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Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

Lol. She shouldn’t.

so far she has been very sensitive in Imarti matters. I would expect her to continue like that.

Well HS clearly told her during the pizza scene that it was a no entry zone.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I doubt his father ever got him anything. If anyone, it would have been his mom or grandfather. Mom toh mann pasand ka khaana banati ya agar gift dena bhi hota toh sasurji ke saath deti.

Also, it differs for people na? In my family, gifts were a big thing when my brother and I were kids. But ever since we got older (teens and early twenties), gift giving stopped. All we do is cut a cake together and then go out for dinner.

Personally, birthdays aren't a big deal for me. I literally don't give a damn about them chahiye woh khud ka ho ya kissi aur ka. That's just how I am. It's just another day for me. If you want to show you love me or care for me then do it every single day of your life. Don't assign one special day and neglect / ignore me for all the others.

Again, birthdays and how people treat them don't have to be the same for everyone and this fact should be accepted. I just don't understand what the big fricking deal was with Minnie's birthday. Agar koi bhul gaya toh bhul gaya. Baad mein wish ya gift kar denge iss mein itna rhona dhona kyun?

They used to overlook some major things in the past but things have gotten to the point where every little thing is blown up because everyone is overly sensitive. I am not saying birthdays are not important but if they pick on such things then how can they move ahead in life?

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Also, she was clutching the photo frame tightly which was gift wrapped. The photo of the three of them which also stands for the dream of the familial unit that she wishes for them to be one day. If Babita keeps this up, then that dream will remain just that, a dream. And it'll all be her fault.

i wonder if mini saying that 'one day babes will destroy everything then who will she blame it on' may come true in future.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

That will happen for sure. What’s gonna happen when Hanita have their own child? HS ka love for both Mini and his child will be tested? Idk is it’s gonna be from Babita or from society but it will happen. But then again, Mini is 18 so it’s not like the siblings will need same kind of attention/care.

Now I am sure cvs don’t care about Babita’s growth at all. Like they just don’t give a shit. She’s a scapegoat for every drama. Agar growth hogaya toh how will they create drama 🙄

Society toh kam hi bolegi par Babita kuch zyada. My god, the guilt she's going to feel for having this baby I want HS to have a kid of his own but if Babita keeps being this way toh phir rehne hi do.

They really don't. Matlab itni immature kaise ho sakti hai yeh??

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Also, she was clutching the photo frame tightly which was gift wrapped. The photo of the three of them which also stands for the dream of the familial unit that she wishes for them to be one day. If Babita keeps this up, then that dream will remain just that, a dream. And it'll all be her fault.

Worse she will tell HS it’s his fault for not trying harder.

Originally posted by: naq5

i wonder if mini saying that 'one day babes will destroy everything then who will she blame it on' may come true in future.

It's already coming true. Most of these recent siyappes that are happening are all because of her and I can see future ones being because of her too.

I know I sound like I am defending Babita a lot 😆... but I don’t think she will disrespect Imarti or will try to compare herself with Imarti. She has been super respectful and sensible about Imarti so far, and also respects Imarti’s place in HS’s life.

I really hope cvs don’t make Babita do this 😕

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I understand that but again, how do we know he wouldn't have gotten her something once he came back home? Maybe he would've suggested they order something for dinner, or they go out and eat? Cake toh maa beti ne already kat liya so that's out of the question. Maybe he could have suggested they all go out for ice cream or to the park or whatever. But to attack him so viciously just because he didn't bring one fricking gift? Come on, I think that's a bit too much. Since when have we started to evaluate his love based on gifts?

He already feels so horrible about not knowing her birthday and having to miss out on planning something special for it but now he's being made to feel as if he failed her as a father?

I know I'm the only saying this today, but the way HS was being attacked for forgetting one fricking gift - it was a bit too much for me.

You are not the only one. I totally agree, it was blown out of proportion. You can't say that it's the intent that's most important and then harp on about the gift. He was so upset about not knowing it was her birthday, you could see it in his conversation with Lala. I bet he felt even more inadequate and felt at a loss about what to do next, and then came home to being blasted by Babita.

Originally posted by: shazam1

Worse she will tell HS it’s his fault for not trying harder.

Haan haan, kyunki Minnie ka baap ban na hi iski full time duty hai na?

Minnie ne toh aaj khud keh diya ki she doesn't need a father. When Babita finds out about this yeh bhi HS ki hi galti hogi na? Minnie ko toh yeh kehna hi tha kyunki isne koi efforts hi ni daal li.

Somebody PLEASE tell me WHY HS fell in love with this woman and married her????? Mujhe toh koi achi baat dekhaye hi ni deri. Jab se shaadi ki hai, jeena haram kar ke rakha hua hai isne.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

I know I sound like I am defending Babita a lot 😆... but I don’t think she will disrespect Imarti or will try to compare herself with Imarti. She has been super respectful and sensible about Imarti so far, and also respects Imarti’s place in HS’s life.

I really hope cvs don’t make Babita do this 😕

Nowadays I have no hopes from her. CVs isse kuch bhi kara sakte hai.