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Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Yup!

They mentioned everything that we've been discussing at length today. It's good that these issues are addressed and that they know where each other are in terms of their relationship. HS may still wish to be her father but at least he knows that there isn't a time limit for it. And even if that relationship never comes to fruition, at least he can be her guide and friend. That relationship on its own is very special to them both as well.

I think she in some parts said that she doesn't need a father so that HS stops freaking out so much. He's in SO much stress from Babes and everyone else, she doesn't want to be the reason to add some more.

Yes, I also think Minnie wanted to reassure him because let's face it, even if she hesitates on the word hero, he is still her hero and she can't stand seeing him break down and feel like a failure, and keep calling himself one.

One more thing: she said she doesn't need a father and nonchalantly talked about lots of kids like her who had fathers like Ashok, but she didn't say she didn't want one. Which gave me heart... At least we know that she is aware of the distinction and that she still wants him to get there but only if things happen organically. There might be a day when she might voice that want... I would love to see it.

I also think HS wants to be her father more than ever but in the right way, and it made him relieved to know that she didn't have high-sky expectations of him to conform to a certain image. (Although subconsciously I think she does.) He also knows that the hero status is shaky.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Haan haan, kyunki Minnie ka baap ban na hi iski full time duty hai na?

Minnie ne toh aaj khud keh diya ki she doesn't need a father. When Babita finds out about this yeh bhi HS ki hi galti hogi na? Minnie ko toh yeh kehna hi tha kyunki isne koi efforts hi ni daal li.

Somebody PLEASE tell me WHY HS fell in love with this woman and married her????? Mujhe toh koi achi baat dekhaye hi ni deri. Jab se shaadi ki hai, jeena haram kar ke rakha hua hai isne.

Shaant Behna Shaant. Itna gussa sehat ke liye haanikarak hota hai!!!

Originally posted by: naq5

@ bold. exactly she made things only worse ek to daat lagwao and then tell why are things not smooth between you.

why hasnt she tried to talk to mini even once about hers and HS relation. i dont see her doing that. not even after the cd fiasco when she knew mini was hurt. she was fighting with HS but never tried to speak to mini

Yes, she never spoke to Minnie, and I don't think she will.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Haan haan, kyunki Minnie ka baap ban na hi iski full time duty hai na?

Minnie ne toh aaj khud keh diya ki she doesn't need a father. When Babita finds out about this yeh bhi HS ki hi galti hogi na? Minnie ko toh yeh kehna hi tha kyunki isne koi efforts hi ni daal li.

Somebody PLEASE tell me WHY HS fell in love with this woman and married her????? Mujhe toh koi achi baat dekhaye hi ni deri. Jab se shaadi ki hai, jeena haram kar ke rakha hua hai isne.

He should divorce her..Writers should show how to cope up with second time divorce. .It will be path breaking for sure 😆 PB will be the first show to do it

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

@bold - to make it worse or work?

Oops, I mean, work. That was a typo, but maybe my subconscious was thinking of the word "worse". 😆

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

He should divorce her..Writers should show how to cope up with second time divorce. .It will be path breaking for sure 😆 PB will be the first show to do it

Yeah, they want to be 'realistic', right?

Originally posted by: ssuuvvii

He should divorce her..Writers should show how to cope up with second time divorce. .It will be path breaking for sure 😆 PB will be the first show to do it

Pehle Babita ka divorce. Ab HS ka yayyyy 😆

Babita 2 time divorce woman.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Haan haan, kyunki Minnie ka baap ban na hi iski full time duty hai na?

Minnie ne toh aaj khud keh diya ki she doesn't need a father. When Babita finds out about this yeh bhi HS ki hi galti hogi na? Minnie ko toh yeh kehna hi tha kyunki isne koi efforts hi ni daal li.

Somebody PLEASE tell me WHY HS fell in love with this woman and married her????? Mujhe toh koi achi baat dekhaye hi ni deri. Jab se shaadi ki hai, jeena haram kar ke rakha hua hai isne.

Itne bhi ghussa mat karo balikee 😆

Tbh, both Babita and HS have faltered. That’s what the writers are trying to show anyway.

Originally posted by: tk2015

Same. I have hopes of them building up from here and it being a relationship rather than him just being an idol. As kids, some do ideolize their parents. When we grow up, we start noticing things and chinks in our parents' armours. It's apt that as she steps into adulthood, she is noticing HS not being perfect. But it's ok. He's her Hanuman uncle and that's good enough for her for now and they will build on it.

I want some fun and happy times, please. We will see it with the hammer and nail but I hope it continues.

It's been too heavy on the emotions the last few weeks.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I'm toh maha pissed Jean. Matlab khoon jal ra hai mera abhi.

Take a deep breath.

I have been trying so hard not to criticize Babita or saying anything bad about her, to see things from her point of view but again today it's like she took one step forward and ten steps backward. 😡

Minnie knows her very well and she saw once again how in the attempt to fix things Babita was going to ruin her project again.