not have the real knight in shining armor after all. He has like 4-5 out of the seven deadly sins. Both babita and HS are flawed, imperfect people. HS didn't do babita favor by marrying her and neither did Babita. IF anything, it is a marriage of equals.. two people with huge emotional baggage and plenty of character flaws.

Originally posted by: Resham

Yaar yeh deserving word idhar hi aata rehta hai.. Kya karein..

Yes they r humans... They have tiffs.. Arguments .. It's ok.. They r a couple and are in love....

I know....tgey had a fight which any husband wife will have.... Expecting something from ur partner is not wrong...and if u feel theu are not fulfilling that I questioning them is also not wrong....

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

So what’s wrong with that? Everyone deserves the credit and phal for their seva.

If she toiled for Khuranas and they didn’t appreciate her, Khuranas are at fault much more than anyone.

Babita is wrong here to immerse herself in Husband and grihasthi but still if she tools herself for HS, she deserves love and appreciation for that.

yes but giving that leeway to allow others to hurt you is wrong. if you are too dependent on a person he /she will take you for granted

not comparing HS babita situation here but the first thing that men do is crippling a womans financial independence. after that it is very easy to keep them toed into what they want and say. If a woman has financial independence then she will not tolerate anything and have a mind of her own. Men want to control that

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Loll, yeh deserving wala mamla kahan se aa gaya?

Who doesn't get into a fight in families? Ek baar kuch keh diya toh ab undeserving ho gaya? If that's the case, then both Babita and HS had yelled at Minnie. Are they both undeserving of being her parents? Babita yelled at HS so many times? Is she undeserving of being his wife? HS yelled at Babita before too, is he undeserving of being her husband?

Like Chachiji said, choti si baat thi. Don't make it any bigger than it already is. And Babita going to the shop for a few hours doesn't cancel out the seva that she did the entire day yesterday.

Aree people say na Babita doesn't deserve HS and blah blah blah.. ussi context mein baat karrahe hain log.

Mere hisaab se toh they actually deserve each other. I have always said this they deserve each other like no other.. Khudh hi log HS ko channe ke jhaad mein chadate hain 😆

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I'm not getting good vibes from the promo.

Just viewed it again, it says that Maa beti ka rishta jo tha misaal, kya woh reh jaayega ek sawaal.

I've a feeling that Mini will drift away from Babita now in a real serious sense.

Chill chori aisa Koch Na hoga....

Maa beti alag ho gaye to kahe ka show.... It's just a perception....

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

imari jaisi aurat hi egoiatic mardon ko line pe la sakti hai.😆

Imarti ke bare mein what do we know?

2 days was spent on her. We know things about her — those were described by Hanuman only.

Itni sahi thi Imarti yet Hanuman made her do seva of his drunken bapu.

Kya ukhaad liya Imarti ne?